Spiritual NLP Blog | Neuro-Linguistic Programming | Change Your Life | Gary de Rodriguez, Dallas, TX

Regarding word choices, is it possible to just change what you associate to want and if that word is so ingrained in our society it seems that, if we could just change how we internalize it, that would be a much easier thing than trying to police our vocabulary and every one else’s around us?

 

That would be great if it worked that way.  However, the subconscious mind takes our language literally which means that because we are raised as English speaking people, that word is ingrained in our culture and it has a very literal meaning and the literal meaning keeps us out of choice, power and outcome.  When we speak the word, because of our conditioning to our language and what it means, which goes for generations back, what it literally means is more desire without ever having realization of the desire.  And as we constantly repeat that word to ourselves in our vocabulary, we are impregnating our subconscious mind with the experience and the future experience of consistent desire without the realization of it. 

 

It has been proven by science that there is light and sound at the core of every atom, that there is a frequency, a vibration, that holds physical matter together.  This is where I’m a firm believer in the marriage of science and mysticism.  Because when I was very young I was following a path of yoga called the surachavid (?) yoga and it is yoga of the sound current.  And the whole premise is that there is an audible sound that is the spiritual frequency of god manifesting through the different densities of matter that is audible during meditation if your mind becomes still enough.  These sounds exist.  The vibration that everything is like the table vibrating at a different density than my shirt.  That’s why the table is hard like that.  And there is a frequency that causes that to happen.  And in subtle enough forms of consciousness the frequencies are audible.  This is why everything that exists is based on sound and vibration.  And our words carry a sound and vibration that we feel and sense on many different levels.  So when we think about sound and the association to what the energy is behind a word it may seem like nothing to our consciousness as we stand here in our personality, but to the subtle bodies it has a great effect.  Our language goes back thousands of years.  It had impact on us through thousands of years of conditioning.  What I’m saying is that if you consistently use the word want you will be programming your subconscious mind with that word and the resonance of that word for more desire without ever having the outcome of it.

 

See, whenever you go to I am, you automatically get there.  It’s the highest upgrade that you can do.  Rather than I will or I’m going to – I am.  Blank paper please.  I have consistently talked to you ability to go to sleep in a state that is resourceful and in your outcome.  Going to sleep at night, stepping into your circle of excellence before you go to sleep, eye pattern scramble of anything that may have happened or five memories from the past that you’d like to feel differently about.  You can set yourself up to go to sleep at night in the most potent place for being able to get to outcome, therefore imprint your subconscious mind that night for outcomes to follow.  This is a precursor to mind mapping.  This is an alternative to mind mapping.  I’ll share it with you now.

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Gary De Rodriguez

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So let’s just close your eyes for a moment.  Let’s just take three breaths together, deep inhale in, relaxed exhale out.  The waking 2/3 of your life on earth ever collaborates or bears witness to your subconscious impressions.  The actions and events of your day are simply effects.  They are not causes.  Free will is only freedom of choice.  Choose ye this day whom ye shall serve is your freedom to choose the kind of emotion you assume.  The expression of the emotion is the secret of your subconscious.  Your subconscious receives impressions only through the feelings of man and woman and in a way known only to itself gives these impressions form and expression.  The actions of man and woman are determined by their subconscious impressions.  His or her illusion of free will, his or her belief in freedom of action, is but ignorance of the causes which make them act.  They think themselves free because they have forgotten the link between themselves and the event.  Man and woman awake is under compulsion to express their subconscious impressions.  If in the past they unwisely impress themselves then let them begin to change their thoughts and their feelings for only as they do so will they change their world.  Do not waste one moment in regret for to think feelingly of the mistakes of your past is to reinfect yourself.  Let the dead bury their dead.  Turn from appearances now and assume the feeling that would be yours were you already the one you’ve wished to be. 

