Spiritual NLP Blog | Neuro-Linguistic Programming | Change Your Life | Gary de Rodriguez, Dallas, TX

 

 

 

 

Today’s blog, is what we replace all the language of disempowerment with.  This is why you’ll speak more succinctly.  How important is it that we understand the root of where our language patterns, our thinking patterns, comes from in changing it?  I believe it’s context dependent and individually dependent.  I’ve worked with some clients where it was very important to neutralize the negative emotions which is what we’re going to be doing tomorrow.  We’re going to be doing processes that neutralize the internal representations in our minds of how we hold our past.  And we’re going to do it easily.  Because unless your internal representations change, there is no shift.  Some people can just get this information and say, ‘I have no requirement to know what that was.  I’m just going for it.  I’m going for my outcome.  I’m staying completely focused.’  Some people are so disempowered by the emotional luggage that they’re carrying that it’s near to impossible for them to get into a peak emotional state to actually apply the language and the discipline it takes to apply the language. 

 

This is why the language is so imperative in continuing the whole process of doing your enfoldment.  Because unless you are keeping your language clear and clean you will create disempowered emotional states which cuts at the root of your power and puts you right into apathy and procrastination.  Language is the wind underneath the wings of imagination and emotion.  Unless we can keep our language up and alert and aware knowing that we are co-creating by every word we speak, every word is a prayer coming into reality speaking as a self-fulfilling prophecy.  So unless we can do this part of it, which is the beginning of this training, it is very difficult to do the next day to keep the imagination and the outcome in your mind’s focus.

 

 This work takes discipline, you guys.  Most of us have been in a state of such disempowerment that we have become so apathetic in the past about our lives.  And the reason we’ve become apathetic is because we’ve yet to be able to discover a system that actually sustains change.  So we do all this work and we revert back and we do more work and we revert back and then we go into hopelessness.  How many of you have been there?  I most certainly have in the past.  And now, with this system, of how from moment to moment, word by word, mental focus by mental focus, you have a direct succinct system that shows you how you’ve created it and how you can sustain a different state.  I personally think this is the missing piece out of most of the personal change technology out there.  People graze against it, they brush up against it.  This gives you the system and unless the system is enrolled into all the other behavioral change work, which is all fabulous, our patterns will revert back by the habitual thinking and the language which represents it. 

 

How we correct ourselves.  What do you do when you catch yourself in non-productive or limiting language: gossip or self-criticism?  You say Cancel/clear or Cancel/negate or in the past at the end of what you just became aware of saying or thinking.  Our subconscious mind takes our language literally and when we use one or both phrases we clear the slate of our mind.  So did you hear me as I was speaking.  I kept on saying ‘in the past.’  Because all that was story about stuff that we’re moving away from and it’s in the past.  The focus of our mind is the temple at which we pray. 

 

Examples of transforming your language: I am trying to change my life.  I have a successful relationship with the qualities of intimacy, honesty and integrity within myself and my partner.  I create a foundation of love in my home.  And you can even bring more specificity into that by saying, ‘By September of the year 2000 I’m working on a new career.  I’ve hired a marketing agent.  We are producing a series of tapes, lectures and a book.  I’m adjusting my income.  I am receiving $300,000 yearly for my work as a software engineer.  I choose happiness.  I choose happiness in my job as a computer programmer and in my relationship with Natasha.  I choose love.  I experience love from my father John, my mother Betty, my brother Alphonso, and my sister Anastasia.  Even the word I choose is still a process.  It’s an upgrade from I want and I need.  However it is still a process.  When you just claim it in the moment – I create, I experience, I am – it collapses time and brings it right to now.  Now this becomes even more imperative and more important as we go into the imagination aspect.  Because tomorrow we go into how to be emotionally in outcome.  Because, if you can feel it you imprint the subconscious mind even more powerfully.  If you can feel it you can make it real.

