Spiritual NLP Blog | Neuro-Linguistic Programming | Change Your Life | Gary de Rodriguez, Dallas, TX

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

For those of you who are coaches and desire a good closing statement to the session, below is what I suggest.

As you dream your dreams at night between now and the next time we see each other, your unconscious mind will integrate everything you have seen felt and heard today.  The integration will align those parts of you which may have been in conflict before in a new and powerful way, creating a passionate momentum towards your goals and outcomes.

All this will occur in your dream states at night. You may or may not remember your dreams, your dreams will only promote a deep sound sleep. Upon awaking you begin the daily steps towards your outcome with passion and commitment in a way that is in alignment with your life purpose. 

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I’d like to introduce you to a process that was introduced to me through an e-mail I received from one of my students and thought it was great as we set forward upon the journey into another year.  Here it is:

 At the end of each year develop a ceremony we will entitle “closing the year”.

Look back at what you’ve accomplished and learned, and get mentally ready for a great new year ahead.   

 
I suggest you spend some quiet time doing each of the following steps:

Step 1 Find a quiet place where you will not be interrupted.  Turn off your phones etc. Turn on some great “mind music”.  Grab a pen and some paper.  Write these things down.  Research has proven over and over that writing is so much more effective than typing this stuff into a computer.

Step 2 Take a look back at all the things you’ve accomplished and the great experiences you had this year.  Spend a few minutes making a list of everything you’ve managed to achieve. Write them all down … the big ones and the little ones.

Call this your 2006 “Victory List.”

You might be surprised at just how much you’ve accomplished in just twelve months.    Be kind to yourself.  Resist the urge to think of this exercise as selfish … it isn’t.  It is powerful.

Step 3 Rid your life of tolerations.  Take a serious look at the things you no longer want in your life; make a list of all the things you’d like to leave behind.

We all have things that get in our way.  We have things in our lives that are long past their ‘use by’ date. I call them “tolerations”. What have you tolerated (and continue to tolerate) that drain you of energy?

Are you willing to get those things out of your life for good … right now?

They include physical objects, poor habits, limiting beliefs, thought patterns that hurt us and others, and yes, even people we no longer choose to spend time with.

Step 4 Think about your dreams for the future. What do you really desire to bring into your life? What experiences would you like to enjoy? What new skills would you like to learn? What would you like to do? How would you like to be?

Make notes, draw a picture or speak into a tape recorder to help you remember your dreams.

Here’s where you might want to spend more than five or ten minutes.  Take as much time as you like dreaming about the future you desire.  See it in your mind.  Make vivid pictures of the way you want it to be.

If you don’t know what you desire, ask yourself the ‘miracle question’:

“If a miracle occurred during the night, and when you woke up tomorrow … everything in your life was exactly the way you’d like it to be, how would you know there’d been a miracle?”

What would you see, feel and hear that would let you know a miracle had taken place?

What are the things, experiences, qualities, and ways of being you’d like to experience more of in the future. Make a list of these.

These can be quite general: Spend more time with your family? Get fitter? Earn more? Learn more? Spend more time in the present moment?

List the things you’d like to attract into your life.

Step #5   Make a list of your goals for the year ahead. What would you like to accomplish? What would you like to learn? What would you like to get? Who would you like to meet? In what ways would you like to grow? What are you committed to this year that you did not do last year?

What really is the power of setting goals?  Think about this very simply idea:

 you have a much better chance of hitting a target when you know what it is.

Human neurology is goal-seeking – so access your incredibly powerful unconscious mind – and make a list of what you’d like to achieve in 2006.

Step #6  Read through your list of last years accomplishments. Congratulate yourself for everything you did right. Put this list (#2) on your left.

Read through the list of things you’d like to leave behind. Forgive yourself for any mistakes you feel you’ve made, and put this list (#3) on your left also.

Take the materials relating to your dreams (#4), and place them in front of you.

Review the list of things you’d like to attract into your life, and put this list (#5) on your right.

Read through your goals for the year ahead, then put this list (#5) on your right also (if you are left handed, lists 1 & 2 on your right and 4 & 5 on your left).

Imagine all the good feelings, thoughts and energies from your accomplishments coming into your body (you can visualize them coming into your body in any way you choose).

Step #7 Change something-anything. We all get stuck from time to time.  We require to learn to welcome.  We can so easily get stuck in a routine that makes our lives dull and boring.  Getting stuck is normal, staying stuck is a complete option!

What should you change?