 

I’m going to talk a little bit about the NLP model of communication yet once again because I firmly believe if people truly understood and embodied this model, the planet would instantaneously shift and change – if we understood this model.  The information comes into the five senses and the secret of whether we create heaven or hell is in our filters.  Our filters consist of our memories and if those memories are loaded with negative, unresolved emotions we will have a knee-jerk response to the events coming toward us in the now.  There is a process in NLP called a trans-derivational search.  That is a word that describes the process that happens in how we sort our reality.  The information comes in through the five senses.  Our mind automatically does this thing called an trans-derivational search.  Where our mind goes back into our files of experience to bring forward a strategy that this event reminds us of to assist us in interacting with this event.  So if we have a ton of emotions in the past that are linked to specific memories and an event comes toward us that is reminiscent of those memories or that reminds us of those memories, we will bring forward to the experience now a whole luggage full of unresolved negative emotions and over react.  How many of you have over reacted in the past?  How many of you have been over reacted to?  And you’re going, ‘how can this person possibly have this reaction to what I just did?  It was so benign.’   Why do you think that is?  Their trans-derivational search process, whatever you did or didn’t do, triggered off something from their past and when they perceived through the distortion of their unresolved experiences from their past, they projected onto you the unresolved events back there and overreacted toward you. 

 

How many of you have said, ‘I think that you’re not in relationship with me.  You’re in relationship to your other three past lovers.’  Meaning you’re bringing so much negative emotion into this experience, it’s just not this experience.  It’s stuff back there.  How many of you have been in relationship with people when you feel like you’re their parent because of the unresolved wounds from the past?  So it seems logical to me that, if we are going to shift the filters, that we get to do something with the emotions of the past.  Is that true?  In order for us to sustain emotional states that are optimal for outcome, for imprinting the subconscious mind, it’s very challenging if we’ve got a ton of dialog going in here about how we are victims of the past.  If we’re carrying a lot of negative emotions around with us that are unresolved it will be very challenging to stay emotionally resourceful enough to be in the imagination of your outcome.  What we’re going to do this morning is work with a variety of different NLP processes.  They truly are tools for life.  Once you learn them they are literally keys for your mind.  You can take them and utilize them to the highest degree possible and run with them and change your life.  My highest outcome is that you take all the tools and really work them.

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Gary De Rodriguez

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So if you give it a different meaning it creates a whole different response in you and we have the control or the choice of the meaning we’re going to give something.  And therefore nothing out there is doing it to us.  We’re doing it and what do we choose to do differently.  It was a very interesting exercise.

 

9.  Our subconscious mind takes everything personally.

 

10.  Our subconscious mind is power without direction.  Our conscious mind gives it direction.

 

11.  Our subconscious mind is always alert and functioning.

 

12.  Our subconscious mind receives direction from our conscious mind.  So whatever we are thinking and speaking happens. 

 

If someone is intending to do you harm and you have the same experience that they’re intending to do you harm, what can you do with that?  That brings me to what happened yesterday to me.  I had the direct experience of someone intending to put up as much resistence to a proposal that I was proposing as possible and I knew it and I knew it was personal and I knew it was also professional jealousy or fear.  I had the real opportunity of creating a higher outcome for the proposal so that everyone won and stepping out of the history of the relationship.  I had that interpretation but my choice was to create a healing and to get into compassion for the lack and the scarcity that was driving that particular behavior.  So when I can get into compassion for that, which I have experienced, then I can understand it and I can work with it more completely and more honorably within myself.  Because if I attack the lack and the scarcity, all I do is make it get bigger.  If I’m choosing to create movement and demonstrate what I teach then it is a requirement for me to do something different with that interpretation – out of the choice of who I’m becoming rather than who I’ve always been.

 

Presuppositions of the nature of language.

 

1.  Language shapes our reality and is literally accepted by our subconscious mind.

 

2.  Language represents thought, thought represents how we filter and perceive reality. 

 

3.  Changing our language changes out thinking which changes our reality.

 

4.  The object on which you are dwelling, be it negative or positive, is the temple at which you pray.  Either the god of your negative thought forms or the god of your positive thought forms will answer.  You become what you dwell on.

