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Language is Powerful Choose Wisely

Today’s blog, is what we replace all the language of disempowerment with.  This is why you’ll speak more succinctly.  How important is it that we understand the root of where our language patterns, our thinking patterns, comes from in changing it?  I believe it’s context dependent and individually dependent.  I’ve worked with some clients where it was very important to neutralize the negative emotions which is what we’re going to be doing tomorrow.  We’re going to be doing processes that neutralize the internal representations in our minds of how we hold our past.  And we’re going to do it easily.  Because unless your internal representations change, there is no shift.  Some people can just get this information and say, ‘I have no requirement to know what that was.  I’m just going for it.  I’m going for my outcome.  I’m staying completely focused.’  Some people are so disempowered by the emotional luggage that they’re carrying that it’s near to impossible for them to get into a peak emotional state to actually apply the language and the discipline it takes to apply the language. 

This is why the language is so imperative in continuing the whole process of doing your enfoldment.  Because unless you are keeping your language clear and clean you will create disempowered emotional states which cuts at the root of your power and puts you right into apathy and procrastination.  Language is the wind underneath the wings of imagination and emotion.  Unless we can keep our language up and alert and aware knowing that we are co-creating by every word we speak, every word is a prayer coming into reality speaking as a self-fulfilling prophecy.  So unless we can do this part of it, which is the beginning of this training, it is very difficult to do the next day to keep the imagination and the outcome in your mind’s focus.

 This work takes discipline, you guys.  Most of us have been in a state of such disempowerment that we have become so apathetic in the past about our lives.  And the reason we’ve become apathetic is because we’ve yet to be able to discover a system that actually sustains change.  So we do all this work and we revert back and we do more work and we revert back and then we go into hopelessness.  How many of you have been there?  I most certainly have in the past.  And now, with this system, of how from moment to moment, word by word, mental focus by mental focus, you have a direct succinct system that shows you how you’ve created it and how you can sustain a different state.  I personally think this is the missing piece out of most of the personal change technology out there.  People graze against it, they brush up against it.  This gives you the system and unless the system is enrolled into all the other behavioral change work, which is all fabulous, our patterns will revert back by the habitual thinking and the language which represents it. 

How we correct ourselves.  What do you do when you catch yourself in non-productive or limiting language: gossip or self-criticism?  You say Cancel/clear or Cancel/negate or in the past at the end of what you just became aware of saying or thinking.  Our subconscious mind takes our language literally and when we use one or both phrases we clear the slate of our mind.  So did you hear me as I was speaking.  I kept on saying ‘in the past.’  Because all that was story about stuff that we’re moving away from and it’s in the past.  The focus of our mind is the temple at which we pray. 

Examples of transforming your language: I am trying to change my life.  I have a successful relationship with the qualities of intimacy, honesty and integrity within myself and my partner.  I create a foundation of love in my home.  And you can even bring more specificity into that by saying, ‘By September of the year 2000 I’m working on a new career.  I’ve hired a marketing agent.  We are producing a series of tapes, lectures and a book.  I’m adjusting my income.  I am receiving $300,000 yearly for my work as a software engineer.  I choose happiness.  I choose happiness in my job as a computer programmer and in my relationship with Natasha.  I choose love.  I experience love from my father John, my mother Betty, my brother Alphonso, and my sister Anastasia.  Even the word I choose is still a process.  It’s an upgrade from I want and I need.  However it is still a process.  When you just claim it in the moment – I create, I experience, I am – it collapses time and brings it right to now.  Now this becomes even more imperative and more important as we go into the imagination aspect.  Because tomorrow we go into how to be emotionally in outcome.  Because, if you can feel it you imprint the subconscious mind even more powerfully.  If you can feel it you can make it real.

