Spiritual NLP Blog | Neuro-Linguistic Programming | Change Your Life | Gary de Rodriguez, Dallas, TX

Does anyone have preverbal memories?  I remember standing in my crib and holding onto the bars of the crib and thinking, ‘Oh, my god – she forgot!’  About my mom – meaning our soul commitment and being terrified that she forgot.  At some level of your memories you have made a common tract with your parents and they loved you so much and probably the more tortured their lives were the more they loved you.  The way you know that you’re you is by the internal representations you carry in your nervous system, your pictures, sounds and feelings of your past. If you were all isolated in a flotation tank and I was feeding you through a feed tube, you had no outside stimulation, how would you know you were you?  Only by your memories.  And your memories are represented by your internal pictures, the remembered sounds and the feelings those pictures and sounds evoke.  If that’s the only way you knew that you were you and you were able to shift those pictures, sounds and feelings, would your past be different?  Those pictures, sounds and feelings are the construction of the filters that you perceive your world through.  If you could change the emotional impact of those pictures, sounds and feelings, would you filter your reality differently and then would your response be different?  That’s where we’re going tomorrow because did you know that the subconscious mind does not know the difference between vivid, sensory, specific imagination and reality?  Have you ever gone to a movie and terrified yourself?  Have you ever gone to a movie and just wept and wept?  You’re watching plastic on a screen with images and you have all these associated emotions and you’re totally into it.  It’s real to you.  We do the same thing in here.   We run the movie, we hear the sound track, and we go through the emotional states.  When this shifts, everything shifts.  This is when NLP becomes so powerful because it works with changing the internal representations.  When the internal representations change the client changes.

 

I’m going to read you something.  In order to intelligently operate the law of consciousness it is necessary to understand the relationship between the conscious and subconscious.  The conscious is personal, selective.  The subconscious is impersonal, non-selective.  The conscious is the realm of affect.  The subconscious is the realm of cause.  These two aspects are the male and female divisions of consciousness.  The conscious mind is male.  The subconscious mind is female.  The conscious generates ideas, impresses and impregnates these ideas on the subconscious.  The subconscious receives the ideas, gives form and expression to them.  By this law of first conceiving an idea and then impressing the idea conceived on the subconscious all things evolve out of consciousness and without this sequence there is not anything made that is made.  The conscious impresses the subconscious while the subconscious expresses all that is impressed upon it.  The subconscious does not originate ideas but accepts as truth those which the conscious mind feels to be true, and, in a way known only to itself, objectifies the accepted ideas.  Therefore through his and her power to imagine and feel in his and her freedom to choose the idea, man and woman will entertain, man and woman has control over all of creation.  Control of the subconscious is accomplished through control of your thoughts and your feelings.  The mechanism of creation is hidden in the very depth of the subconscious mind, the female aspect or womb of creation.  The subconscious transcends reason and is independent of induction.  This is important.  It contemplates a feeling as a fact, existing within itself, and on this assumption, proceeds to give expression to it.  The creative process begins with an idea and its cycle runs its course as feeling and ends in action.  Ideas are impressed on the subconscious through the medium of emotion, feeling.  No idea can be impressed on the subconscious until it is felt but once felt, be it good, be it bad, be it indifferent, it must be expressed, regardless of the evidence in front of you.  The evidence in front of you is simply the outpicturing of what has been habitually dwelt upon in the past.  What you get to do now is focus the mind on where you are going.  Language it, imagine it, feel it to be true, regardless of the evidence, and the subconscious must give expression to it. 

 

I remember my good friend Roger.  He was in outcome, really languaging an outcome to sell his business.  It didn’t sell.  He did everything, mind mapped every night, really in emotional states.  Didn’t sell.  There is a new opportunity for that now.  Things are happening in that arena now.  He set the seed, he planted it in his subconscious.  When the correct, appropriate time was here, it began to sprout.  Your job is to plant the seeds.  Be unattached to what actually becomes produced.  Choose it, feel it to be real and surrender.  And things happen in a most magical and unexpected way. 

 

So keeping your eyes closed, just allowing yourself to be in a deep state of concentration, what I am suggesting to your subconscious mind is that all the things you have seen, felt, heard and learned today will integrate themselves in the very deepest level in your dream states tonight.  You may remember your dreams.  Your dreams will promote a deep, sound sleep.  And as you dream your dreams of healing, allowing your subconscious mind to work with your higher self to remove the blockages that have stood between you and your full expression of who you’re choosing to be in your ancestral line.  Allowing all this to happen naturally and automatically in your dream states tonight.  When you awaken tomorrow morning the world will look different, feel different, sound different.  And your mind will be open and aware of the possibilities that lie before you.  Take three deep integrative breaths and as you continue your last two breaths, remember your language tonight.  Speak in outcome.  Speak toward.  Speak in language of empowerment.  Eliminate want, need, try and I don’t know.

(To be continued in tomorrows Blog)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Gary De Rodriguez

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All that exists is part of one family called life.  Within each of us is the opportunity to create our heavens or our hell’s by the choices of what we dwell upon, language and imagine.  Through our innate ability to create our reality we spin out our own unique worlds mirroring what we believe to real, language and imagine repetitively, thereby conditioning our nervous system for less choices.

