Spiritual NLP Blog | Neuro-Linguistic Programming | Change Your Life | Gary de Rodriguez, Dallas, TX

Will you pass down chaos or choice?

This life you are leading-a life clothed by your current identity-is an incredible gift. Even if your experience here has been a painful one, realize that it is a spiritual journey, not a stop-off on the way to Heaven or Hell. You absolutely required to be here at this exact moment in history.

As we walk through life in Human Form, we are continuously presented with windows of opportunity to acquire the wisdom of our ancestry. We each have created a soul contract with our mothers and fathers to utilize this earthly existence to deepen our own relationship with the Divine. Your unique family system provides you with a laboratory of joy and pain that can be used to awaken your deepest core wounds so they may be healed and transformed. Through this awakening, you travel a path of finding the answers and creating the healing you require so that you may return back to love.

Our family dynamics were designed and created out of love, no matter how our family systems manifested themselves in this physical reality. We are not victims, and we must know that we can rise above the ancestral dynamic and live life as the designer of own destiny.

The ancestral buck stops with each one of us. We can learn to be co-creators of our reality. We can and should take a stand for creating balance within ourselves, our families, and our communities. We can rise above our ancestral influences and live life from the perspective of choice, not chaos. We can then pass this way of living on to our children, creating a movement of personal accountability from the very young to the aged.

By healing the ancestral patterns, we celebrate the perfection of the order of life. We came through the perfect parents who co-created the perfect circumstances to wound us in the perfect way and create the dynamic tension that would spur each of to begin the quest towards self actualization. The divine order of our family dynamics allows our souls to mature and awakens in us the opportunity to evolve and celebrate. That is the gift.

The Hopis say there is absolutely no past, that everything that ever existed is present right here in the cells of our bodies, that every ancestor that ever lived is resonating in our DNA. You are the culmination of the thought forms of everything that has gone before you. Yet you have the choice to do it differently. You have the choice to overcome the idea of separation and fear. You have the choice to move out of the victim archetype and to be first person accountable for creating your world out of the words you speak, the things you contemplate, and the emotions you choose to feel.

By learning the tools of the science and technology of Humanistic Neuro Linguistic Psychology, we can still the stories of our past and awaken the inherent wisdom that is within each of us. The baton is in your hands. The technology is available. It is time to transform our ancestral patterns and awaken to what we came here to be: accountable, empowered, contributive, loving and compassionate to all living things.

Comments(0)

Time & The Human Mind

I have been asked to re-post some great tools for changing your life!

Do you desire to be more than what you’ve been?  Do you know you are capable of more?  Do you know what path you would need to take to be more of what you want of what you are desirous to be?

 

What is NLP?  NLP is the modeling of excellence.  It is the discovery and duplication of patterns of excellence of successful people for the purpose of enhancing lives by teaching these patterns and strategies of excellence.

 

NLP came into existence during the early 1970′s out of the curiosity of John Grinder and Richard Bandler.  These men began a modeling project of three very famous therapists.  They chose to model these therapists because all three were creating tremendous changes in the human condition outside the Freudian and Jungian Models and each therapist used totally different styles of therapy.

 

They are Virginia Satire, who developed the family form of therapy, Milton Erickson, who developed the greatest form of hypnosis and the know-how of working with the unconscious mind known today as Ericksonian Hypnosis, and Fritz Pearls, who discovered Gestalt Therapy.  All three had an extremely different approach to the style of the therapy they did and yet, they were all very successful.

 

John Grinder and Richard Bandler chose to observe these therapists because of their successes.  The interesting observation was that they had success in what they did and how they did therapy without an absolute understanding of the processes they were using.  In fact, Milton Erickson wrote a letter to John Grinder and Richard Bandler and thanked them for explaining to him the processes he used and how he has such success. 

 

These therapists were exquisitely good at intuiting and guiding client’s problems to resolution. They had what is called unconscious competency.  Have you ever had unconscious competency in something?  Unconscious competency means you are “just” good at what ever it is you know how to do without having to put much thought to it.  Perhaps it’s a sport, math, or driving a car that comes natural to you.  It is doing something with little or no effort.

