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Question:

It makes sense when you say “In that moment” because that tells us that based on the choices we have made: this is possible.

 

Gary:

Yes, based on the choices that we have made collectively until this point, this is what is possible out in the future.

 

Question:

And if I choose to sit in a room for the next 3 years it would be different.

 

Gary:

Yes, based upon the course of actions we take from this point forward whatever we experience 10 years from now out on our future timeline could take a shift. So that is why I think, the choices we make in each moment happens to become like a really sacred experience, where we have to begin to look at, and I just wrote about this, that every moment in time we have is an opportunity to either solidify the programming that we have already received or to shift the course of action and to shift the course of response to the world in a way that is in alignment with our soul. And we have that choice moment to moment to moment and our relationships happens to be the place where we play that out the most. Like Robert and I when we walk around, we like to joke around a lot, we joke around all the time, so we would see someone and we would go ” hm, who coordinated that accessory.. and we won’t make some sort of comment like that and we are constantly reminding each other, it is like: walk nice-give nice! And we would pass by someone who is really damaged on the street and we would look at each other and we would go: “did you do a prayer for them, as we walked by them?” It is about using our focus on our consciousness in a way that is going to produce that kind of person I am choosing to evolve into. I am not always there. I am there moments of time and it is a choice. So it depends on what we are choosing to do in those moments of time. I could live as easily in fear and scaresity as I could in my knowingness that I can create my life as I choose by focusing on certain things and being relentless until I achieve them. I can either be in fear in smallness and in a sense of victimization as easily as I can do the other of empowerment of choosing to produce my world in a way that is aligned with higher values for me. I could do ether. How many of you know, that when you wake up in the middle of a day you can either lay in bed and eat bonbons and watch TV all day or you can get up and you can write a book. You can literally do either or. And how you experience those experiences is how what you are going to evolve into and what you are going to be more of. I know that there is plenty of days I could just stay in bed, watch movies all day, eat lots of really bad food. I could easily, and I refuse. It is being relentless.

 

Question:

Do you have any tips, tricks, hints for those of us who are striving for relentlessness?

 

Gary:

Yes. Run this phrase over and over in your head: “Time is more precious when there is less of it to waste”!

You see, when you watch people die and you know that you could be that person, and for some reason you are not and you know that there is no more time for them, that time is over and the tremendous amount of agony at the things that were not and could not now be experienced, is overwhelming.

So, what I know is that procrastination kills the soul. It just kills the soul. It stifles your dreams. It robs you of your life-purpose and it creates such an immeasurable fear at the time of your death, because you realized you did not want you came here to do and the regret could fill an ocean. And I refuse to die like that.

I mean, some people think I am absolutely nuts for moving to Australia. They go like: You are just nuts, buddy! You are going to be 52 and you take your career that you have built for 20 years and you have it be up in the air for a while and then go to a whole other continent to see what you can create out of scratch? That is nuts! I ought to be retiring. And at the end of the day, you know what I have? I have my stories about what   had the courage to do. I don’ t have anything more than that. So, I figure go do something extreme. And that is pretty extreme, wouldn’t you say? I am a really creative guy, and I figure I can create something fabulous. One day I had a really good gig in Sydney. That is great, I got a corporate training company that is Australia-wide to hire me for two days to come in and training their people. And, so all the big VIP’s are coming to watch me. That could be huge! That could be just huge. Things are just going to happen, and I just have complete faith. What I guess I am suggesting, what I am really doing is, I am following the life speak. I am following the metaphors of how life is opening up doors and closing other doors. And I am following it. And I am following also what I feel and I am listening to life. And life has sent me so many messages about being in Australia for years. Did I tell you guys, the story about that psychic surgeon that did some work on me in Australia? Very interesting woman. My sponsors down there scheduled an appointment with me with this little lady, in sort of the outback of Australia. She has this little house out there in the suburbs somewhere and they booked this appointment saying: You have to go and see her. I was like: Bloody hell, I am going to go, I am going to lay down on this table in the middle of pictures of angles everywhere, the room is going to be pink and she is going to do some little woowoo and cantation. and I am going to look at her, saying ‘yeah that was really great’ and act like I had a big shift and walk out! I will do it for you guys. So, I go there, sure enough the room was painted pink, it was lavender, pictures of little angels everywhere, and I am like ” I knew it”. She is like doing her thing, hands and left hand up and right hand down on my body and going through the centers of my body saying things about what the angels are saying. I am like:’yeah, yeah..”. I kind of looked at that wall clock on the wall, thinking: ok, I am going to have another half hour! I am going through all this. Suddenly she came over to my left side and she says: ‘they told me to do something that I have never done before, so don’t freak out!’. I am like: ‘Oh great!!’. So she comes over and literally it’s like I felt two hands enter through, like energetic hands, spread my ribcage and enter into my body, and then surround my heard like this. All of the sudden there was this starburst of light and went of inside of me. My eyes were closed, and I was like ‘ that feels really weird.’ And I felt like there was these hands around my heart and then this starburst just happened. I opened up my eyes and I said: ‘What the hell are they doing?” Then, I was a believer. She said: “They just replaced your broken heart, because they said: ‘you can no longer do the work you are destined to do with the heart you have had.

