Spiritual NLP Blog | Neuro-Linguistic Programming | Change Your Life | Gary de Rodriguez, Dallas, TX

Will you pass down chaos or choice?

This life you are leading-a life clothed by your current identity-is an incredible gift. Even if your experience here has been a painful one, realize that it is a spiritual journey, not a stop-off on the way to Heaven or Hell. You absolutely required to be here at this exact moment in history.

As we walk through life in Human Form, we are continuously presented with windows of opportunity to acquire the wisdom of our ancestry. We each have created a soul contract with our mothers and fathers to utilize this earthly existence to deepen our own relationship with the Divine. Your unique family system provides you with a laboratory of joy and pain that can be used to awaken your deepest core wounds so they may be healed and transformed. Through this awakening, you travel a path of finding the answers and creating the healing you require so that you may return back to love.

Our family dynamics were designed and created out of love, no matter how our family systems manifested themselves in this physical reality. We are not victims, and we must know that we can rise above the ancestral dynamic and live life as the designer of own destiny.

The ancestral buck stops with each one of us. We can learn to be co-creators of our reality. We can and should take a stand for creating balance within ourselves, our families, and our communities. We can rise above our ancestral influences and live life from the perspective of choice, not chaos. We can then pass this way of living on to our children, creating a movement of personal accountability from the very young to the aged.

By healing the ancestral patterns, we celebrate the perfection of the order of life. We came through the perfect parents who co-created the perfect circumstances to wound us in the perfect way and create the dynamic tension that would spur each of to begin the quest towards self actualization. The divine order of our family dynamics allows our souls to mature and awakens in us the opportunity to evolve and celebrate. That is the gift.

The Hopis say there is absolutely no past, that everything that ever existed is present right here in the cells of our bodies, that every ancestor that ever lived is resonating in our DNA. You are the culmination of the thought forms of everything that has gone before you. Yet you have the choice to do it differently. You have the choice to overcome the idea of separation and fear. You have the choice to move out of the victim archetype and to be first person accountable for creating your world out of the words you speak, the things you contemplate, and the emotions you choose to feel.

By learning the tools of the science and technology of Humanistic Neuro Linguistic Psychology, we can still the stories of our past and awaken the inherent wisdom that is within each of us. The baton is in your hands. The technology is available. It is time to transform our ancestral patterns and awaken to what we came here to be: accountable, empowered, contributive, loving and compassionate to all living things.

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Does anyone have preverbal memories?  I remember standing in my crib and holding onto the bars of the crib and thinking, ‘Oh, my god – she forgot!’  About my mom – meaning our soul commitment and being terrified that she forgot.  At some level of your memories you have made a common tract with your parents and they loved you so much and probably the more tortured their lives were the more they loved you.  The way you know that you’re you is by the internal representations you carry in your nervous system, your pictures, sounds and feelings of your past. If you were all isolated in a flotation tank and I was feeding you through a feed tube, you had no outside stimulation, how would you know you were you?  Only by your memories.  And your memories are represented by your internal pictures, the remembered sounds and the feelings those pictures and sounds evoke.  If that’s the only way you knew that you were you and you were able to shift those pictures, sounds and feelings, would your past be different?  Those pictures, sounds and feelings are the construction of the filters that you perceive your world through.  If you could change the emotional impact of those pictures, sounds and feelings, would you filter your reality differently and then would your response be different?  That’s where we’re going tomorrow because did you know that the subconscious mind does not know the difference between vivid, sensory, specific imagination and reality?  Have you ever gone to a movie and terrified yourself?  Have you ever gone to a movie and just wept and wept?  You’re watching plastic on a screen with images and you have all these associated emotions and you’re totally into it.  It’s real to you.  We do the same thing in here.   We run the movie, we hear the sound track, and we go through the emotional states.  When this shifts, everything shifts.  This is when NLP becomes so powerful because it works with changing the internal representations.  When the internal representations change the client changes.

