Spiritual NLP Blog | Neuro-Linguistic Programming | Change Your Life | Gary de Rodriguez, Dallas, TX

1. There is only two things which motivate human behavior: Love and a call for Love.

2. The agenda of romantic love is to bring light to those childhood wounds left unhealed and to provide an environment to receive and heal those parts of ourselves.

 3. Our behavior is our adaptation to loss.  Change is the catalyst for healing.

4. Our behavior has a positive intention given the resources we have available to us at the time.

5. We are in relationship with ourselves in the context of another.  Our relationships provide us with a mirror in which to see those parts of ourselves we cannot normally see.

6. Authentic communication is the key ingredient for a successful relationship.  If we are hiding our truth in relationship, we disempower ourselves and create a environment of resentment, projection and fear. 

 7. Live from your personal life values with greater congruency between your thought word and deed. The more congruency, the stronger your personal identity.  The stronger your personal identity the healthier the relationship you will create.  You are the common denominator in your relationship history.  When you change your history in relationships will also change.

 8. Understand you distort reality.  Begin your communication with the understanding that you see through your individual filters of your accumulated beliefs and memories.  Be personally accountable for the emotions you are creating based upon the meaning you are giving circumstances in your world.  The map is not the territory.

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Gary De Rodriguez

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Geetings Everyone! Below is a process I have been requested to post again to direct the sunconscious mind! (Here you have it)

 

This really works if you practice it faithfully.

My subconscious, please locate the origin of my beliefs and thoughts that cause me to feel it is difficult to accept and integrate new ideas and beliefs that promote positive change.

Take each and every level, layer, area, and aspect of my Being to this origin.

Analyze and resolve it perfectly with Universal truth.

Come through all generations of time and eternity, healing every incident and its appendages based on the origin. Please do it according to the Highest Good until I’m at the present – filled with light and truth, Divine peace and love, forgiveness of myself for my incorrect perceptions, forgiveness of every person, place, circumstance and event which contributed to these feelings, beliefs and thoughts.

With total forgiveness and unconditional love, I allow every physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual problem, and inappropriate behavior based on the negative origin recorded in my DNA, to transform now and forever.

I choose Being open and accepting to new ideas and beliefs that promote positive change and are congruent with my continued evolution.

I feel my body is at ease and comfortable taking in, digesting and integrating new ideas, beliefs and thoughts that promote positive change and are in line with my continued evolution.

I AM easily integrating and generalizing new ideas, beliefs, thoughts and feelings that promote continued positive change in me now.

It is done. It is healed. It is accomplished now!

Thank you, My Subconscious, for coming to my assistance and helping me achieve my full potential. Thank you, thank you, thank you! I love you and express heart-felt gratitude and appreciation to my Eternal Source of Well-Being, from whom all blessings flow.

Love & Light

Gary De Rodriguez

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Language is Powerful Choose Wisely

 

 

 

Language directs our thinking.  Our mental focus determines our success or our failure.

Have you ever attempted to shift how you think by thinking differently?  Generally this is a lesson in futility.  The easiest method of changing how we think is by changing our language.

If you constantly envision your success and abundance and language your communication to be in alignment with those aspirations, you will direct your subconscious mind toward that goal.  The same is true of your negative thoughts.  If you are constantly expecting the worst, talking about your fears, imagining the future cloaked in possible failure, you will draw those experience toward you as well. 

We utilize only 10% of our mental possibility while the other 90% lies at the subconscious level.  What would our lives be like if we learned the system to program the infinite capacity of our minds towards our goals and outcomes. 

Here are some little known facts about our subconscious mind.

Our subconscious mind takes our language literally and personally.  Language is one of the principle ways we program this power within us. 

Our subconscious mind is programmed by our conscious minds and is power without direction. 

That which we dwell on, feel to be real and language accordingly are the principle programming agents that guide our life’s successes and our life failures.

We do have CHOICE.  We are in charge our minds therefore our results.  We have all the abilities and resources we require to succeed in life.

What we require to accomplish is the study of how to awaken and direct our subconscious minds towards our goals.

 

The subject on which you are dwelling, be it negative or positive, is the temple at which you pray.  Either the God of your negative thought forms or the God of your positive thought forms will answer.   Your present day reality and life circumstances are the answered mental focus of your past thoughts.  You have brought them into manifestation by what you consistently dwelt upon and language to be real.  Because of the delay of time you have forgotten what you have called into being and created for yourself.

 

The owners manual for the human mind lies within the Art and Science of Neuro Linguistic Programming.

Within this vast body of knowledge is a superlative model of communication which gives us an insight into how we construct our reality.

