Spiritual NLP Blog | Neuro-Linguistic Programming | Change Your Life | Gary de Rodriguez, Dallas, TX

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The emotionally shattered young woman who was literally carried into Gary De Rodriguez’ office by friends did not want to live.  Weeks before, she and her fiancé were kayaking in a glacial cave in Alaska when an ice stalactite broke loose from the cave ceiling and struck the man on the head, killing him.

 ”When Juno died,” recalls Sue Harley, now of Denver, Colorado, “all my dreams and hopes, my whole future, died with him.”

De Rodriguez, founder of the Santa Fe, NM based Life Design International Training Center and creator of the Life Design Trainings, had a reputation for helping people use the untapped power of their mind to heal their body and spirit.  For Harley, De Rodriguez was her last chance to live.

 ”I immediately knew I could trust him when I told him the story of Juno’s death, and he cried right along with me,” Harley said.  “Then he helped me find my way back from total despair through a timeline process by showing me my future.”  Through this gentle, powerful method of harnessing and directing the power of the mind, Harley said, she began to see more and more exciting reasons to keep on living.  In the new future she was mentally creating, she saw an attractive man with an accent; children; a new home.  By imagining these mental pictures, and feeling the joyful emotions that accompanied them, Harley began to embrace her future life with enthusiasm.

 Six months after completing her work with De Rodriguez, Harley said she met a cute man from Australia – and the future she designed for herself became real.

 As astounding as Harley’s physical and spiritual recovery was, De Rodriguez says each of us holds the key for such dramatic change in our minds.

 “We choose our heaven or our hell inside of our own neurology,” De Rodriguez explains.  “The pictures we’re mentally contemplating, the words we’re speaking in our internal dialogue, and the emotions we’re producing all become our reality and determine any limits to our success.”

  De Rodriguez speaks from experience.  He traveled a winding and uphill spiritual path to overcome the hurts of his past – child abuse, juvenile drug addiction, paralyzing depression, the agony of seeing friends waste away from AIDS.  Fifteen years meditating three hours a day in an ashram in India didn’t heal the hurt or catapult him into spiritual bliss. Studying and teaching positive disciplines like “A Course In Miracles” helped, but didn’t fix everything.  It wasn’t until De Rodriguez discovered the mental management tools of Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) that he was able to completely release the old pains and refocus his life.  

 ”Realize that the brain is a computer,” De Rodriguez explains, “and NLP is very much the owner’s manual for the human body.  It teaches us how we created our beliefs, our values, our individual perceptions and the foundation of our personality.”  Through NLP technologies, says De Rodriguez, we can see how some aspects of our personalities cut to the very root of our ability to be successful. When we understand how we created those flawed thinking patterns, we can learn how to redirect them.

 Deeply committed to helping to raise world consciousness, De Rodriguez built a complete spiritual element on top of basic NLP to create Life Design Trainings – his system of using the mind-body connection to achieve excellence in every aspect of life.  His unique approach is being embraced by people from all walks of life, including professionals seeking to establish a more balanced and successful career path.

 Los Angeles Attorney Sylvia Esquivel said De Rodriguez helped her gain a better understanding of how differently each person sees the world based on their past experiences.

 ”Once you understand this of yourself,” she says, “you can understand that other people have their own perspectives which are not right or wrong, but which are or may be different.  Becoming aware of this alone is priceless — and it helps in releasing one’s point of view of ‘I’m right, he is wrong’ in personal, business or other types of interactions.”

 For a successful San Diego Realtor who participated in De Rodriguez’ 12-day Life Design Training Practitioner certification program, the biggest benefit was a dramatic shift in his ability to solve problems.

 ”If I got stuck on something, I had lots of different options I didn’t know about before,” he said.  As a result, the Realtor says, things that previously would bother him no longer have power, and he’s more confident, happier and able to build instant rapport with prospective clients.

 ”Where most training programs fail is they never teach the individual how to manage their own internal state,” says Rodriguez.  “They put on blanket Band-Aids – ‘this technique is for diversity, and this technique is for communicating.’ But that training is all about your external behavior – and what’s happening internally is what’s driving the external behavior. 

 ”What they’re doing is putting a Band-Aid over the already established ACT.  They’re trying to shift behavior at the behavioral level, and you can NEVER shift behavior at the behavioral level.  You must use the power of the mind to permanently shift behaviors.”

 Psychotherapist Adam Colson interacts daily with homeless and destitute people. 

“A huge challenge in my work is establishing rapport with down-on-their-luck individuals, and working with them to shift their mental outlook and create well-focused goals,” Colson says.  “I’ve studied many different forms of therapy, and Life Design Training techniques help people change their behaviors more quickly and effectively than anything else I’ve tried.”

 “If people had just the basic mental tools,” said De Rodriguez, “they could start improving their lives immediately.  Where they get into the most pain is feeling like they don’t have choices.  I desire to teach people they have the resources and choices to choose a different road, and a magnificent future.”

 For information on upcoming Life Design Training classes, visit the center’s website at www.garyderodriguez.com or call (505) 982-1980.