 

I’m going to read you something.  In order to intelligently operate the law of consciousness it is necessary to understand the relationship between the conscious and subconscious.  The conscious is personal, selective.  The subconscious is impersonal, non-selective.  The conscious is the realm of affect.  The subconscious is the realm of cause.  These two aspects are the male and female divisions of consciousness.  The conscious mind is male.  The subconscious mind is female.  The conscious generates ideas, impresses and impregnates these ideas on the subconscious.  The subconscious receives the ideas, gives form and expression to them.  By this law of first conceiving an idea and then impressing the idea conceived on the subconscious all things evolve out of consciousness and without this sequence there is not anything made that is made.  The conscious impresses the subconscious while the subconscious expresses all that is impressed upon it.  The subconscious does not originate ideas but accepts as truth those which the conscious mind feels to be true, and, in a way known only to itself, objectifies the accepted ideas.  Therefore through his and her power to imagine and feel in his and her freedom to choose the idea, man and woman will entertain, man and woman has control over all of creation.  Control of the subconscious is accomplished through control of your thoughts and your feelings.  The mechanism of creation is hidden in the very depth of the subconscious mind, the female aspect or womb of creation.  The subconscious transcends reason and is independent of induction.  This is important.  It contemplates a feeling as a fact, existing within itself, and on this assumption, proceeds to give expression to it.  The creative process begins with an idea and its cycle runs its course as feeling and ends in action.  Ideas are impressed on the subconscious through the medium of emotion, feeling.  No idea can be impressed on the subconscious until it is felt but once felt, be it good, be it bad, be it indifferent, it must be expressed, regardless of the evidence in front of you.  The evidence in front of you is simply the outpicturing of what has been habitually dwelt upon in the past.  What you get to do now is focus the mind on where you are going.  Language it, imagine it, feel it to be true, regardless of the evidence, and the subconscious must give expression to it. 

 

I remember my good friend Roger.  He was in outcome, really languaging an outcome to sell his business.  It didn’t sell.  He did everything, mind mapped every night, really in emotional states.  Didn’t sell.  There is a new opportunity for that now.  Things are happening in that arena now.  He set the seed, he planted it in his subconscious.  When the correct, appropriate time was here, it began to sprout.  Your job is to plant the seeds.  Be unattached to what actually becomes produced.  Choose it, feel it to be real and surrender.  And things happen in a most magical and unexpected way. 

 

So keeping your eyes closed, just allowing yourself to be in a deep state of concentration, what I am suggesting to your subconscious mind is that all the things you have seen, felt, heard and learned today will integrate themselves in the very deepest level in your dream states tonight.  You may remember your dreams.  Your dreams will promote a deep, sound sleep.  And as you dream your dreams of healing, allowing your subconscious mind to work with your higher self to remove the blockages that have stood between you and your full expression of who you’re choosing to be in your ancestral line.  Allowing all this to happen naturally and automatically in your dream states tonight.  When you awaken tomorrow morning the world will look different, feel different, sound different.  And your mind will be open and aware of the possibilities that lie before you.  Take three deep integrative breaths and as you continue your last two breaths, remember your language tonight.  Speak in outcome.  Speak toward.  Speak in language of empowerment.  Eliminate want, need, try and I don’t know.

(To be continued in tomorrows Blog)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Gary De Rodriguez

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Language of disempowerment: I want to go to the movies.  I am going to the movies tonight.  I will go to the movies tonight.  I choose to go to the movies tonight.  I will enjoy going to the movies tonight.  These are different levels of empowerment.  I can’t.  I can, I choose to, I will, I have the resources I require, I will create the resources I require.  I will create what I require to do the job.  It’s yet to be here but I’ll find out how to create it.  Rather than saying I can’t.  When you say I can’t what happens?  Do you throw yourself into the victim archetype immediately?  Do you cut at the root of the possibility of actually creating some of the resources that yet have been able to wake up in you?  When you say I’ll explore how I can create the resources I require to do it.  Do something other than go home and coach everyone around you.  Only coach if you are asked.  Get permission.  I just did this great seminar.  I learned a lot about the power of language.  Would you be interested in having some upgrades to what you just said? 

