Message from the Hopi Elders

 

Our wisdom matures through life's opportunities!

Our wisdom matures through life

Greeting!

 

I have shared the message to humanity from the  

 

Hopi Elders before, but I would like to expand upon the message from my perspective to give us clarity about our future and empower an attitude of flexibility in how we navigate through these times. 
I’ll begin by pulling certain lines from the letter and expanding on the meaning.

One of the opening lines is:  

You have been telling the people that this is the Eleventh Hour.
Now you must go back and tell the people that this is The Hour.

This is the hour.  I have been saying for years that we require building the foundation of our inner world as the external world becomes less predictable.

The you, who you have always dreamed you would become, must emerge.  This is the hour for you to arrive back to yourself and let the wisdom you have gained throughout your life guide you.  These are the times where your learning’s and your life wisdoms are tested. 

Ask yourself:

1.     What am I really attached too?

2.     What is ultimately important to me?

 The thought I’d like to share with you is a message from the master in India I studied with.  He would say to us: “At the end of our lives we will be asked to separate from the one thing we are most attached to, our bodies.  Practice detachment while in the body and know you will take nothing of the illusion of this world to the other side.”  

We become more of what we think about most often.  Chose what you focus on and dwell upon regularly most carefully because within this choice, you will find yourself creating your heaven or your hell.  Be congruent in your thought word and action.

 The next paragraph I’ll share with you is another powerful statement by the elders:

“This could be a good time!

There is a river flowing now very fast.
It is so great and swift that there are those who will be afraid.
They will try to hold on to the shore.
They will feel like they are being torn apart, and they will suffer greatly.

Know the river has its destination.
The elders say we must let go of the shore, push off toward the middle of the river, keep our eyes open, and our heads above the water.

See who is there with you and celebrate.”

 When the elders said: this could be a good time”  I know that  no matter what the circumstances we find ourselves in, we can chose our attitude as we navigate our way through the unpredictable.  Our attitude is the only thing we absolutely have control over.

The next statement is perhaps the most dramatic in the letter:

“There is a river flowing now very fast.
It is so great and swift that there are those who will be afraid.
They will try to hold on to the shore.
They will feel like they are being torn apart, and they will suffer greatly.”

The river is the river of change and yes we are witnessing amazing change in every section of the globe from Obama being elected to the complete decline of the automotive industry as if overnight.  Things that seemed impossible are now possible and things that seemed solid are now fluid.  We cannot hold onto the shore or the things that we have always thought was solid because it is now changing very fast.  If we attempt to hold onto false values and hollow desires we will suffer greatly because this is an intense time of spiritual revolution.      

The next profound sentence from the elders:

“Know the river has its destination.
The elders say we must let go of the shore, push off toward the middle of the river, keep our eyes open, and our heads above the water.

  See who is there with you and celebrate.”

We require letting go of the shore, or what we have always thought was secure and stable and go to the middle of life’s experiences.  I believe going to the middle of the river simply means to go to the middle of your perception and judge neither good nor bad.  Be attached to whatever you consider sacred for you and strengthen your resolve to focus your mind there and KNOW the river has a destination. 

Either there is random chaos or perfect order and I choose to believe that there is perfect order.  As the elders say the river has a destination.  So the falling apart is a birth of what is to come and a dismantling of the dream we have all been living in. There has never been a birth without labor. The world is birthing forth something very new and the labor has begun.

See who is there with you and celebrate.” Be in community with others and know that you are known by the way you treat others. Chose joy in the middle of change and put a smile on your face, evaluating daily what is really important to you.  We are called upon to simplify, center, be in joy and pay it forward to others in our lives because the day of the lone wolf is over.  Be in community with others and gather likeminded people around you.

The last lines from this letter are the most impactful to me personally:

“Banish the word struggle from your attitude and vocabulary.

All that we do now must be done in a sacred manner and in celebration.

We are the ones we have been waiting for.”

Harness the power of your word because our language choices directs our thinking and we cannot afford the lazy luxury of negative thoughts.  Choose to be in joy with charismatic optimism.  Whatever is sacred to you, live it more, speak it more, act it more and be a shining example of the highest thoughts you can think, but most importantly demonstrate what you believe in your actions toward others.

It is not in the times of prosperity that tests and polishes who we believe ourselves to be, but the times of uncertainty that offer us the opportunities to shine and prove that we have become the ones we have been waiting for.

These are powerful times of change, use them as a vehicle to shine forward into your world and relationships the holy relationship you have with yourself and be the one to hold up the light for others when they have drop there on.

As we do this, others will hold the light up for us when we have forgotten and together in the river we will celebrate each other.      

  

A Message from the Hopi Elders

You have been telling the people that this is the Eleventh Hour.
Now you must go back and tell the people that this is The Hour.

Here are the things that must be considered:

Where are you living? 
What are you doing? 
What are your relationships? 
Are you in right relation? 
Where is your water? 
 Know our garden. 
 It is time to speak your Truth. 
 Create your community. 
 Be good to each other.       

 And do not look outside yourself for the leader.

This could be a good time!