I guess, if I could say something about my personality, I am not a happy person. I am basically a depressed person – in the past. I am not one of these guys ‘hey, I am happy, life is great, everything is wonderful..’ I am like ‘life sucks!’ And I am in a lot of pain, and I am lonely and I don’t like it here and I would like to go home, I don’t have to be here and life sucks! That is kind of my disposition. And of course, when I came back from that she sat me down and she said:’ I look at the world and she says ‘the visions I have had is, in 10 years none of the continents look the same, except for Australia. All the continents are different.’

You know the poles are shifting? Science has proven it, NASA has proven it, the poles are shifting. It is in the process of shifting. The poles are, they just are. There is animals migrating north instead of south right now. The world is in a very interesting place. She said to me: “I see healers migrating to Australia”, and she said “you are one of the heavy guns, you have to be here.” And I went “no,no.”

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Question:

Is there one reality, is there one God or is there just multitudes of internal representations of whatever that life-force is?

 

Gary:

I would say, at this level of consciousness that there is multiple levels of interpretations, because we are in the ultimate form of separation in the human body, and in this, the way that we perceive through the density of our bodies through the density our minds, and especially our egos we can only see through the filters of what we have made up about the outside world individually. So, yes we will describe individually a different meaning and a different interpretation to the thing called god because we are attempting to understand it. And we can only understand it through the filters of our individual collective experience. At another realm of existence there is only one God. There is just one energy that is emanating out throughout creation and animating all things. So, I would say to you: Yes and Yes! At one level of existence there is only one God; at our level of existence, there are a myriad of Gods according to how we have separated ourselves of and created our own individual creations to be what they are.

Remember that story I told about my time in India? Where the Master was giving Dorchen (?)

And I was sitting in the audience and the Master’s eyes walked onto mine; I lost consciousness of my body. It was like in an instant, even less than an instant, I was in this milky way of lights. And all that was in existence was love contemplating itself, individuated but yet, the same.

And it is very difficult to describe but it was this feeling of: I am not different than this glowing orb in the middle of this galaxy of lights but I have individuation. But, what makes it the same is the intense love that is being contemplated. It is almost like love contemplating itself. And at that level of existence there is nothing but just love contemplating itself. Now, I remember the Master used to be asked: Why did creation begin? And as I think back, it was maybe a minute, maybe not even that, maybe just a second that I was in that state, and I remember in that state, I said: Oh my God, I am with God! And I also remember that the intensity of love was so intense, I had the thought: “If that is what I experienced all the time, I would be bored.”

I remember having the thought, and as soon as I had the thought I was back down in my body and my eyes opened and the Master was moving on to someone else. And I thought, ha, so that is how creation began. We got bored with the love. And we took a little trip!

And we said to ourselves: We would like to experience more. And so each of us splintered off to experience more. And do you remember one of the Star Track movies, one of the first ones? Voyager? That little satellite that got sent off into space and came back as this monolithic all-powerful conglomerate of every learning it had ever had seeking? Its’ God, its’ creator? I kind of think that is how we are.

