December 18, 2008
Transformational Choices
The Way We Think & The Way We Speak
When we use language like the transformational choices it puts us into the place where we actually shackle the legs of our camels linguistically. We’re taking our personal power linguistically and saying this is where we’re going. Rewrite your present reality. Write in transformational language and create your outcome with specific language in one paragraph. And then I’m going to ask you to write it in two lines. What you’re going to do is take that big long story and you’re going to write an I am statement toward where you’re choosing to move your life in this particular issue of your life and you’re going to rewrite it, outcome oriented, first person accountable, in conscious language, devoid of language of self-sabotage, deletion, distortion, generalization, negation and disempowerment. If you require to add specificity you’ll have more sentences – like dates and all of that. If you’ve been confused then you’re choosing clarity. If you’ve been lonely and you’re choosing a partnership, define it, put it on a time line, speak toward.
I have confidence in my creative ability. I receive the gift of my father’s life. I have the power to create now.
Give him a hand! What if every word that came out of your mouth was like what you’re rewriting now? What would it be like? You would speak less, is that true? But when you spoke….laser!
I remember when I was very young I got married. What impressed me so much about her was that she spoke very little but when she spoke ….. We’d be in this huge group of people and she would just sit there silently, not saying anything, but when she spoke it was like an earthquake because what came out of her mouth was so laserly the truth from her heart. As soon as that happened I thought, I am completely in love with this woman. What she spoke was from her heart and it had such profound effects upon me. Have you noticed how each of us are speaking? Have you noticed how often want, need and try have been spoken? Our culture has been based upon lack and scarcity and victim archetype. Take the words want, need, try and I don’t know out of your vocabulary and you’ll be doing great.
I am free from worry and I use this freedom to create spiritual fulfillment, to double my income and to nurture my family.
How much – what does double mean to you? Put in a figure.
I am free from worry – you just went into your story and you told all of us that part of your time is spent in worry. So what you get to do is say I claim my peace of mind and I use this freedom to create MY spiritual fulfillment and to double my income to $200,000 OR MORE a year and to nurture my wife, Dawn and my daughter, Caterina.
Whenever someone is speaking in vagueness, it is consistently a form of fear, a fear of feeling the emotional body. When we bring it in and we speak in ‘my’ we associate into the words. You guys look at your statement and put in ‘my’ wherever you see the word ‘the.’
I am powerful, empowering and successful in my work at positive changes hypnosis, relationships with my family and create $300,000 or more in the year 2000. And I am in a relationship and married a loving, empowering, infinitely wealthy, emotionally secure, accepting, fun, fun-loving, playful, young-thinking, brilliant, kind, exciting, active, charismatic, outgoing, compassionate, rational, creative, understanding, generous, very gorgeous, athletic, ever-evolving, family oriented, passionate, self accountable, sharing, honest single man.
Tell the world because when you speak it what happens is that you get to leave your story and step into the new way of being and perceiving.
I am now open to see the love and acceptance of my mother and father.
This is a statement in the course of miracles it says, ‘All things present, past and to come are beautifully planned by one who unconditionally loves you.’
The things of the past – how much life energy have you spent in being a victim in your mind, running the internal blame dialog in your mind and living from the victim archetype of not being loved enough by mother or dad and how much time have you spent and energy wasted, your precious breaths incalculable in its value, on contemplating endlessly the story? There are people who die who at their death bed are still repeating the story of what they did or did not get from their mother or their father, which got reflected into their adult relationships and then got projected onto their adult relationships. So we have the opportunity to do something with our past which we will do tomorrow in a big way.
Join me in tomorrows Blog for more!
Love & Light