 

NLP is applicable in sports, business, therapy, learning, educational fields, etc.  It’s broad applications cross the context of all of the human experience.  Why is this?  It is literally the owner’s manual for the human mind.  If you are going to tune up a car, program a VCR, put one of those difficult pieces of furniture together, you would be required to have some directional manual, would you not?  Have you ever attempted to do one of these activities and experience frustration?

 

Here we are in the most complex organism on this planet called the human body.  The human body contains more neurological possibilities then every grain of sand on every beach on this planet.  No one has ever come along and said, “Would you like to know how to use it?”  How did you create your unique beliefs, attitudes, and perspectives?  How did you encode your memory to instantly retrieve them?  How did you design the strategies you use to either motivate or sabotage?  How did you do it? If you had an owner’s manual that could show you how, could you fix it, could you adjust it?  You could!

 

Now every great thinker has consistently said that there’s only one thing to do here and that is to know ‘you.  In all of our relationships, what we are really involved with is a deep intrinsic relationship with ourselves, in the context of another person.

 

Have you ever been in a relationship with anyone?  Have you ever thought about what makes a relationship work?  It IS your relationship with you.  It IS your sense of identity, your boundaries, your negotiation skills, your ability to love rather than be afraid, and your ability to express rather than harbor and resent. Your ability to be in relationship with others is your key to financial, spiritual, emotional, and mental well-being.  Your ability to know yourself will assist you in every context of life.

 

In the past, I lived in a lot of procrastination.  When I say “the past”, I mean anything even a nano-second in the past.  What I’ve learned from a whole securitous pipe of experiences is that the place of most change is when you’re really terrified, but you take the leap anyway, you just step out into the unknown.  Have you ever done an action over and over and expect a different outcome then the time before?  Did you know that the definition of insanity is: doing the same thing consistently and expecting a different outcome, a different result?  

 

One of my most favorite movies is “The Last Crusade”, where the main character is searching for the Holy Grail out of the love for his father.  He comes to this place after passing through this tunnel of slicing swords and spiders and he arrived to a precipice where he couldn’t even see the bottom.  He closed his eyes and remembered a legend that taught him that when he chooses to step out in pure faith, he’d be supported.  So he stepped out into thin air.  As he did, a path appeared before him.  He made the choice to move through his fear by taking that step, that leap of faith, right through the fear.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Gary De Rodriguez

Comments(0)

 

 

This life we are leading as our current identity is a spiritual journey in the greatest gift we could be given, the Human form.  The secret wisdom of this journey is incased within the window of the family systems we were born into.  We have each created a soul contract with our mothers and fathers to utilize this earthly relationship to deepen our own relationship with the divine. 

 

 

 

 

 

Our family systems provide us with a laboratory of joy and pain that can be now used to awaken in us our deepest core wounds for their transformation.  Through this awakening we travel a path of finding the answers and creating the healing we require so that we can return ourselves back to love.

Our family dynamics was designed and created out of love no matter how our family systems manifested itself in this physical reality.

We are not the victims of this family dynamic.  We can rise above the ancestral dynamics and live life from the perspective of being the designer of own destiny.

 

The ancestral buck stops with each one of us.  We can learn to be co-creators of our reality and take a stand for creating balance with ourselves, our families and our communities.  We can rise above our ancestral influences and live life from the perspective of choice rather than a victim of a family or world based in chaos.

We can then pass this way of living on to our children and future generations creating a movement of personal accountability from the very young to the aged.

   

By healing the ancestral patterns we celebrate the perfection of the order of life.  We came through the perfect parents who co-created the perfect circumstances to wound us in the perfect way and create the dynamic tension that each of us would begin the quest towards self actualization and realization.

The divine order of our family dynamics allows our soul to mature and awakens us to the opportunity to evolve and celebrate.

  

 

Once we learn the tools from the science and technology of Humanistic Neuro Linguistic Psychology to still the story of our past we awaken the inherent wisdom that is within each individual  and we can arise and mature.

The paton is within our hands, the technology is available, it is time to transform our ancestrial patterns and awaken to the individual we came here to be: 

Accountable, empowered, contributive, loving and compassionate to all living things. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Gary De Rodriguez

 

Comments(0)