We have gone of seeking, now we are seeking back to that love, that we miss so much. Most of us just want to go home. Like, we just want to go home.

And it is now up to us, those of us who are really having that longing to seek for the way to achieve that and find that realm of oneness once again. Because, quite frankly, it is not a whole hack of a lot of fun here, after you have done the sex, you have done the drugs and you have done the money, you have done all of that. It is just not a whole hack of a lot of fun!

 

Comment:

You can repeat this!

 

Gary:

You can repeat this for eternity and there is no judgment! That is just what your soul is choosing to do. My soul is choosing: Get the hell out of here!

 

Question:

If we get back there, are we going to get bored again?

 

Gary:

I certainly hope not!

From the prospective: If we have already experienced all of this, then, we kind of know what there is creation has to offer. There is no doubt that there is pleasures here, right?

 

Question:

Do you think that we will remember?

 

Gary:

I don’t know. I think, once we leave here, we will definitely be in that place of waking up from the dream. You know, when we wake up from a dream, the dream evaporates out of our consciousness and it just fades into nothingness. I think, that is how our memories of our existence, our egos, our identities will be. We get to think of the fact that in Quantum physics they have proven that there are eleven different dimensions to reality. Which means that there is vast possibilities for existence of consciousness. Vast! And you hear about people who contact the relatives on the other side. And the relatives are speaking to them and the relatives are very attached and everybody is saying: Oh G, my relatives are in heaven!

In my prospective, there is many, many different levels of existence and depending on what your attachments are that is where you go. So, when people tap into, let’s say ‘the other side’ and are talking to the relatives, I am saying: God, that’s a pity! The relatives are in some sort of lower astral heaven, hanging out, still totally attached to what is down here, so how far did they really progress? So, in a way, that’s not really heaven, is it? If that realm of existence is still attached to what is happing here then there is a possibility that the attachments to people, family, friends is not really what I would call heaven! It is just another level of existence outside of the realm of the 3-dimensional body. But it is not heaven.

 

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If they stay there, to support us here, that is a very high level of love, isn’t it?

 

Gary:

It can be. I mean, if you think for a moment of what brings families together? What if we have been traveling with the same set of souls for eternity? What if? Why do you think we were incarnated to the very specific family units we were incarnated into? If we did not have vast historical karmic bonds to these people?

So, it is really important that we heal the family dynamics in this lifetime, because we just will travel with them for eternity until we do. I think that there is some sort of core bond with individuals that we have incarnated through. Why out of all the billions of genealogical combinations you could be incarnated in through you came through your mother and your father? Who chose that? If we actually chose that I believe that we chose that for some sort of spiritual evolutionary purpose. It is not, that our bodies and egos do not suffer, they absolutely do. But if we are choosing that and we have chosen it for our own spiritual wake-up-call then somewhere in the metaphor of the family dynamics, there is a huge spiritual lesson. For what our soul is attempting to teach itself, for whatever experiences we think we are lacking. So then our family becomes this doorway, this gateway into enlightenment, as do our relationships with the men and the women that we have come in contact with. You know those ones, this principle male and female figures that have floated into our lives and often times floated out again, that they hold some significant value. Significant! I have talked to you guys before about that nine-year-relationship I was in, where it was just torturous and I was in some much pain about it? And I would say, out of that, I got to face my really deepest shadow-sides. All my incongruencies, that I couldn’t tell the truth, I could not keep my word: It was just awful! I got to just look at all of that about myself. And come out of that experience, going: OK, I only will commit to what I know I can keep my word to. My truth is more important than anything, my integrity is more important than anything, because I have got to experience the other side of that: Having no integrity and living outside of my own truth. It was so painful I could hardly stay in my own skin. So, unless I would have had this type of experience I doubt if I would value my word as much as I do. Because, I know the pain of the other path, widely taken. We definitely suffer and we definitely act badly at times, aren’t we? What are we teaching ourselves from the reaction that we get from the world based upon our particular atrophied aspects being expressed? We get to feel the pain of it, don’t we? What is that teaching us? And when the pain gets really big, we generally stop doing what we do. I wish we could learn outside the realm of pain but I have yet to notice that I do. I don’t know about the rest of you but I haven’t noticed that I don’t… like I would really get happy: Oh, G, that is so great, I think I will do that all the time. Because generally only when I am in mortal pain then I stop doing what I am doing and I will do something else. Anyone else noticed that about themselves? 

