Spiritual NLP Blog | Neuro-Linguistic Programming | Change Your Life | Gary de Rodriguez, Dallas, TX

 

So when we know that we are making it up and we’re with someone else and we know they’re making it up, it’s a really wonderful thing to take personal accountability for the emotional states you create in yourself based upon how you’re filtering the world.  What is the difference between the internal dialog and the language that you send out?  Your internal dialog is richer with content, you have a tendency to filter more on the outside.  Have you ever seen people who have lost the filter to discriminate what comes out of their mouth.  It’s generally people downtown standing on Broadway who are screaming obscenities at someone who is not there.  They’ve lost the filter to actually discriminate what comes out of their mouth.  They’re just speaking from what’s in here now. 

 

When you stop saying it, do you stop thinking it?  The premise is that, if it does not exist in language, it does not exist in thinking.  Just like the tribe in the Philippines who have no word for war.  They’ve never been at war.  If we have no symbol to represent it it won’t exist here.  When we step out of languaging from I want and I need and I’m trying, which is all out of the victim archetype, and we step into I choose and I am, what happens?  Emotionally inside of us we step into a place of ‘I’m choosing this from a power within myself of personal accountability.’  So we stop thinking victim archetype and into action.  The way the emotional states are, at least within myself, there are emotional states that oftentimes I feel like I have no control over that emotion because it has been an habitual way of thinking and perceiving, which is linked to all kinds of past experiences, which brings up trauma for me and then I feel it all over again.  What I’m suggesting is the exact same method that we use to develop that response we can use the exact same method to develop an empowered emotional response through habitual thinking, habitual languaging and habitual imagination. 

 

Your present reality – In this exercise write your first thoughts about your beliefs, your feelings and ideas on one of the following subjects as you become aware of them.  Now, what if I’d like to say here is I’m choosing rather than to go by a subject that if you had an issue in your life, perhaps it’s health, perhaps it’s money, perhaps it’s your relationship with whatever you’re calling god for you, perhaps it is divine partnership, a marriage or a great friend, whatever it is.  If there is one place in your life that if that shifted your life would take a quantum leap.  What I’d like you to do just in silence is think about what that one place in your life, if it shifted, you would make a quantum leap with your life.  It may be one of these subjects, but I’d like you to think about what that one thing would be.  You’re going to write the first thoughts that come to your mind.  Let your words flow freely.  The less you filter mentally the more accurately your words will represent your subconscious belief systems.  Be spontaneous.  Write down your first words unedited.  Make complete sentences and let your emotions flow.  We’ll be using these paragraphs in subsequent exercises so write clearly enough that you will be able to read your own handwriting.  I’d like you to write down your current reality on how you are experiencing this limitation now, how it’s been for you.  Please begin.

 

Specifics in speech produce emotions.  When we speak with attention to specifics and align our emotions to what we speak, our subconscious is more fully programed for manifesting our spoken word.  When our spoken word is aligned with our heartfelt emotions, creation begins.  Have you ever sat in an audience and listened to someone speak who spoke from a place that was not connected to their heart?  And what is the feeling that you have when that happens?  There is a certain lack of vitality in the speaking.  When a person speaks distinctly from their heart, what begins to happen?  What would happen if every word you spoke in your conversations with people or in your stories with people was right from your heart?  Would people be impacted that much more?  It’s very easy to be clever with words.  Sometimes it’s very challenging to speak from your heart because the emotions behind the words is what gives the words impact.  So when we speak, because our speech has so much power when it is aligned with our emotions, things happen.

 

Specificity produces emotions.  Why is that important?  Did you know that thoughts are literally vibrations and as we think those vibrations become a habit.  As we think more brain cells are attracted to that particular vibration and we begin to create neuronetworks in the brain.  When emotion is linked to the thinking, the vibration is amplified, more brain cells are attracted, deeper and more complex neuronetworks are formed.  What does that do?  It intensifies and creates more of your reality.  This is how you have physiologically made you to be you.  With your very specific ways of perceiving, you have habitually thought it, you’ve languaged it, you’ve imagined it and felt it to be so.  You have created the neuronetworks that when you perceive something those neuronetworks fire off and the built neuronetworks of another type of perception.  How we have literally physiologically built ourselves to be who we are today is through contemplating habitually, languaging it habitually and feeling it to be as if it is, habitually.  And then we become it.  And then we begin to perceive our world through those particular filters.  And this is how we have become who we are. 