It really doesn’t matter.  It can be a lamp shade, a bedspread, a piece of art, your route to work, your hairstyle, re-arrange your furniture, clean up your office, throw out all the junk … just change anything and change as much as you can manage.

Step #8  Who can you forgive today?  Forgive someone who may have hurt you.  Even if they are dead wrong.  Wipe the slate clean.  The biggest mistake we can make is to go into a new year with old baggage.

Reconcile all damaged relationships as fast as you can.  It isn’t easy … but it could be the most important thing you do all year.

Step #9  Forgive yourself.  So you weren’t perfect in ‘08 … take solace in the fact that no one else was either.  Forgive yourself and try not to make the same mistakes again.  You are a human being becoming … and you are special.

Step #10  Commit to a life of gratitude which is a wide open road to true and lasting happiness.  Spend more time being grateful and less time being critical.

Make a list of 20 things you are most grateful for.  If you get on a roll, just keep writing. Fill up a legal pad and write more. This is a powerful exercise and a great way to start a new year.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Gary De Rodriguez

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So, this is a story of the triumphs and tragedies of a family, a seeker, a man.  Many of you will have far greater story than I.  However, the depth of drama within the story is not the point.  Our ability to create a new definition of what has happened to us within our story is.  Many of us stay lost within the unresolved emotions of what we did or didn’t receive from our family systems, the beliefs we created from the events that happened to us, the unresolved emotions we harbor in our minds and bodies from our childhood experiences.  Many people, through their lives, live from the core wounds established in childhood, duplicating their family dynamics in their adult relationships and passing those wounds down to their children through their subconscious behaviors.

We demonstrate the subconscious wounds from our childhood to our children which our children model and turn those wounds into their operating strategies for life.  The wounds of the Fathers and the Mothers are then visited upon the sons and daughters.

This cycle will continue through the generations until one soul stands up and seeks the tools to redefine the family patterns and be the one to rise beyond the previous generations efforts for evolution and live life differently.

We have been born into a genealogical combination of both our fathers and mothers ancestral history.  Each generation standing on the shoulders of the previous generations evolutional efforts to love more, fear less and live from the better of their human potential.  Some in our ancestral linage failed miserably and some excelled to a fuller realization to create that better life for their children, loving more fearing less.  

The presupposition I am presenting is there is perfect order and purpose in LIFE down to how subatomic particles behave in relationship to one another.  Within the Quantum field there is no chaos only order (research to back this)

The question we require to ask ourselves is: if there is order and purpose at the subatomic level of particles and waves, the foundational elements of all things material, is there order and purpose to why I have born into a certain set of circumstances. 

Have you ever asked yourself the question why was I born into this family?

Why is my mother like she is? Why is my father like he is?

Why have I had to experience these things I have?

Why have I had to suffer?

Or said to yourself, “I don’t belong here. God made a mistake to make these people my parents.”

If there is order and purpose at the subatomic levels could there be order and purpose in the reason you have been born into the family system you were, had the experiences you have had and been exposed to the triumphs and tragedies of a man and woman who became parents and parented you out of the subconscious patterns of how they were parented.

 

Have you ever felt life has been unfair and fate cruel to have you live experiences you had little choice over as a child that have shaped your life and colored your future.

The principle question I have asked myself is “for what purpose does this serve”

Have you ever asked yourself the question: Out of all the trillions of possible genealogical possibilities I could have been born into, I was born through my father and my mother.

Asking yourself and seeking the answer to this one question holds within its chambers your hidden life purpose, and the path to a powerful and fulfilled life.     

 

I have spent a life time seeking the answers to how I can transform the patterns of my past, be accountable for my own reality and use my life to manage the quantum field of possibility so I create a life of fulfillment contribution and peace from the ashes of a broken family.

 The information contained within this blog has evolved over a lifetime history of searching for answers on how we create sustainable personal change.  How do we evolve our personalities? How do we come to perceive  what we call our reality? And how do we create change within ourselves that lasts.  My search has been a search for myself, to find a answer     to what happened to me within my own family and how I could lift myself out of my own personal hell.  I am the same as many people who experienced the greatest love and the greatest tragedy from the behaviors and wounds that my parents lived.  We have all grown into the identities we are in the emotional pool of our ancestors.  Our parents within the environment of their parents and their parents within theirs down through the generations until the family triumphs and tragedies come to a still point in our life expression.  The question is: do we continue the legacy of our ancestors through our actions, beliefs and valves or do we cull those inherited beliefs and values so we can turn our past into our greatest ally.  This book is written to awaken the curiosity of the reader of a larger picture.  A spiritual perspective of family, life purpose grace, order and share practical useable TOOLS to shift our personal tragedies to our greatest triumphs.  Contained within these pages are TOOLS which work.  Over my lifetime of seeking, these are the TOOLS which changed my life.  My desire is you take less time to discover these simple TOOLS than I did. 

