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Language is Powerful Choose Wisely

Regarding word choices, is it possible to just change what you associate to want and if that word is so ingrained in our society it seems that, if we could just change how we internalize it, that would be a much easier thing than trying to police our vocabulary and every one else’s around us?

That would be great if it worked that way.  However, the subconscious mind takes our language literally which means that because we are raised as English speaking people, that word is ingrained in our culture and it has a very literal meaning and the literal meaning keeps us out of choice, power and outcome.  When we speak the word, because of our conditioning to our language and what it means, which goes for generations back, what it literally means is more desire without ever having realization of the desire.  And as we constantly repeat that word to ourselves in our vocabulary, we are impregnating our subconscious mind with the experience and the future experience of consistent desire without the realization of it. 

It has been proven by science that there is light and sound at the core of every atom, that there is a frequency, a vibration, that holds physical matter together.  This is where I’m a firm believer in the marriage of science and mysticism.  Because when I was very young I was following a path of yoga called the surachavid (?) yoga and it is yoga of the sound current.  And the whole premise is that there is an audible sound that is the spiritual frequency of god manifesting through the different densities of matter that is audible during meditation if your mind becomes still enough.  These sounds exist.  The vibration that everything is like the table vibrating at a different density than my shirt.  That’s why the table is hard like that.  And there is a frequency that causes that to happen.  And in subtle enough forms of consciousness the frequencies are audible.  This is why everything that exists is based on sound and vibration.  And our words carry a sound and vibration that we feel and sense on many different levels.  So when we think about sound and the association to what the energy is behind a word it may seem like nothing to our consciousness as we stand here in our personality, but to the subtle bodies it has a great effect.  Our language goes back thousands of years.  It had impact on us through thousands of years of conditioning.  What I’m saying is that if you consistently use the word want you will be programming your subconscious mind with that word and the resonance of that word for more desire without ever having the outcome of it.

See, whenever you go to I am, you automatically get there.  It’s the highest upgrade that you can do.  Rather than I will or I’m going to – I am.  Blank paper please.  I have consistently talked to you ability to go to sleep in a state that is resourceful and in your outcome.  Going to sleep at night, stepping into your circle of excellence before you go to sleep, eye pattern scramble of anything that may have happened or five memories from the past that you’d like to feel differently about.  You can set yourself up to go to sleep at night in the most potent place for being able to get to outcome, therefore imprint your subconscious mind that night for outcomes to follow.  This is a precursor to mind mapping.  This is an alternative to mind mapping.  I’ll share it with you now.

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Love & Light

Gary De Rodriguez

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So let’s just close your eyes for a moment.  Let’s just take three breaths together, deep inhale in, relaxed exhale out.  The waking 2/3 of your life on earth ever collaborates or bears witness to your subconscious impressions.  The actions and events of your day are simply effects.  They are not causes.  Free will is only freedom of choice.  Choose ye this day whom ye shall serve is your freedom to choose the kind of emotion you assume.  The expression of the emotion is the secret of your subconscious.  Your subconscious receives impressions only through the feelings of man and woman and in a way known only to itself gives these impressions form and expression.  The actions of man and woman are determined by their subconscious impressions.  His or her illusion of free will, his or her belief in freedom of action, is but ignorance of the causes which make them act.  They think themselves free because they have forgotten the link between themselves and the event.  Man and woman awake is under compulsion to express their subconscious impressions.  If in the past they unwisely impress themselves then let them begin to change their thoughts and their feelings for only as they do so will they change their world.  Do not waste one moment in regret for to think feelingly of the mistakes of your past is to reinfect yourself.  Let the dead bury their dead.  Turn from appearances now and assume the feeling that would be yours were you already the one you’ve wished to be. 

I’m going to talk a little bit about the NLP model of communication yet once again because I firmly believe if people truly understood and embodied this model, the planet would instantaneously shift and change – if we understood this model.  The information comes into the five senses and the secret of whether we create heaven or hell is in our filters.  Our filters consist of our memories and if those memories are loaded with negative, unresolved emotions we will have a knee-jerk response to the events coming toward us in the now.  There is a process in NLP called a trans-derivational search.  That is a word that describes the process that happens in how we sort our reality.  The information comes in through the five senses.  Our mind automatically does this thing called an trans-derivational search.  Where our mind goes back into our files of experience to bring forward a strategy that this event reminds us of to assist us in interacting with this event.  So if we have a ton of emotions in the past that are linked to specific memories and an event comes toward us that is reminiscent of those memories or that reminds us of those memories, we will bring forward to the experience now a whole luggage full of unresolved negative emotions and over react.  How many of you have over reacted in the past?  How many of you have been over reacted to?  And you’re going, ‘how can this person possibly have this reaction to what I just did?  It was so benign.’   Why do you think that is?  Their trans-derivational search process, whatever you did or didn’t do, triggered off something from their past and when they perceived through the distortion of their unresolved experiences from their past, they projected onto you the unresolved events back there and overreacted toward you. 