Our five senses are bombarded with over two million chunks of stimulus per second.  We each have filters which consist of many subconscious filters, such as time/space, language, memories, values and beliefs, attitudes, and meta programs.  These filters take the two million chunks of information being processed by our senses and Deletes Distorts and Generalizes the information down to seven pieces plus or minus two consciously.  The reminder of the information sinks into the subconscious.

This universal process establishes our individual perspectives as we continue to experience our present reality through the experiences of our past. 

 

Many of our past experiences have been our greatest strengths and many have created our greatest blockages to success.  These blockages are created by the unresolved negative emotions, which we carry within us concerning our past.  The more unresolved pain, the more we Distort, Delete and Generalize our present experiences so our past keeps repeating itself in our internal world, which affects our now and our future.   These Distortions, Deletions and Generalizations are reflected in our thinking.  They play out in our deepest thoughts and imaginings.  They run how we mentally anticipate our future and therefore affect our relationships both professionally and personally.

The question remains how can I create optimal clarity from the universal process of Distorting reality through my past experiences?

The answer is within our word.

Language represents thought.

Thought represents how we filter and perceive reality.

Changing our language, changes our thinking which in turn changes our reality.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Gary De Rodriguez

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Through the last fifty years of leadership study, leadership scholars have modeled the most effective leadership strategies of the great leaders of our time, attempting to create a leadership strategy that can be utilized by all.

 

Although modeling others greatness can add to our knowledge, it is not us.  It is not our life experience, our hearts, and our spirits that can be remolded into another’s life lessons.  Can we learn information? Yes.  But if that is all we are bringing to the table of our teams and organizations then the people with whom we are choosing to have the greatest effect upon will sense the inauthentic foundation to our leadership abilities and we will exhibit an imitation of leadership rather than leadership qualities grounded in experience that people will desire to follow.

   

To distill the wisdom from our life experiences with humanity and heart is the true core quality of sustainable leadership.  Once you have master the ability to take your wisdoms and mold them into relationship strategies, communication and negotiation models with a deep desire to honor all, then you are beginning to birth forth and mature your authentic leader within.

 

There are three laws to awakening your Authentic Leader within.

Law #1 = Your relationship with yourself.

This law is essential to mastering the other two laws and is foundational to a balanced life between work, family and your life purpose.

Have you cleared the skeletons out of your closet? Have you transformed your limiting beliefs and fears from your past?  Are you more reactive than proactive? Are the filters that you perceive life through clear of the distortions of your past or are they so muddled with your past unresolved issues that much of what you experience internally is a repeating pattern of responses that do not reflect who you really are.

The first law is = Master your mental and emotional self and bring your word, thought and actions into alignment with your highest values so you live from congruence and consistency.

 

 

Law #2 = Your relationship with others.

This is were the rubber hits the road in all factors of leadership.  You must have masterful relationship skills, communication skills and conflict resolution skills.  If we do not have our internal emotional worlds matured, we can never become the leaders we are called upon to be, either in our families or organizations.

Have you mastered the models of effective communication?  How often do you insist upon an authentic conversation with those around you who are hiding their agendas?

Do you know what to do when people are creating their secret emotional contracts with you and holding and projecting their agendas on you without your knowledge?

How do now handle all the unspoken demands upon you? How do you now deal with the hallucinations of others that are placed on you daily because of your position, both in your organization and your families?

All leaders require the best tools to navigate their way through the landscape of relationships.  This is the #2 focus of all effective leaders.

Law #3 = Your relationship to the Sacred

Have you forgotten who you are and what brings peace to your heart?  This is the law of re-grounding yourself in the experience of what all your efforts are for anyway?

Who are you? What have you really come here to do?  What is your purpose and mission in life?

At the end of the day we all will face that point in time when we will stop and wonder did we really do what our souls came here to do or did we waste our life accumulating wealth and power but our hearts are filled with fear and there is a deep knowing somehow we missed the mark?

This is the law that is very personal to each person but it is to ground ourselves in our personal relationship to whatever we consider sacred for ourselves and develop a relationship of connecting to It, and being part of a larger purpose that is greater than our desires.   

 Integrating these laws into your everyday life is essential for effective living.  Every leader has abilities they have developed through the course of their life experience that has gotten them to where they are today.  These 3 Laws are the ways to take you to the next level of life balance and fulfillment.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Gary De Rodriguez

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Did you know that just by simply imagining vividly, specifically, till you felt it to be real, your nervous system wouldn’t know the difference.  How many of you can terrify yourself?  How many of you can put yourself into bliss?  You do it the exact same way.  Vivid imagination, imagining it till you feel it to be real, and it becomes real for you.  How can you use this to take the chariot of your mind and direct it toward your home.  So my invitation to you is, pick up the reins and steer your horses via your language and your imagination.