 

The  TOOLS that are presented sustain personal change and potentialize the human condition.  They are TOOLS which awaken our capacity and birthright to affect our destiny by learning how we create our own reality.

It is presented so the reader can learn the power of the three principle components of creating, Language, emotion and imagination and how to begin the great unraveling of our story of the past.

The information contained within these pages places the TOOLS for conscious creating in your hands and opens the door for a life in the mastery of causation.   The information has evolved over my life from the traveling on many dark and lighted Paths.

Each of these Paths represents a jewel in the crown of my identity. Each seeming wrong turn, a light post pointing to another path to take and explore. Always feedback never failure.

  All the different roads being gently and sometimes not so gently led by One who unconditional loves me.   My work has evolved over a lifetime history of searching for answers on how do we create sustainable personal change. How we break the ancestral patterns that run us? How do we evolve our personalities? how do we come to perceive what we call our reality? How do we create change within ourselves which lasts?  My search has been a search for myself, to find a answer to what happened to me within my own family and how I could lift myself out of my own personal hell. 

I am the same as many people who experienced the greatest love and the greatest tragedy from the behaviors and wounds that my parents expressed toward me as a child.

I have come to understand and know that I created for myself the basis of my personality by interpreting my parents actions.  I give my environments the meaning I did, developing my beliefs, values and perception of the world.  When I accept I am the one who shaped myself and my reality I then have the power to change.

(More tomorrow)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Gary De Rodriguez

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 In September,  I gathered my Master Mind group from Australia around a fire tonight here in beautiful Santa Fe under a star filled sky. Each one of us prepared to work with a Lakota elder, Navajo fire keeper and a Cherokee teacher.  Tomorrow is going to be a big day for us all as we enter the sweat lodge and recieve the powerful teachings of these Native American elders. As I have worked with my group for nearing a year now,  I have witnessed many of my group being wounded in a similar way.  In fact most of the coaching clients I have had the honor to work with, have been wounded in the same way. 
This common thread is our finances. 
So many of us are experiencing trading time for money and remaining a slave to the grind.  My clients who have experienced this issue has stated to me that they desire to be free from worry and live from abundance while contributing back to others.
I have a vision that there is a new paradigm arising in our world that is lifting up the concept of conscious capitalism.  A way of doing business and thinking about business that supports our capacity to leave a legacy of good based in our innate humanity. This movement of creating more humanity in business, establishes a business culture where people desire to belong and with systems for paying it forward in our communities.
I view each one of us as an entrepreneur. A person capable of creating wealth through their knowledge, with the ability to create positive impact on people and communities they work with.  The concept of becoming a entrepreuner is a learned system with internal methodologies and forms of thinking as well as external strategies for action.  The objective being: to create enough wealth passively so we can begin paying it forward.  
Sounds good right?  But so few people know HOW to get what is in their heads into a profit center.
I believe too many of us live from worry, financial fear and as a consequence we radiate these emotions into our world and unfortunately receive the evidence of what we believe and feel to be real in our everyday lives.
My dream, is to change people’s relationship to money and possibility by breaking through the Inner Self Sabotaging beliefs and strategies from our past.  I desire to provide proven strategies for creating passive forms of income from what you know and turning that knowledge into a saleable product over the internet. 
I have joined with my good friend Stefanie Hartman who is the premier authority on internet strategies for turning ideas into a profit center.  We are on a mission.
Our governments and religions can’t fix or provide the necessary assistance our communities require, but conscious entrepreneurs with heart and a mindset of knowledge and skill can. 
You may not be ready to reach outside your comfort zone but then again this my be the pivot point you require to turn your life in a new direction. 
I know we all require to heal the wound of lack in our lives and it is a two fold path. 
One part of the equation is to do the inner work.  The other is to know the strategies that will guarantee results. 

 
Whatever your current situation is, whether you know the time has come to take your knowledge and begin the emergence of the Enlightened Entrepreneur or continue on the Path you are currently following. The bottom line for me is the importance of contributing back into our communites and the people who we are inclined to help. Pay it forward with a smile or a random act of kindness; pay it forward with a monetary contribution no matter how small. 
Be the Angel you have come to be.  

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Gary De Rodriguez

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