 

We use the exact same system to develop a new set of perceptions and filters to view our life from.  And that’s what this whole weekend is about.  How did we do it?  And how do we do it now?

 

Specificity.  When we are alert to what provides us with the specifics we stay emotionally connected with our language.  Answers to the following questions provide those specifics.

 

Who, when, what, where, with whom and how. 

 

They begin to provide specifics to our language.  The more you stay ‘out there’ the more disconnected you are from your heart.  But when you get to specifics, that’s when you feel it.  Specificity drives the emotional body.

 

Non-conscious language categories: deletion, distortion, generalization, negation and disempowerment.

 

Language of deletion.  Now this goes right back to the NLP model of communication.  Remember, delete, distort and generalize?  That’s what our filters do.  Our subconscious mind requires specifics in order to manifest our desired outcomes.  When we delete specifics about our desired outcome our subconscious mind does not have adequate information to produce the desired results.  When we focus on where we do desire our lives to go we send the previously untapped 90% of our potential in the direction of our heart’s desire.  By focusing the specificity on our outcome, we utilize our divine right use of will and mental energy toward creating our reality. 

 

Now how many of us use our mental energy on our story?  You just wrote your stories out, right?  How much time do you spend there?  Have you ever been in conversation with someone and they’re in their story and they’re talking about their life and then you ask them, ‘What is it that you really desire?  Where is it that you’re really going?’  Do they have a lot to say then?  As much to say about the specifics of their past?  They’ve got less to say, is that true?  What if they had more to say?  Would that be interesting to listen to?  Where are you going?  What is it you really desire?  But when you ask them about their life, what you generally get are huge stories. 

 

Now this brings to mind a story.  There was once a tree called the Wishing Tree.  And this man in India, this fakir, sought his whole entire life for the Wishing Tree.  If you sat underneath the Wishing Tree, what would happen is, as you dwelt on it, whatever you thought about manifested.  He sought his whole life, he sat underneath the tree and he said, ‘What I wish for is a beautiful palace.’  And as soon as he had the thought a beautiful palace appeared.  And then he said, ‘What I really would love is a beautiful maiden.’  And as soon as he had the thought, a beautiful maiden appeared.  And he had the thought, ‘What’s really missing here is a huge banquet for us to enjoy.’  And as soon as he had the thought a huge banquet appeared.  And then he said, ‘Oh, my god.  Everything I’m wishing for is coming true.  There must be a monster behind this.’  And as soon as he had the thought a monster appeared.  And then he said, ‘Oh, my god.  It’s got fangs.  It’s a meat eater.  It will devour me.’  And as soon as he had the thought he was devoured.

 

Now we’re sitting under the Wishing Tree every breath we take.  The left and the right brain, the cranium, whatever we are dwelling upon, habitually, consistently, over and over again, is what is manifesting outside of us.  That is what’s happening.  And you’re doing it.  So if you’re dwelling on your story, guess what you get to have more of.  More evidence that your story is true.  So if you’re into, ‘I’m not enough.  There’s lack or scarcity.  I’m not loveable.  I’ll always be poor.’  Guess what comes forward to demonstrate itself out in your world.  More of that.  More evidence of that.  I’m not pretty enough, I’m not thin enough, I’m not fat enough, My hair’s not blonde, my hair’s not red. 

Look for more in tomorrows Blog! 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Gary Dr Rodriguez

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So there were about 150 people in the room and I thought, ‘I can do this.  I’m real transformed, I’ve done all this work, I’ve got it together.’  So I go up there and I’m sitting on the stool and he asked me just one question, ‘Why are you here?’  I said something like, ‘I’m here to transform myself and gain all the tools I require to heal every person I meet and transform the planet.’