 

Events in our life are empty of meaning.  We ascribe the meaning to the events we experience through our five senses and create the emotions that drive our behavior.  Through our behavior we are responded to by the world and our beliefs and identity begins to form and harden.  Our thoughts, words and the emotions we produce as a result determine what our experience of our world’s will be.  It’s the choices in our thoughts words and actions and the focus of our minds that create our perceptions, our worldviews, and our direction as an individual and a species collectively.

 

We have each been gifted with the magnificent vehicle, the human form, with more neurological possibilities than there are grains of sand on all the beaches of our planet.  The one question we are being asked to answer is: what am I really here to do? What is my purpose?  Are we here to accumulate wealth, power, raise our children and grand children or did we each come with a specific purpose that only we can fulfill, a larger vision specific to ourselves? All our relationships and accomplishments are part of our purpose but is that our true soul’s mission or is there something more?

 

The question

Recognize that there are many human values, opinions and morals on this earth.  Celebrate the diversity of humankind. Appreciate the beauty of difference.  It is in our differences that we are truly one. We are one unlimited, intelligent, creative species full of genius, truth and knowledge.  Rather than find conflict in our values and beliefs, let us find the fruits of unity.  All systems of thought  whether religious, political or cultural are guiding means, not absolute truths.  Human life is more precious than any ideology or doctrine.  Peace can only be achieved when we honor and respect the choices of others in the systems they choose to guide their lives.

 

If we accept everything in life as our teacher, we are open to observations of ourselves and of our world.  Remember that each individual walks a different journey, a different path, and therefore lives within a different reality.  We get to acknowledge the individual life experience as an adaptation to life circumstances with the best life skills they had available at the time. We accept that people can change when taught the current life skills available.  With this change the individual empowers themselves their friends, family, community and the world at large.   Peace is an inside job.  Until the individual resolves the war within there will be war without.  A road to Peace lies in the choice of perspective that life is sacred.

 

 

Perception is projection.  If we experience life as sacred then we will experience the world and people we encounter as sacred. What we see in another we harbor in our hearts.  We can only recognize the qualities that we possess.  If we harbor anger, our anger at others is anger at ourselves.  Our relationships are mirrors to reflect back to us those qualities which often lay outside our conscious awareness.  When aversion arises in our minds, we have the choice to project it out to another or utilize it as a tool for introspection and personal discovery. 

 

There are two things that motivate human behavior: Love or Fear.  Our behavior as well as others behaviors are a deep call for love or love.

 

We are in charge of our minds therefore our results.  What we habitually dwell upon we become more of.  Our life results are in direct correlation to the focus of our minds.

 

Our parents didn’t do it to us. We have a choice how we allow their behavior to affect us.  They have done the best they can do with the resources they have available to them.  The sooner we stop condemning them the sooner we can get on with the job of living our lives.  Our reason for being ( our life mission) lies in the metaphor of our parents lives.  There is purpose and order in the universe. A strand of DNA can duplicate a human body. A seed of an oak tree holds the leaf size, trunk texture, and canopy width within an acorn.  The planets are orbiting in this grand dance called gravity.  There is order and purpose in life.  When it comes to our families and our own life, have we ever asked the question why this family? why these parents?  There is a reason, there is order and purpose to why you came into the family you did.  Look to their lives and look at what their lives are saying to you about how to live.  What to do and what not to do. 

 

Move the focus of your minds off the story of what you did or didn’t receive from them to what their lives are saying to you about life.  Take their life lessons and make different choices.  Many times our parents lives show us the road not to take.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Gary De Rodriguez

 

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This life we are leading as our current identity is a spiritual journey in the greatest gift we could be given, the Human form.  The secret wisdom of this journey is incased within the window of the family systems we were born into.  We have each created a soul contract with our mothers and fathers to utilize this earthly relationship to deepen our own relationship with the divine. 

 

 

 

 

 

Our family systems provide us with a laboratory of joy and pain that can be now used to awaken in us our deepest core wounds for their transformation.  Through this awakening we travel a path of finding the answers and creating the healing we require so that we can return ourselves back to love.

Our family dynamics was designed and created out of love no matter how our family systems manifested itself in this physical reality.

We are not the victims of this family dynamic.  We can rise above the ancestral dynamics and live life from the perspective of being the designer of own destiny.

 

The ancestral buck stops with each one of us.  We can learn to be co-creators of our reality and take a stand for creating balance with ourselves, our families and our communities.  We can rise above our ancestral influences and live life from the perspective of choice rather than a victim of a family or world based in chaos.

We can then pass this way of living on to our children and future generations creating a movement of personal accountability from the very young to the aged.

   

By healing the ancestral patterns we celebrate the perfection of the order of life.  We came through the perfect parents who co-created the perfect circumstances to wound us in the perfect way and create the dynamic tension that each of us would begin the quest towards self actualization and realization.

The divine order of our family dynamics allows our soul to mature and awakens us to the opportunity to evolve and celebrate.

  

 

Once we learn the tools from the science and technology of Humanistic Neuro Linguistic Psychology to still the story of our past we awaken the inherent wisdom that is within each individual  and we can arise and mature.

The paton is within our hands, the technology is available, it is time to transform our ancestrial patterns and awaken to the individual we came here to be: 

Accountable, empowered, contributive, loving and compassionate to all living things. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Gary De Rodriguez

 

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