Language of distortion.  She always does that.  When she’s at home she does the gardening.  After dinner she generally meditates.  Three times per week she does some form of exercise.  My perception is she acts guilty.  That’s a projection, huh?  I am here to help everyone.  I am here to contribute to my mother and my father.  I am here to give physical support to my teammates, George, Bob and Mary.  You never share your feelings.  When I allow myself to become upset I remember only the times that you’ve been quiet.  I want it in my relationship.  I choose to be present, honest and tell the truth in my relationship with Roger.  I choose to have financial security in the amount of $300,000 yearly in combined income in my relationship with Scotty.  I wish I could receive love from them.  This is the language of generalization.  I choose to receive love from Bud, Bonnie and my father Valerio.  That’s just the way I am.  How many of you have said that or had that said to you?  In the past I expressed anger with violence and now I choose to negotiate.  Language of negation.  I love you but…  I love you and I would be more comfortable if you would put medicated foot powder in your shoes.  This was actually said to me. 

Isn’t she beautiful?  She’s beautiful.  Can’t you help me.  Please help me.  Didn’t you love it.  Did you like that movie. 

  

 

Love & Light

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Miracles of Change

The following is a short journeying process which when done before you drift off into sleep becomes a powerful vehicle for programming your life.

To begin here’s a quote from Neville: “

“Feeling a state produces that state.  The part you play on the world stage is determined by your conception of yourself.  By feeling your wish fulfilled and quietly relaxing into sleep, you cast yourself in a star role to be played on earth tomorrow, and while asleep you are rehearsed and instructed in your part.  The acceptance of the end automatically wills the means of realization. 

Make no mistake about this.  If, as you prepare for sleep, you do not consciously feel yourself into the state of the answered wish, then you will take with you into the chamber of her who conceived you, your subconscious, the sum total of the reactions and feelings of the waking day, and while asleep, you will be instructed in the manner in which they will be expressed tomorrow.  You will rise believing you are free agent, not realizing that every action and event of the day is predetermined by your concept of self as you fell asleep the night before. ”

So as Neville is saying, when you go to sleep at night, it is the seed time of the subconscious mind.  The most fertile time to implant your dreams into the fertile soil of an infinite power that is non-calculable by science, it is the seed time. 

You set up your entire day the following day subconsciously by the emotional state that you go to sleep in.

It is extremely important that you realize that the conscious mind programs the subconscious mind.  It is by your choice of will, that’s what makes this form of a human life so profoundly important.  You have will to direct your life.  The only thing that is stopping us from stepping into our power is what we’ve made up about our past, and three-quarters of that is still the story that we run based upon the resentment that we have held about what we did and did not get from our ancestry.  We must leave our stories behind and invoke our will, and start forming our life according to our soul’s desire.  It is time.  Our breaths are wasting.

When we sleep at night, get a book and have a bunch of blank pages and choose to create the journaling diary to awaken the imagination.

So that when you go to sleep at night you go to sleep in the feeling of your wish fulfilled. 

Remember, at night is the seed time of your subconscious.  As your head hits the pillow, the emotional state that you sleep in, what your mind is focused upon as you sleep, is what your subconscious mind works on and processes for six to eight hours.  You have six to eight hours of programming your infinite power of your subconscious mind towards the direction of your outcome when, through your will, you take the time to invoke the emotion of the imagined state and fall asleep in that imagined state.  So, if you are choosing to invoke a lover in your life, what would happen every night before you went to sleep you felt the breath of that lover on the back of your next and you heard that lover say to you, “I adore you,” and you go to sleep in that emotional state.  Let’s say you’re in a relationship currently and you have an unresponsive lover, do you think by saying and browbeating your partner to perform in ways that are unaccustomed to their being that you will have your requirements met?  No.  What will happen if, through the right use of your imagination, you already imagine them being the lover that you desire them to be, will your imagination and consciousness affect them?  Yes.  So it begins with you and your consciousness and the focus of your minds.  It begins with you.  So the emotional state that you rest in and sleep in is what you program your subconscious mind to create for the following day.

This is a big gift I’m sharing with you because when you use it, you give direction to that infinite power of your subconscious and your subconscious works on it for six to eight hours as you sleep for manifestation the following day.  I have used this information and everything I’ve taught you I have put in my world and I have used it, and I have created miracles and shifted my life 180 degrees in the last year.  I can congruently say “this stuff works when you use it.

Remember, I will keep repeating back to you, your breaths are precious, the God Braham pines for the day it can be in your place.  Use your time wisely. 

Love & Light

Gary De Rodriguez

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