How many of you have said, ‘I think that you’re not in relationship with me.  You’re in relationship to your other three past lovers.’  Meaning you’re bringing so much negative emotion into this experience, it’s just not this experience.  It’s stuff back there.  How many of you have been in relationship with people when you feel like you’re their parent because of the unresolved wounds from the past?  So it seems logical to me that, if we are going to shift the filters, that we get to do something with the emotions of the past.  Is that true?  In order for us to sustain emotional states that are optimal for outcome, for imprinting the subconscious mind, it’s very challenging if we’ve got a ton of dialog going in here about how we are victims of the past.  If we’re carrying a lot of negative emotions around with us that are unresolved it will be very challenging to stay emotionally resourceful enough to be in the imagination of your outcome.  What we’re going to do this morning is work with a variety of different NLP processes.  They truly are tools for life.  Once you learn them they are literally keys for your mind.  You can take them and utilize them to the highest degree possible and run with them and change your life.  My highest outcome is that you take all the tools and really work them.

More to come tomorrow

Love & Light

Gary De Rodriguez

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The Way We Think

When we use specificity we evoke emotions.  An example of vagueness is, ‘I’m going to change my relationship.’  Questions to ask are ‘from what into what’ – What is your outcome?  Where are you going?  State outcome, higher vision for the relationship.  I happen to be in an amazing relationship.  When I go off track and I’m giving the 411 on someone – whatever the really limiting thought would be, I am so beautifully asked, ‘what is your higher choice for that person?’  Is that your highest thought, Gary?  What is your highest thought?  Would it be great to have a relationship like that – where you’re supporting each other and keeping the focus to do good with the energy of your mind.  Would that be a good thing?

Create my dreams.  Into what?  Define your outcome and visions with specifics.  Make more money.  Your subconscious mind says, ‘Too vague, too vague.’  So you get to get specific.  I’ve been mind mapping a certain amount for a year and a half now.  I’ve yet to reach it.  I’m moving closer to it than I was before.  Mind mapping actually comes from Tony Bezanne who wrote the book on mind mapping.  Bob Stevens who I learned mind mapping from would say that mind maps he did 30 years ago, he’s getting results from now.  Plant the seed.  Have no attachment to when it’s going to sprout. 

Manifest my goals.  Define outcome by when and how.  

Heal my relationship.  Into what?  Define outcome and vision for the relationship.

How many of you have a higher purpose for your relationships?  Great.  When you write out a higher reason why you’re together, it creates a reference point for you to be able to really link from.

Heal my past.  Into what?  State outcome.  By when. 

Have the body I dream of.  What weight?  What size?  By when and how.

Our subconscious mind is programmed through our language, thought and emotion.  Repetition is the key to how our thoughts become manifest.  If we are habitually thinking and speaking in vague terms, deleting the specifics, we will habitually stay in process.  The reverse is true.  When we habitually focus on our outcomes with specificity we become masters of our destiny. 

In the language of distortion we’ve reduced vagueness by omitting personal and specific information.  By using distortion we speak non-personally, unrealistically, to avoid feelings.  Emotions are the key ingredient to having our word manifest.  Remember, our subconscious mind takes our language literally.  Examples of distortion: everyone and no one – who specifically.  Does what you are saying include or exclude all people on the planet who ever lived throughout time?  Everything and nothing.  What specifically?  Does what you are saying include or exclude all things that ever existed physically and non-physically throughout time?  Always and never.  When specifically.  Does what you are saying include or exclude all time from the beginning of time into infinity.  Everywhere and nowhere.  Where specifically?  Does what you are saying something that remains a constant forever?  Absolutely and perfectly.  Stops the possibility of having more.  Our subconscious mind requires specifics to produce emotions.  Emotions are required to imprint the subconscious mind.  Specifics in language produce emotion. 

Examples of vagueness – everyone really loves me.  The upgrade is on the following; they never did the best they could.  My mother, my father did the best they could.  I always feel this way in a relationship.  When I become intimate I feel vulnerable.  Everything is a mess.  My work station requires organization.  I can’t find a job anywhere.  I’ll continue to interview for my ideal career. 

Now, imagine if you walked around saying in your mind, ‘I can’t find a job anywhere.’  What are you going to manifest?  Have you ever seen a person who has been rejected over and over again for jobs and they walk in with their shoulders slumped and their head down.  Some of you have your own business and you hire and you know.  When a person walks in you know when they are present.  I absolutely believe in you.  I continue to believe in you.  I swam perfectly.  I continue to improve my stroke.