 

I was in a relationship working for months on how powerful my new relationship was going to be.  It was going to be so great.  It was about 8 months old.  So I came home from one of my trainings and I walked through the door, put down my bag – Hi, honey, I’m home.  And I heard, ‘We have to talk.’  So I sat down.  You’re too spiritual for me, you’re life is going in a direction I don’t choose to go, I’m moving out.  And you talk funny.  And pleaded with me to just talk normal.  Because this was really a co-dependent relationship.  And if I spoke in all the stuff I used to speak in, it would link in and hook that co-dependency.  I was so proud of myself because I generally I’ll drag out all my evidence that they were wrong and weigh it all out and make them feel badly.  What I said was, ‘You don’t see who I am.  Therefore you’re not the one.’  I had worked very, very diligently in creating a real partnership with someone.  And I personally thought this was it.  Three months later I met the person who was it.  The space had to clear out first.  And I worked diligently at creating a relationship because I was fully ready.

 

Unconscious language.  You really make me angry.  I create anger within myself when you do that.  I’m responsible for my feelings and what I make up about what you just said is….  This is very powerful because I was in a relationship once for 9 years with someone who was directly the opposite of everything I am.  And before I created this relationship I prayed to god, probably the only time in my life I ever surrendered and I said, ‘Bring me the relationship that will give me the greatest level of spiritual progress.’  I was very brave in those days.  So I create this relationship. Within three hours after that surrender process the relationship showed up.  Three hours was all it took.  We were together for 9 years.  I was so reactive and so unhealthy in this relationship.  When I got to the point – obviously somehow I get to be accountable for what is happening in my world here.  And I got this idea about filtering and so I thought I would apply it in my most tender place and the weakest place that I was – the place that had atrophied the most, which was the huge victim archetype in relationships – somehow I’m a victim of this person.  They’ve got control over my emotional state and if they don’t give it to me or if they do give it to me I’m either happy or sad.  My partner would do something and I would just get this huge emotional response to it and I’d just sit there silently and fume.  And then I said, ‘What you just said and did, I got really upset at and I’m responsible for the emotions I’m creating in myself and I’m giving meaning to what you just said and did and this is what I made up about it.  Could you give me clarity on what you meant by what you just did and said?’  And not once, not twice, not a hundred times, but every time I had the courage to do that and stay out of my victim and be emotionally accountable, every time I was 180 degrees off from how I interpreted it.  And that’s where a lot of this information started to come forward from.  When I began to realize that in that environment where I was the most reactive and wounded and I started to take accountability and began to question to get clarity, I was completely off.  And we do this.  We mind read a lot.  And we mind read out of the hurt and wound of our past through our filters.  Ask for clarity, you guys.

 

My dream is that you will make me happy.  My dream is that I create my happiness and you create yours.  When you think about language and you think about the words like I need and I want and I’ll try and I don’t know – if we could just take those four out of our conversation – why do you think need, want and I don’t know are so pervasive in our conversational language?  The words dissociate you from a focus and they place you in the victim archetype.  They are literally the language that takes all the strength and power out of your ability to actually achieve.  When you say I deserve it presupposes a time when you didn’t feel deserving.  So when you say I claim, I create or I am it takes you out of the context of either deserving or not deserving.  It just is.  What used to take me a private session half an hour or 45 minutes to get to with neurolinguistic programming, I get to within 10 minutes with a client through their language, just from what they speak and the presuppositions that is behind the language they choose to use.

More to follow tomorrow on this subject!

Love & Light

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Gary De Rodriguez

 

 

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Our subconscious mind takes our language literally and personally.  Because we have been speaking in forms of language that we hear around us daily, we are often unaware of what we are actually programming into our subconscious mind.  Our goal is to use language that is outcome oriented first person accountable, and moving in the direction of our goals and objectives. 

The following is a list of commonly used words, which disempower and some language upgrade alternatives to begin to shift our thinking.

 

 

Disempowerment                                          Language Upgrade

 

1. I want                                                          My choice is, I require

 

2. I need                                                          I desire

 

3. I’m not                                                        I am

 

4. I would but                                                  I am

 

5. I must, I have to                                          I choose to

 

6. I can’t                                                          I am

 

7. I’ll try                                                           I am

 

8. I hope                                                            My choice is

 

9. I don’t know                                                 I’ll find out, I choose to know

                                                                          That’s a good question

 

10. You make me                                              I create for myself

 

11. Its hard                                                         It’s a opportunity

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Gary De Rodriguez

 

 

 

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