 

A lot of people speak like that, right?  So a box of Kleenex and an hour and a half later I got to why I was there.  Have you ever sat witnessing a person’s resistence?  It can be frustrating.  It’s like, ‘Would you just get to it.’  I’m sitting up there and at one point I said, ‘I’m not safe.  I’m not doing this.’  I was speaking that kind of dysfunctional language then.  I was upset.  I had yet to get to what it was and I could feel people’s thought forms being projected toward me from the audience.  I stopped everything and said, ‘If you think I’m going to undress and be naked in front of these people who have judgment, you are nuts.  This space is not safe.’  So what he did was he had everybody stop and repeat silently within themselves, ‘I stand in my light for your victory, Gary.’  And he did that and within ten minutes I got to it.  So do the thought forms of the room affect the person speaking?  Absolutely.

 

What I finally got to, and this is something we’ll be getting to today, from this grandiose, non-personalized conversation I was having about my outcome for being there I got to, I was there to receive the divine love of my mother and my father.  That’s a really big distance from healing the planet.  When I spoke it, every cell in body resonated because in reality that is why I was there.  I was feeling under-loved and under-acknowledged by my parents.  In reality we all have a similar core wound.  So this is what it means to be a committed listening.  When someone is speaking and they’re having a challenge, rather than judge use consciousness in a creative way that heals and by your thoughts think your highest thought for them – and it is a complete gift to yourself.

 

Presuppositions of our higher consciousness – I’m going to read these off and just plow right through them.  As I read these presuppositions they are other than the truth.  It is a choice of perception.  Did you know that the whole theory of evolution is a complete assumption with no empirical data to back it up?  So these are assumptions.  They are perceptions.  They are choice of seeing. 

 

1.  Our higher consciousness matures in wisdom through our life experience.

2.  Our higher consciousness is directly accessible depending upon the focus of our attention.

 

3.  Our higher consciousness has access to information beyond the conscious mind or the subconscious mind.

 

Presuppositions of our conscious mind

 

1.  Our conscious mind has the power of choice.

 

2.  Our conscious mind has conditioned free will to direct or be directed.

 

3.  Our conscious mind can choose unconsciousness or consciousness.  How many of you know that you can just go right to sleep – you can choose to just blank out.

 

4.  Our conscious mind can suppress or express from the subconscious.

 

Presuppositions of our subconscious mind

 

Our subconscious mind has 1 with 8 million miles of half-inch zeros behind it of possibility.  We use about 10% of our mental capacity.  The other 90% lies in the subconscious.  When we learn how to direct it we become very much more potentialized.  I likened the human condition to a chariot.  The horses are the horses of our mind; the chariot is our body.  The charioteer is our spirit and the reins that direct it is our imagination and our language.  When we pick those up we can direct our lives.  Some of our horses are wandering perilously toward a cliff.  Some of them are just hanging out in a field and chomping away and refuse to move.  And some are just wandering aimlessly.  It’s about directing it.

 

1.  Our subconscious mind stores memories temporally and atemporally.

 

2.  Our subconscious mind takes language literally. 

 

3.  Our subconscious mind plays back what it receives like a computer.  So what you are constantly languaging in your internal dialog and your external speech, your subconscious mind is taking it literally and will feed it back like a computer. 

 

4.  Our subconscious mind responds to feelings.

 

5.  Our subconscious mind responds to repetition very much like a record.  We run this groove and whatever we are habitually thinking that is the reality we will live in.

 

6.  Our subconscious mind runs the body through the autonomic nervous system. 

 

7.  The subconscious mind is a highly moral being and it prompts us to be a highly moral being.  It is the part of us that says, ‘Please don’t do that.’ 

 

8.  Our subconscious mind attracts experiences to us according to our beliefs. 

 

I was asked to teach something about how people get that they make up their own reality.  I talked for a couple of hours about filters and how we make up our own reality and the meaning we give something creates our heaven or our hell.  So I hired a strapping stud and this beautiful woman to come in and strip to Aretha Franklin.  After 3 hours of lecture I told the class, ‘I’m going to provide you an experience.  Take notes and write down how you’re filtering and giving meaning to this experience so that you see the reality you’re giving it actually creates your own reality and many other people will get a different sense and a different interpretation and therefore will create a whole different response. You’ll really get it.’  So the strippers came in and took off their clothes down to a g-string and they left.  Some people thought it was the most amazing experience.  Other people blew out of the training saying, ‘This is the most unprofessional – I can’t believe I was subjected to this.’  The meaning you give something is the heaven or the hell that you make up.  It’s all made up. 

More to come tomorrow.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Gary De Rodriguez

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