 

Question:

I was thinking about reality and perception, and it looks like that there is no reality; it is only perception, for example this chair. Is it a chair? Is it a piece of wood, or if you move closer just molecules?

 

Gary:

It is all-subjective. Reality really does not exist at this realm. It just does not.

 

Question:

What is real?

 

Gary:

We can agree upon it. This is why NeuroLinguisticProgramming becomes so important because it gives us the tools to learn how to navigate our way through the hallucinations in a world that is based on subjective experience. Because, every one of us is hallucinating. And unless we have profound tools to teach us how we have constructed our reality and how other people construct reality we do not know how to navigate our way through this. What causes the bulk of the pain for most human beings is that there is no connection here. There is no connection here.

 

Question:

Are we really in relationship with one another or are we in relationship with our hallucination of the other person?

 

Gary:

That’s big, and I will say, if I was to make up something about that, that this is exactly right. That we are in relationship with our hallucination of the other person and at another level there is often times in core principle relationships, there is history there. There is like lifetimes of history with a person. And that there can be at times a deeper level that is an operation that has to do with the soul, like two souls recognize each other. And even then though at this level of how we function here in the density of matter, because sometimes I feel like I am in a deep-sea diving suit. You are looking out at the strange world through a series of masks. My ego that has made up whatever it has made up about life and love and right and wrong and love, whatever love can be here, is what I have to operate through to make a connection with another person. So, I have to operate through all this outer ware to be able to connect with someone’s soul. And there are moments where we can. There is moments when you can look into another person’s eyes and you see them. Through all the different layers of defenses that each person has around love. So I will say, no we are not in a relationship with one another we are in relationship of what we have made up, our hallucination, but I will also say that there is moments when this hallucination falls apart and you are able to see into the other person. I have not experienced that often, but there is periods of time especially in my current relationship I can say the first time I can experience glimpses where everything just drops away and there is just love. How many of you had that? Everything just drops away and there is just love left, just an instant. It does not last very long, just an instance. And sometimes that is all it takes. That is all it takes, it just an instance, where you kind of touch eternity for just a moment.

Question:

When you step out on the future time-line and you experience certain experiences what are you actually experiencing?

 

 

Gary:

That is a big question.

Time is like a river. And when we are standing in it in that moment and we step out in the future time-line and we experience an experience what I would make up about that is that is what is possible at that moment in time to be in the future. However your choices from that moment on can affect what you experienced out there on the future time-line. So, at that moment collectively of all the things that you are in that moment when you step out into your future time-line, what you access is what is possible from the context of that moment. But the choices you make from that point forward can either turn you to left or to the right or keep you focused on your outcome.

 

Question:

If you stepped out into the future-time-line five minutes later, it could be different?

 

Gary:

It could be somewhat different. This is a really big question, and I will say, I don’t have the answers to this one. But I will take a step at it: The whole idea of pre-destination and the whole idea of karma, because they say in India, that when a soul enters the body it passes through the sea of forgetfulness and for a moment it sees all the things that it will experience in time. I think we have conditioned free will. I think we also have the ability to affect the future. I do believe that there are things that are indelibly imprinted upon our life-experience that will come to pass. And how we float through those experiences is whether we bring away a scar or we bring away a blessing. And that is where the free will and the internal resources come into play. And that is where I believe we can change the course of our destiny is how we respond to the pre-determined circumstances of our live. Does that make any sense? Because, I know, if I was born into a nomadic tribe in Africa I have the same neurological possibilities as a wealthy Jewish child born in New York City. I have the same neurological possibilities but my karmic path is different. How my neurology is imprinted by the values and the beliefs of my environment and my ancestry deeply affect the choices I am going to make and how those choices will be governed by the values of my collective culture around me. And that has been pre-determined. They say in India that every hair on your head is counted. Every breath is counted. Now, we come into the world as a modeling-machine imprinting the collective atrophied aspects of our mothers and our fathers. And there are things that are completely healed about their personalities and there are things that are completely atrophied. And we model it subconsciously and that imprints us to be able to either flow through life right and direct in their footsteps or change the way that we were programmed by our own will and our own choices based out of a deeper soul-learning. If we follow the footsteps of our parents, I think that we follow a very specific course of experiences. If we choose to change that course we step out of that stream somewhat and we start making choices out of our own will to approach life-circumstances differently and from that we get a different response from the world and our identity starts to become different.