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Geetings Everyone! Below is a process I have been requested to post again to direct the sunconscious mind! (Here you have it)

 

This really works if you practice it faithfully.

My subconscious, please locate the origin of my beliefs and thoughts that cause me to feel it is difficult to accept and integrate new ideas and beliefs that promote positive change.

Take each and every level, layer, area, and aspect of my Being to this origin.

Analyze and resolve it perfectly with Universal truth.

Come through all generations of time and eternity, healing every incident and its appendages based on the origin. Please do it according to the Highest Good until I’m at the present – filled with light and truth, Divine peace and love, forgiveness of myself for my incorrect perceptions, forgiveness of every person, place, circumstance and event which contributed to these feelings, beliefs and thoughts.

With total forgiveness and unconditional love, I allow every physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual problem, and inappropriate behavior based on the negative origin recorded in my DNA, to transform now and forever.

I choose Being open and accepting to new ideas and beliefs that promote positive change and are congruent with my continued evolution.

I feel my body is at ease and comfortable taking in, digesting and integrating new ideas, beliefs and thoughts that promote positive change and are in line with my continued evolution.

I AM easily integrating and generalizing new ideas, beliefs, thoughts and feelings that promote continued positive change in me now.

It is done. It is healed. It is accomplished now!

Thank you, My Subconscious, for coming to my assistance and helping me achieve my full potential. Thank you, thank you, thank you! I love you and express heart-felt gratitude and appreciation to my Eternal Source of Well-Being, from whom all blessings flow.

Love & Light

Gary De Rodriguez

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The Path of the Master’s was the turning point in my life I had been seeking.  

I structured my life around the principles of this spiritual discipline.  I rose every morning at 3:00 am and meditated till 6:00am.  My life was about my meditation. 

I slowly began to repair the damage I had done to my mind and reasoning capability and became employed and a working member of society through the grace and generosity of friends.

I so desired to go to India and be with Master in a close intimate setting of the ashram in Northern India.  After writing and being refused for many years the Master finally wrote and said I was ready to come. 

I had the great good fortune and privilege to have sat with and studied with a Realized Master.  His ashram sat at the foothills of the Himalayas on the river Beas in the Punjab of Northern India.  He would meet with the Western disciples in the evening and answer our ceaseless questions.  In one such meeting, a South African woman asked about the importance of meditation and the illusion of time.  The Master paused for a long time before answering the question.  With a very concerned and compassionate look

on his face, he looked at each one of us and slowly began his response. 

        “You do not understand the importance of your human birth. Not all the treasures of the three realms could buy even one human breath.  Not all the treasures of the physical world, astral world, and causal world could purchase one of your breaths. The wealth I speak of is not comprehensible to your mind, it is so great.  Even the god Brahman, the god that millions worship, pines for the day it could take a human form.  Because only in this form can we make the greatest level of spiritual progress.  The human form is at the top rung of the ladder of all the forms the soul could incarnate in.”

        “Your bodies are the microcosm of the macrocosm of creation.  The chakra system of the body, or energy centers, are the microcosm of the seven different levels of consciousness that exist in creation.  That is why you are the laboratory in which you can transverse the inner realms of consciousness and obtain enlightenment. You do not understand the importance of your human birth. Not all the treasures of the three realms could buy even one human breath.  Not all the treasures of the physical world, astral world, and causal world could purchase one of your breaths. The wealth I speak of is not comprehensible to your mind, it is so great.  

 It is only in the human form that this can be done.  You sit there asking questions not realizing each one of you is the totality of the entire creation contained within the vessel of your human body. You have a gift beyond the capacity of the mind to measure. Make best use of it.”

We all sat silent on that hot, sticky Indian night, the constant whirl of the ceiling fans were all I heard for what seemed like an eternity.  The Master then rose slowly and stood gazing into our eyes.  As he walked passed each one of us he looked lovingly into our eyes with deep compassion for the sleep we had fallen into. 

        I have often wondered if I would ever understand the depth and magnitude of what he had said that night.  I know I have not.  Each one of us is living out our very specific set of circumstances in this great dance of birth and death.  The question is: how do we make the greatest meaning from our life experience?

 

 

This was a moment in time with this realized soul shook up my fragmented world, only to experience many more such moments with him throughout my stays in India which I will share throughout the chapters ahead.

I have thought long about the words the Master spoke that night.  As I looked into my life and the past I had the distance between what I was experiencing in my everyday reality and the concept that I was the subtotal of all creation contained within  the grasp of my consciousness was to great for me to comprehend.  Each one of us has this potential of and infinite possibility to be and create from the divine spark existent within each one of us.

What was stopping me? My meditations were sometimes blissful but more often than not I simply struggled to stay awake with my mind wandering into the unresolved issues of my past or my fear being projected into my future.

I felt as far away from the conscious vessel of divine possibility as you could be. 

Most of my time I felt trapped in the patterns of my past family issues now more subtle in how they revealed themselves but very much alive. 