There is a river flowing now very fast.
It is so great and swift that there are those who will be afraid.
They will try to hold on to the shore.
They will feel like they are being torn apart, and they will suffer greatly.

Know the river has its destination.
The elders say we must let go of the shore, push off toward the middle of the river, keep our eyes open, and our heads above the water.

See who is there with you and celebrate.

At this time in history, we are to take nothing personally, least of all ourselves!
For the moment we do, our spiritual growth and journey comes to a halt.

The time of the lonely wolf is over.

Gather yourselves!

Banish the word struggle from your attitude and vocabulary.

All that we do now must be done in a sacred manner and in celebration.

We are the ones we have been waiting for.

 

Love & Light
Love & Light

Gary De Rodriguez

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

A Deeper Sense Of Self

 

Listen and You Shall Hear

Listen and You Shall Hear

 

 

As I write this blog, I have a few more trainings to teach down here in beautiful Australia.  As I begin the great adventure of training the HNLP Practitioner Certification  to my group of eager Australian students on Wednesday December 3rd..  This trip has been filled with great people and business opportunities and the HNLP community in Perth is growing, attracting students with a hunger for the science of stilling their story and awaking a deeper sense of Self in their everyday life.  It’s been a whirlwind trip beginning with leaving Santa Fe. It is a very big adjustment for the body and mind. 

As I sit here late at night at my computer there is one glaring theme that keeps ringing in my head to write to you about and share.   “Our success is in direct portion to our ability to be relationship with others.”   I have been contemplating the deeper and more generative meaning of this statement for a long time.  

If there is one thing I have learned through the years is that life is not a solo journey.  It is done in relationship to many others.   Business here in Australia is fundamentally based upon who you know and yes, you require having a great product or service but rarely, at least in my experience, have contracts ever shown up at my door and asked to come in.  I’ve required to go knocking and through the relationships I have established through the years doing business in Australia, my relationships have always opened the doors to amazing possibilities.

It is fundamental to our success in relationships that we discover the common ground amidst the seeming differences and establishing mutual understanding between people and communication styles whether that be between parents and children, life partner to life partner, husband to wife or director of a large organization to the upper management.  Relationship success means: establishing the sameness between people and witnessing what is inclusive rather than exclusive. The foundation of recognizing the power of your relationships is and forever will be everything to your ability to succeed.

As I work with more and more organizations in both Australia and the United States there is inherent in all the problems a organizations may face, the ever present issue of communication between people.

Organizations spend hundreds of thousands of dollars on systems forgetting that it is the functionality of the people and their relationships with one another that actually make the systems work.   

So how do we bridge the differences between the viewpoints of people who come from such life reference points, each with their individual body of evidence that convinces them that how they see the world is right and correct?

The answer is the CONVERSATION.  My particular brand in conducting corporate training is the ability to facilitate the difficult conversation.  As I continue to facilitate groups in holding the conversations to discover the mutual understanding, the unspeakable is finally spoken and strategies discovered that will finally move the group to action and resolution.

The same holds true for couples, parents and children, any form of relationship success will be based upon this one fundamental principle.  It is so basic, so simple yet most people find it the most difficult thing to do.  

As I watch the culture shift in organizations I am working with and the conversations happen that have been withheld for so long, I often stand in wonder of how beautifully simple and powerful people become when they master the art of the authentic conversation.  These types of conversations can transform companies, marriages, children and the world. 

Here is a brief outline for an authentic conversation.  Begin yours today!!!

The RULES:

1.       If there is problems in your relationships either professionally of personally it is because of the quality of the conversation.  Take responsibility for being half the problem.

2.       Do not interrupt the speaker when they are speaking.

3.       Be in physiological rapport with the speaker.

4.       If you disagree with speaker ask more questions so you can clarify their meaning.

5.       Acknowledge what is being said is valid from the perspective of the speaker and that you can understand how they could feel that way.  

6.       After the speaker is complete say: “May I add my perspective to clarify my position.”

7.       Stay out of defence.

8.       Watch your tone of voice and remember that 38% of the meaning of your communication is the tone of your voice.

9.       Stay out of sarcasm.

10.   Enter the conversation with the intention to empower enrich and clarify.

As I continue to facilitate building the bridges of communication between teams, executives and people struggling in their relationships I have come to one major conclusion.  The true sacred temple is the temple of our relationships.

It is here that we polish off the rough edges of our personalities and begin shifting out of the ancient programming of our past.  It is here that we can begin to create growth in ourselves and prove the evidence that we can and are maturing. 

Every conversation within every relationships is our point of power where we chose in that moment to become more than our past programming and demonstrate our well earned wisdom or we opt to further engrain the patterns of our past that keep us frozen in unworkable strategies that increase our frustration.

Find the common ground and discover the underlining truth that all people desire fundamentally the same things and hold similar values.  Establish what is mutually desired in all the differences between people and how they see their realities.  What you will find in the seeming differences of people is the same heart, with the same desire for peace, joy, love and connection.  HOLD THE CONVERSATION YOU HAVE BEEN AVOIDING. 

Love & Light

Love & Light

Gary De Rodriguez