Speaking with specifics produces emotions.  Language spoken with emotion imprints our subconscious mind so our spoken word has the power to manifest.  When we use excessive generalizations in our language we disconnect from the people, places and things in our lives.  Excessive use of generalizations is one of the primary ways we stay disconnected from our feelings.  In the context of relationships, which occupy a great deal of our everyday lives, we tend to generalize excessively.  When we reference our relationships through vague language, some of which are pronouns, we stay disconnected and numb.  Our subconscious mind requires emotions in order to manifest our outcomes. 

Generalizations they and them – Who specifically?  He, Him and Her – who specifically.  It – what specifically.  The – what specifically and who specifically.  That and those – what specifically.

Examples of things through the language of generalization: They’ve always been like that.  In the past my mother and father have been abrupt.  It will get the results I desire.  My nutritional program will achieve the results I desire.  I have respect for them.  I have respect for my mother and my father.  Some day I will forgive him.  I forgive Jason.  I absolutely believe in you.  I continue to believe in you.  Some day I will really use it.  I am changing my language. 

Language of negation.  Our subconscious mind takes our language literally and personally.  When we use a language of negation we are speaking to what is not rather than to what is.  I will explain.  Whenever you begin a sentence with, I’m not, or it’s not or a negation like that, there is a huge red flag moving into your story.  As soon as you begin to start speaking a negation you’re going into your story.  So use that as a red flag for yourself.  When I start speaking in negations I’m going to start talking about my story.  I’m going to take this god-given power of mine, which is my ability to create my reality as I think it, feel it and language it and I’m going to take this preciousness that I have and I’m going to speak about the story.  And then I’m going to make more up about the story. And I’m going to live more out of my story.  And you know what.  You’re going to get the evidence that your story is true.  And that’s what happens.  Over and over again.  Until we wake up to the very system that we’ve been using, that we’ve already mastered, you’ve already done it.  You’re doing it right now.  Everything I’m speaking about you already know.  The only difference is your mind has been focused on the story.  And your language, which represents your thinking, which is a symbol of your thinking, has languaged it and continues to language it as if the story were still true.

I was on the radio Wednesday morning on KFNB and got lots of phone calls to the office and this woman called.  She was very, very sick.  Bedridden with MS and in excruciating pain.  I called her and I said, ‘I notice you called the office and you were inquiring about tapes.’  I sent her out the Life Purpose tape and the Master Your Destiny as a gift so she could just listen to those.  Before we hung up she spent at least 20 minutes on her story, telling me why she could not get well because if she got well it means her husband would win because he walked out on her and they’re in this horrible divorce.  She said, ‘I don’t get enough to eat.’  I said, ‘Here’s the phone number for Meals for Wheels.  Here’s the phone number for Mama’s Kitchen.  They’ll provide free food if you’re bedridden.’  And she said, ‘Oh, I can’t do that.  Because if the lawyers find out, they’ll think that I’m more able and then I won’t get the settlement that I desire.’  I’m getting those tapes to her!  And my highest choice is that she really understands how she is keeping her disease in place by the secondary gain of it all.

Please join me tomorrow for a continuation of this.

Love & Light

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The Human Mind

Part of the human experience is to wonder how it is you came to be the person you are. This kind of self awareness is what differentiates us from the rest of the species that inhabit this planet. From the moment you descended from your Mother’s womb you have been creating a belief system: It’s cold. I’m hungry. There’s no love here. Mom is scared. Etc., etc.

As we continue to ascribe meaning to the world around us, we constantly perceive our experiences through the filters of our belief system. As an infant, our experience and perceptual ability is limited and thus are the beliefs we create at that time. We did our best with the tools we had. And as we continue to experience life, we continue filtering our impressions of the world around us based on that core belief system, flawed as it may be. Any new beliefs we acquire are-often with tragic results-based upon a core belief system that is limited in scope and has perhaps outlived its real purpose in our lives. Yet we continue to rely on this shaky structure because it has serviced us for so long. We know nothing else!

Some of our early choices can be our greatest allies or our most persistent tormentors. If our choices torment us, years of heartache may result. Yet because our filters our muddied by incorrect belief systems, we manifest the same heartache over and over and over again.

What most of us fail to realize is that whatever we perceive to be an inescapable reality is merely a creation of our own making. This is because we each respond to the people around us via an emotional state we’ve elicited from the meanings we create and assign to the people in our lives. This is how our identity and self esteem evolves.

In summary:

THOUGHT POWER + BELIEF = EMOTIONS = BEHAVIOR & ACTION = REACTION TO THE WORLD = EGO IDENTITY

So I ask you this: Is your ego identity helping or hindering the fulfillment of your life purpose?

Next time I’ll discuss the three elements of your psyche which bring about the reality you experience as your today, as your tomorrow, and yes, as your past.

Love & Light

Gary De Rodriguez

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