So, I think it is pre-determined, I think we have free will.

(more tomorrow)

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Geetings Everyone! Below is a process I have been requested to post again to direct the sunconscious mind! (Here you have it)

 

This really works if you practice it faithfully.

My subconscious, please locate the origin of my beliefs and thoughts that cause me to feel it is difficult to accept and integrate new ideas and beliefs that promote positive change.

Take each and every level, layer, area, and aspect of my Being to this origin.

Analyze and resolve it perfectly with Universal truth.

Come through all generations of time and eternity, healing every incident and its appendages based on the origin. Please do it according to the Highest Good until I’m at the present – filled with light and truth, Divine peace and love, forgiveness of myself for my incorrect perceptions, forgiveness of every person, place, circumstance and event which contributed to these feelings, beliefs and thoughts.

With total forgiveness and unconditional love, I allow every physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual problem, and inappropriate behavior based on the negative origin recorded in my DNA, to transform now and forever.

I choose Being open and accepting to new ideas and beliefs that promote positive change and are congruent with my continued evolution.

I feel my body is at ease and comfortable taking in, digesting and integrating new ideas, beliefs and thoughts that promote positive change and are in line with my continued evolution.

I AM easily integrating and generalizing new ideas, beliefs, thoughts and feelings that promote continued positive change in me now.

It is done. It is healed. It is accomplished now!

Thank you, My Subconscious, for coming to my assistance and helping me achieve my full potential. Thank you, thank you, thank you! I love you and express heart-felt gratitude and appreciation to my Eternal Source of Well-Being, from whom all blessings flow.

Love & Light

Gary De Rodriguez

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I did this one paragraph for myself about three years ago and I still remember this paragraph.  It had such an emotional impact on me because when I wrote it, I wrote it with such specificity.  I was choosing to go into the emotional state of when I would be an old man.  I was walking on my mountain – I own a mountain – and I was walking barefoot through my forest. And it went something like this: I’m walking down my favorite path and I feel the wind blowing through my hair (my hair was really long) as my hair tapped against my back and I stroked my beard as I walked and I felt the mud, cool and wet, squishing through my toes through the autumn leaves that have just fallen.  And off to the right of my should I saw and then I heard a red cardinal singing on a leafless branch.  And in that moment I felt the stillness of my soul.  And I was in the perfection of having the moment where there was no past, there was no future, there was just the perfection of that moment.  And that’s truly how I’m choosing to be as an old man.  As I think about that moment it associates me into that emotion of being completely here.

 

Now you have an outcome that you’ve been moving toward and you are feeling now the outcome that you’ve been working with for most of the weekend.  I am inviting you to write a paragraph or two about a morning or an afternoon or an evening that you experience as your outcome.  What will you see?  What do you hear?  What are you now feeling?  What are you smelling?  What are you tasting, having already realized your outcome?  Take a moment.  Write one, two or three paragraphs in explicit detail, sensorialy rich, explaining a moment already having achieved your outcome.  Please do that now.

 

Okay, this is page 98 for those of you who are into Neville.  Feeling a state produces the state.  Oh, I could just stop right there.  Feeling a state produces that state.  The part you play on the world stage is determined by your conception of yourself.  By feeling your wish fulfilled and quietly relaxing into sleep, you cast yourself in a star role to be played on earth tomorrow.  And while asleep you are rehearsed and you are instructed in your part.  The acceptance of the end automatically wills the means of realization.  Make no mistake about this.  If as you prepare for sleep you do not consciously feel yourself into the state of your answered wish, then you take with you into the chamber of her who conceived you, the sum total of your reactions and feelings of your waking day.  And while asleep you will be instructed in the manner in which they will be expressed tomorrow.  You will rise believing that you are a free agent with free will, not realizing that every action and event of the day is predetermined by your concept of your self as you fell asleep.  Your only freedom then is your freedom of reaction.  You are free to choose how you will feel and react to your day’s drama but the drama, the action, events and circumstances of the day, have already been determined.  Unless you consciously and purposely define the attitude of your mind with which you go to sleep, you unconsciously go to sleep in a composite attitude of mind made up of all feelings and reactions of the day.  Every reaction makes a subconscious impression and unless counteracted by opposite and more dominant feeling is the cause of your future actions.  Ideas enveloped in feeling are created actions.  Use your divine right wisely. Through your ability to think and to feel you have dominion over all creation.