I would find that my adult relationships began to mirror my patterns as a child, very subtle almost indistinguishable.  All I knew was I felt as though I was still a child still attempting to hold all the balls in the air as if someone would die or I wouldn’t survive if I didn’t.  The circumstances of the past were gone however the subconscious strategies of how I lived in the world  and approached relationships and life’s challenges were alive and well.
I was an adult with adult resources feeling like a child in a grown up world.  I wonder how many of us when we become very authentic with ourselves have felt similar. 

All I ever have sought was to feel and be the love inherit within me.  Free of fear.

As I sat in meditation through the years I began to know with every fiber of my being that the spiritual path was not the three hours I sat in meditation every morning. It was every thought I was thinking and every word I spoke.  It was the focus of my mind which was my true prayer.

Every moment is a opportunity to choose either love or fear and it is a choice made by each one of us moment to moment. Whatever our choice will be, will create more of what we have chosen to dwell upon for our next day of life.

We are creating our reality by what we focus most upon.

All any of us truly desires is fulfillment, and peace of mind.

However with the constant whirling of the past, storming through our thoughts, emotions and relationships we rarely experience our deeper nature.  With the past remaining unresolved we create a reactive approach to the world around ourselves as a whirlwind of distortions about the current reality occurs.

The big question here is what causes so much distortion and why am I in such an automatic response to see and behave like I do.

When we entered the world through our unique genealogical combination of both our mothers and fathers we modeled their behaviors. They modeled their parents and your grandparents modeled their parents down through the generations.

 

Each one of us has come into this world with a certain predisposition to filter reality in our unique way. The combination of our unique filtering and the emotional environment our parents created for us, developed through the modeling process our individual personalities.  To understand the concept of predetermined filtering from birth.  Think for a moment about your brothers or sisters.

Do they see life exactly like you do? Do they think, feel or act you ?  If you don’t have brothers or sisters do you have children?  Are their personalities all the same or are they uniquely different from birth.  One was a quiet baby the other wouldn’t stop crying.  We come into this life with some definite personality qualities already in place.

What causes these innate qualities and distinctions between us that help develop the propensity to one type of personality or another.

Perhaps it is different egg or sperm combinations, or states the mother was in both physically, emotionally, and spiritually.  Perhaps it is past life influences.  We do not know but does matter is that we are different.

We came into this life with a set of filters already in place and began giving meaning to what we did receive and did not receive from our fathers and mothers resulting a collection of evidence that what we believed about the stimulus around us began to shape how we would see and interact with world resulting in a world of possibilities or a world without them.

The point I am making is that we made it up from the wisdom intelligence and experience of a very small child.

Some of our deepest experiences we use as references for our current reality are completely subconscious and run our adult life today

(More Tomorrow)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Gary De Rodriguez

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Have you ever known really negative people before, like really negative people?  You know that when they view something, they will filter it from a negative perspective no matter what it is.  Have you had that experience?  Or really, extremely, positive people?  No matter what the experience is, they will view it in a different way.

 

If I had someone run through the door, run around naked and out the door again, it would take them about a minute, you all would make up something a little different.  Some of you would think that was just disgusting.  Some of you would think that was great.  Some of you would think, wow, what a perk to the training.  No matter what you would think, you would be filtering it a little bit different based upon your beliefs.  Out of what you perceive in the world, out of your filters that you look from, that is what you will experience within yourself.  You will create either a heaven or a hell based upon the meaning you choose to ascribe to your outside world, and the meaning that you place to it will be the world that you experience.

 

We spend more and more and more of our time experiencing either the negative or the positive based upon what our beliefs are and how we’re filtering our world.

“The subconscious mind takes evening personally.”

 

If you’re listening to music — I love this because someone said this to me — “Oh, what a disservice the Rolling Stones did to our culture.”  And I said, “What do you mean?”  He goes, “Well, just think, they have like stadiums full of hundreds of thousands of people stomping their feet and singing in full-on emotion, “I Don’t Get No Satisfaction.”  And when you think about that, they’re like singing and singing and singing — just think about when you’re singing along with a song on the radio.  How many of you to do that?  You’re totally singing along — I love Toni Braxton, and when she’s singing one of those really heartthrob and tear-out-your-guts kind of love songs, and I went, “I’m thinking about all the times my heart has been broken.”  Do you guys do that? 

 

Tell me someone else does that other than me.  So you’re accessing all these times and you’re singing the song, and before you know it, you feel a slight grade of depression come over you.  It’s like, “Oh, my God.”  Do you guys do that? 

“Our subconscious takes everything literally”. 

  

So what you’re singing, what you’re saying to yourself, what you’re listening to,

Your subconscious is being programmed as if you were saying it.  Be careful what you take in.  Be selective in what you take into yourself.  Think of the subconscious as a very small child like maybe two years old.  You’re choosing to be very selective in what that child is going to be exposed to. 

                  

In Hawaii they say that the subconscious is like a two-year-old child that is all powerful.  It will do exactly what you tell it to do, unlike most of your children — no.

 

It is power without direction, infinite power without direction.

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