 

Language of distortion.  She always does that.  When she’s at home she does the gardening.  After dinner she generally meditates.  Three times per week she does some form of exercise.  My perception is she acts guilty.  That’s a projection, huh?  I am here to help everyone.  I am here to contribute to my mother and my father.  I am here to give physical support to my teammates, George, Bob and Mary.  You never share your feelings.  When I allow myself to become upset I remember only the times that you’ve been quiet.  I want it in my relationship.  I choose to be present, honest and tell the truth in my relationship with Roger.  I choose to have financial security in the amount of $300,000 yearly in combined income in my relationship with Scotty.  I wish I could receive love from them.  This is the language of generalization.  I choose to receive love from Bud, Bonnie and my father Valerio.  That’s just the way I am.  How many of you have said that or had that said to you?  In the past I expressed anger with violence and now I choose to negotiate.  Language of negation.  I love you but…  I love you and I would be more comfortable if you would put medicated foot powder in your shoes.  This was actually said to me. 

 

Isn’t she beautiful?  She’s beautiful.  Can’t you help me.  Please help me.  Didn’t you love it.  Did you like that movie. 

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Language of disempowerment.  Our subconscious mind takes it literally, we’ve been speaking in forms of language that we hear around us daily.  We are often unaware of what we are actually programming into the subconscious.  Our goal is to use language as outcome oriented, first person accountable moving in the direction of our heart’s desire.  When we use the language of disempowerment we keep our thoughts and emotions in a place of stagnation.

 

Examples of the language of disempowerment: I want and I wish.  Everybody say I want.  Now say My choice is.  How does it feel?  Does it feel different energetically?  Yes!  The volume totally went up.  Now say I require.  I need.  I want.  Now say I require.  Which has more power?  I need.  I desire.  Desire means from the Latin root for the father.  I want and I need literally means more desire without ever having the outcome.  That’s what it literally translates to.  Yes, it’s an outcome in the way it’s languaged is that because you’re wanting it and the subconscious takes your language literally and personally, you can continue wanting it for a very, very long time.  But when you say my choice is, I create my divine partnership, by this date, that’s something quite different than wanting to get married.  What you do is you actually take the infinite power of your subconscious, which is 1 with 8 million miles of half inch zeros, and you go snap – go there!  When you sit in the emotional state of actually feeling that your lover is actually there and you fall asleep at night and you feel your lover’s breath on the back of your neck and you go to sleep in the emotional state of already being in that committed relationship – because before you go to sleep at night is the seed time of the subconscious mind.  Your subconscious processes that emotion for 6 to 8 hours.  What do you think that does?  When you go to sleep in loneliness, in tearfulness about what is not, what do you think your subconscious mind processes for 6 to 8 hours?  For more direct manifestation of what you will experience the following day and have evidence of.  You will see it when you believe it!  We believe it first and then we see it.  So that’s the difference between want and I choose.

 

I’m not.  As soon as you hear I’m not coming out of your mouth cancel, clear, which I’ll teach you in just a little bit, and go I am.  Whenever you’re speaking about I’m not, whenever you use that, you’re going to go into your story immediately.  You’re talking about what you’re moving away from rather than what you’re moving toward.  Remember that when you’re speaking about what you’re moving away from you’re in your story and you’re giving mental focus to what you’re moving away from rather than what you’re moving toward.  So it’s very important that I’m not is a huge red flag for you that you’re going into your story and you’re speaking at the temple and you’re praying at the temple of what you’re moving away from.

 

I would.  I will.  I must and I’ve got to.  How many of you do that one?  I choose to, I can’t, I will, I should, I will, I will try, I will, I hope, my choice is, I don’t know – how many of you say I don’t know?  Big time.  So I don’t know is replaced by I’ll find out, I choose to know.  You make me.  I love that one.  In the context of relationships…how many of you have been in relationships where your partner says, ‘You make me…’  You know you’re in trouble.  I create for myself.  Let me.  From whom are we asking permission?  It’s hard.  It’s a challenge.  It’s an opportunity.  So if it has been difficult for you in the past and you choose to claim it as an opportunity, because in reality if it’s been difficult for you in the past it is literally an opportunity to strengthen those parts of you that have been atrophied so it can become easy.  Is that true?  So it is literally an opportunity.