 

A tribe in the Philippines have no word for war.  They have never been at war.  Back in the 20s and 30s when the great depression hit, the common metaphor for how the United States described itself on radio and in print was, ‘The country is crippled.’  Within three years – the first outbreak of polio.

 

Language and collective agreement creates huge shifts.  From our emotional states we behave.  >From our behavior the outside world responds to us.  By the response we receive our identities are built.  And the emotional states are created by the words we choose to use.

 

Why change your language?  Changing your language changes your thinking, changes your reality.  To create sustainable personal change it is important to utilize the tools that will re-language our world.  The following are examples of language currently used in everyday conversational English that we can transform.  In order to engage the other 90% of our brain we are required to direct our thinking and become alert to our personal use of language.  Once we do this we program our subconscious mind towards our outcome and our heart’s desire. 

 

I started this whole language course because I was teaching this really powerful Tools For Life training which is a three month intensive course.  That was the first training I ever did.  First month was about cleaning up your relationship with mom and dad.  Second month was about defining life’s purpose and third month was about programming the subconscious mind for outcome.  I thought I had the training that was going to change the planet.  What began to happen was, after about 4 or 5 of those trainings, the students that I saw make the life-changing shifts and I thought they were done.  They’re baked, they’re cooked, they’re done!  They would show up in my office about nine months later with the same emotional behavioral loops that they had before they entered the training.  What happened?  I saw them change.  I stopped everything.  I stopped all the training, my income plummeted.  I could no longer congruently get up in front of a group of people and say, ‘This will change your life.’  I stopped everything, went into this mild form of depression, observable.

 

Why is it that people revert back?  What I came to was the study of language.  And what I realized is that now I can congruently get up in front of a group of people and say, ‘This information will change your life when you use it.  Guaranteed, if you use it.  It will metamorphose how you’ve been living up to this point in time and will shift your life.  Now I can say that because it does.

 

This is the NLP model of communication.  Filters delete, distort and generalize our experiences.  Our filters store and suppress also but the main items are delete, distort and generalize.  We have a vent coming into the neurological sensors.  We have 2000 chunks per second coming in through our sight, sense of touch, smell, hearing and taste.  If we didn’t have these filters we’d all be rolling around foaming at the mouth right now because we’d be unable to withstand the amount of stimulus response that we would be aware of.  So our filters protect us.  What happens then is our filters consist of our language, memories, values, beliefs, attitudes, race, cultural, ancestral influence.  They delete the information, chunk it down to 7 pieces plus or minus 2.  Then we make an internal representation, a picture, of it, we create an emotional state, it gets reflected in our physiology and then we do the behavior.  The filters actually are the key points to what is going to be emphasized for the rest of the weekend.  Because when you know that you yourself have unique memories and unique values based upon what you have made up about your past, no one is going to experience the same experience in the exact same way.  We will have a different slant on it.  We will perceive it a little differently.  If I had someone run through here, dance around for a while and then leave, you would all make up something slightly different about it based upon your own individual filters.

See you tomorrow for more!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Gary De Rodriguez

 

 

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This life we are leading as our current identity is a spiritual journey in the greatest gift we could be given, the Human form.  The secret wisdom of this journey is incased within the window of the family systems we were born into.  We have each created a soul contract with our mothers and fathers to utilize this earthly relationship to deepen our own relationship with the divine. 

 

 

 

 

 

Our family systems provide us with a laboratory of joy and pain that can be now used to awaken in us our deepest core wounds for their transformation.  Through this awakening we travel a path of finding the answers and creating the healing we require so that we can return ourselves back to love.

Our family dynamics was designed and created out of love no matter how our family systems manifested itself in this physical reality.

We are not the victims of this family dynamic.  We can rise above the ancestral dynamics and live life from the perspective of being the designer of own destiny.