 

Are you beginning to see that, when you begin to harness the power of the imagination and the power of your language, your life can metamorphose and truly, in my experience, whatever else I have done which has been valuable, has fallen in importance and power because I have yet in the past to clean up the thing that is consistently programming my emotional states which is my imagination and my language.  I’ve hung out naked for a week with a team of people screaming and tearing apart futons about the rage about their parents.  How much more can you do?  I’ve been celibate for 15 years eating nothing but tofu and green beans meditating 3 and a half hours a day from 3 till 6 in the morning every day for 15 years going for god.  And I’m here to say that, no matter what I have done to wake myself up, this has been the most important generative thing I have done.  Because, for me to be able to sit in meditation, in order for me to sustain an emotional state strong enough to have me get value by being able to still my mind in meditation… if my mind is running amok for 22 hours a day, what makes me think I’m going to be able to still it in 2.  This information sustains and supports everything.  This is the foundation which we are required to stand on because it is the foundation of mindfulness, of living our lives with purpose and with mindfulness.  Live your life as if every word is a prayer coming into reality because speaking is your self fulfilling prophecy. So is your imagination.  Whatever you are focused upon you are still sitting under your wishing tree and you will manifest it.  Either it is the monster will the long fangs that is a meat eater and will devour you or it is your beautiful princess or prince in a palace.  Either one – god just looks down and says Yes!  You are using your god-given ability to create.  You go for it.  That is tying the legs of your camels and then surrendering.  It’s time to do it.

 

We’re going to do a process called the theater of change.  It’s based on the NLP phobia technique and one of my thoughts is that we are this amazing being that has a whole series of pictures, sounds and feelings via our internal representational systems and that these internal representational systems act as drivers for much of our behavior and how we hold our reality.  What we’re going to do is we’re going to shift the pictures, sounds and feelings of your past.  It’s going to happen by partnering with me.  Any work that is ever done with a client that I do is you take 50% of the responsibility, as do I.  I will set up the environment for you to make the change and you’re the one who makes the change based upon the focus of your mind and your desire to have it be so.

 

So those of you who have had in the past the seemingly poor visualization skills, you actually have great visualization skills.  Just take the specific modality that you’re representing your experiences from, whether it’s kinesthetic or auditory, give a symbol to what those sounds or those feelings are and visualize that way.  Remember, the subconscious takes things very metaphorically and symbolically.  We’re going to enter a theater of your past.  You wrote the movie, you starred in it, you produced it.  You are the maker of the internal representations of your entire experience from conception to now.  You made it up.

 

So when you’re ready to just allow yourself to go into a more focused and concentrated state within yourself, allow your eyes to close.  Uncross your arms and your legs so the energy flows freely in your body and we’re going to go inside, deeper than you’ve gone before, allowing yourself the opportunity to begin to allow those parts of you that know how to change begin to change.  And what I’d like to suggest to your collective subconscious minds is that it now has an opportunity to begin to meet its highest prime directive by allowing the unresolved emotions from your past in a process that can be very quick and very powerful to begin to shift and change the unresolved emotions of the past in a way that is easy and comfortable, knowing that the highest prime directive of the subconscious mind is to preserve the body.  And as I speak to your collective subconscious I’d like to suggest to your subconscious to know that any stress caused by unresolved emotions is less than optimal for the human body.  So as your subconscious begins to understand the opportunity it has, your conscious mind can begin to drift, drifting to a place of focused concentration where your conscious mind can begin to let go.  That’s right.  Just letting go in a way that’s right for you.  Letting go in a way that is comfortable for you as your subconscious begins to understand the opportunity it has now.  So as your body begins to relax, allowing all the sounds you hear, the tone, the tempo of my voice, the sound of your breath entering and exiting your body, allowing yourself to feel the surface on which you’re sitting, awareness of how your hands, your arms, your legs, your feet are and allowing a sensation of just letting go and going deep, deep and even deeper into the state of awareness of the many different wonders within yourself.  And as you continue to focus your mind, imagine that you are now in a theater, a theater looking up at the screen and as you look at that screen, sitting in the theater, imagine a part of you, the observer part, the part of you that’s in control, lifts up out of that body sitting in the theater, and sits in the projection room of that theater.  And imagine now being in the projection room looking down at your body watching the screen and just breathe and be there with me in the theater of your own mind.  We’re going to review a film.  This is the film of your life.  You starred in it, you produced it, you directed it.  You’re going to edit it now.  I’d like to suggest to your subconscious mind that all of the positive learnings, all of the positive learnings from your life, is preserved in that place that you retain for such learnings.  Allowing all of those learnings beautifully and generatively contribute to your life from this point forward.  Allowing your subconscious mind through the internal representations that you have carried up to now to begin to shift and change in such a way that allows you now to have a different set of pictures, sounds and feelings which promote and produce the necessary internal representations to fulfil your life purpose in the optimum manner, according to your destiny. 

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Gary De Rodriguez

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