{Tomorrow is Mind Mapping}

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So let’s just close your eyes for a moment.  Let’s just take three breaths together, deep inhale in, relaxed exhale out.  The waking 2/3 of your life on earth ever collaborates or bears witness to your subconscious impressions.  The actions and events of your day are simply effects.  They are not causes.  Free will is only freedom of choice.  Choose ye this day whom ye shall serve is your freedom to choose the kind of emotion you assume.  The expression of the emotion is the secret of your subconscious.  Your subconscious receives impressions only through the feelings of man and woman and in a way known only to itself gives these impressions form and expression.  The actions of man and woman are determined by their subconscious impressions.  His or her illusion of free will, his or her belief in freedom of action, is but ignorance of the causes which make them act.  They think themselves free because they have forgotten the link between themselves and the event.  Man and woman awake is under compulsion to express their subconscious impressions.  If in the past they unwisely impress themselves then let them begin to change their thoughts and their feelings for only as they do so will they change their world.  Do not waste one moment in regret for to think feelingly of the mistakes of your past is to reinfect yourself.  Let the dead bury their dead.  Turn from appearances now and assume the feeling that would be yours were you already the one you’ve wished to be. 

 

I’m going to talk a little bit about the NLP model of communication yet once again because I firmly believe if people truly understood and embodied this model, the planet would instantaneously shift and change – if we understood this model.  The information comes into the five senses and the secret of whether we create heaven or hell is in our filters.  Our filters consist of our memories and if those memories are loaded with negative, unresolved emotions we will have a knee-jerk response to the events coming toward us in the now.  There is a process in NLP called a trans-derivational search.  That is a word that describes the process that happens in how we sort our reality.  The information comes in through the five senses.  Our mind automatically does this thing called an trans-derivational search.  Where our mind goes back into our files of experience to bring forward a strategy that this event reminds us of to assist us in interacting with this event.  So if we have a ton of emotions in the past that are linked to specific memories and an event comes toward us that is reminiscent of those memories or that reminds us of those memories, we will bring forward to the experience now a whole luggage full of unresolved negative emotions and over react.  How many of you have over reacted in the past?  How many of you have been over reacted to?  And you’re going, ‘how can this person possibly have this reaction to what I just did?  It was so benign.’   Why do you think that is?  Their trans-derivational search process, whatever you did or didn’t do, triggered off something from their past and when they perceived through the distortion of their unresolved experiences from their past, they projected onto you the unresolved events back there and overreacted toward you. 

 

How many of you have said, ‘I think that you’re not in relationship with me.  You’re in relationship to your other three past lovers.’  Meaning you’re bringing so much negative emotion into this experience, it’s just not this experience.  It’s stuff back there.  How many of you have been in relationship with people when you feel like you’re their parent because of the unresolved wounds from the past?  So it seems logical to me that, if we are going to shift the filters, that we get to do something with the emotions of the past.  Is that true?  In order for us to sustain emotional states that are optimal for outcome, for imprinting the subconscious mind, it’s very challenging if we’ve got a ton of dialog going in here about how we are victims of the past.  If we’re carrying a lot of negative emotions around with us that are unresolved it will be very challenging to stay emotionally resourceful enough to be in the imagination of your outcome.  What we’re going to do this morning is work with a variety of different NLP processes.  They truly are tools for life.  Once you learn them they are literally keys for your mind.  You can take them and utilize them to the highest degree possible and run with them and change your life.  My highest outcome is that you take all the tools and really work them.

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Gary De Rodriguez

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