 

The ancestral buck stops with each one of us.  We can learn to be co-creators of our reality and take a stand for creating balance with ourselves, our families and our communities.  We can rise above our ancestral influences and live life from the perspective of choice rather than a victim of a family or world based in chaos.

We can then pass this way of living on to our children and future generations creating a movement of personal accountability from the very young to the aged.

   

By healing the ancestral patterns we celebrate the perfection of the order of life.  We came through the perfect parents who co-created the perfect circumstances to wound us in the perfect way and create the dynamic tension that each of us would begin the quest towards self actualization and realization.

The divine order of our family dynamics allows our soul to mature and awakens us to the opportunity to evolve and celebrate.

  

 

Once we learn the tools from the science and technology of Humanistic Neuro Linguistic Psychology to still the story of our past we awaken the inherent wisdom that is within each individual  and we can arise and mature.

The paton is within our hands, the technology is available, it is time to transform our ancestrial patterns and awaken to the individual we came here to be: 

Accountable, empowered, contributive, loving and compassionate to all living things. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Gary De Rodriguez

 

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Are You Awake?

Are you awake to what is possible?

The world is calling out for humanity to awaken to the great gifts it has been given, to awaken to the knowledge of the divine order inherent in our family systems. If we would take the time to understand them, the triumphs and tragedies of our ancestors are incredibly revealing. They reveal our soul purpose and help us to know we are made in the image and likeness of the Divine. By nurturing, studying and recreating our internal circumstances-our inner emotional world-we can empower ourselves to positively and permanently impact what is happening around us.

 Let this be the moment in history that you decided to stand up and be the most beautiful human being possible.

• Let this be the moment in history that you let go of that which you were attached to.
• Let this be the moment in history that you halted your obsessions with the mundane and with the things you could not change.
• And finally, let this be the moment in history that you decided to STOP WASTING TIME.

 How can we ever attempt to understand and overcome the conflicts and wars that exist on this planet until we each become accountable for winning the mini wars that exist within our own minds? People that operate from a place of pain, suffering, lack or any other unresolved emotion will not perpetuate success. They cannot create a real, lasting shift in culture or the dynamic between themselves and others.

When we understand the river of time which we are traveling, we will know that all things change constantly, and change is the only consistency we have. It is not the events that occur in time within our lives that cause the pain. It is the meaning we have assigned to those events that creates our Heaven or our Hell. It is the focus of our minds that either releases us or imprisons us. Time is like a river, and events in our lives are like leaves passing by us in the current. Which leaves do we choose to pick up and examine? For how long to we hold each leaf in our grasp? And which ones do we choose to let quietly float by?

What if you spend your time obsessing on the story of how it has been, yet the way it has been contains the exact circumstances that created and evolved you? What if you spend your life blaming, regretting and condemning the people and the secret teachers who have arrived to show you the way? What if it all happened out of a loving intention to evolve your spiritual wisdom and maturity?

Be the Love you are. Remain in the new story of your outcome. Create different internal representations-different pictures, sounds, dialogs and feelings-by imagining vividly enough to where you feel them deeply. Recreate your past with the power to redefine what has occurred, and distill the wisdom from your experiences with a blessing upon your lips for the ancestral teachers you have had and the order and perfection that is moving us all back to a state of Oneness.

If we can begin to re-language and re-imagine our experiences, we will think and feel differently about our lives and the human condition in general. We will remain in a more optimal and consistent emotional state that allows us the freedom to open and direct our imagination and focused mind toward what we truly desire to create in our world. We can then become the men and women we have always known we could be. We can then master the art of living in this world of seeming victimization as people who expect and direct the quantum field of possibility into existence based upon our freedom to cease the endless story of what did and did not happen. We will be free to create our future with compassion and fulfill what our ancestors could not. We will live with a blessing on our lips for all who went before us in our ancient ancestral lineage.

While existing within the density of our bodies in a world full of fear, all our experiences can culminate in the awakening to our divine inheritance.

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