 

If all else fails.  That means you are starting on the worst possible case scenario which means that is the temple you are praying at and that’s what you will get more of.  My highest choice is, at least I’ll be able to…  What if you said, at most I’ll be able to….  What would that be like?  Where would your mind be?  What I’m speaking about is literally the minutiae of your thought patterns.  This becomes an active system of meditation through your use of language.  When you do this your life completely changes because your thinking must shift.  It must shift with the language and it becomes an active meditation 24 hours a day.  And as you apply this, your life completely metamorphoses because your thinking does, therefore your reality.  At least, at most.  If/then.  If you go to the dog pound with me, then I’ll buy you lunch.  My choice is I’ll buy you lunch.  When/then.  When my choice is.  Almost/kind of.  I’ll kind of marry you.  I’ll almost marry you.  Is that a commitment?  Do you feel empowered?  You replace that with it is, you are, and that will get you there.  Specifically speak about what it is.  When you take those vague qualities out of your languaging you become more directed, more direct and more committed.  When you are consistently speaking about how something will be and you refuse to claim it now, first of all it’s a fear of feelings.  When you claim it now, you bring it into manifestation and creation now.

 

I keep hammering this one point.  Speak toward, speak toward, speak toward.  Stay out of the story.  If you find yourself going to the I’m not and all the negations you know you’re going into your story.  That’s your red flag.  What you are dwelling on you are creating more of.  Whatever your mind thinks about habitually, you are creating the neurosynaptic networks in your head that create the perceptual filters which makes up how you will immediately respond to the world.  This is how you created your reality.  This is how you created you to be you.  So the more you actually focus on where you’re moving instead of the story about where you’ve been, you create your life out of your heart’s desire. 

 

We can no longer stand in the light of the victim archetype which is cultural through our entire world.  Time is speeding up.  How many of you know the planet is slowing down in rotations?  That the particles rotating around the nucleus of the atoms is actually speeded up.  That the entire foundation of all we know to be real has accelerated.  Does this have an effect on you, then we are manifesting quicker than ever before and that means either heaven or hell.  That’s why this information I feel is very important to get out there.  Unless we provide the conscious choice of the words, feelings and imagination to direct our subconscious mind our habitual, ancestrally influenced thinking and our language which represents that thinking will direct our subconscious mind for us.  The choice we make moment to moment is do we create from our potential outcome or from our past limitations.  We make our choice with every word we speak or think.  Our words are our representation of our thinking.  Our thinking represents the focus of our minds.  The focus of our minds is our prayer.  Whatever your mind focuses upon is the temple at which you are praying.  I love that page.  Transformational choices.  My highest choice leaves our highest vision for the event, circumstance or person as the last thing on the screen of our minds.  I make up, I give meaning to, gives us the reality of being accountable for the filters we perceive our life and relationship through.  I choose: expression of our will and identity moving toward our outcome.  I can: expression of our identity, our will and our potential in choosing our outcome.  I have brings a desired state to now, collapses time from the future to the present.  I am; expression of identity claiming the emotional state of our desire fulfilled.  I create; expression of identity claiming our divine right as co-creators. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Part of the human experience is to wonder how it is you came to be the person you are. This kind of self awareness is what differentiates us from the rest of the species that inhabit this planet. From the moment you descended from your Mother’s womb you have been creating a belief system: It’s cold. I’m hungry. There’s no love here. Mom is scared. Etc., etc.

As we continue to ascribe meaning to the world around us, we constantly perceive our experiences through the filters of our belief system. As an infant, our experience and perceptual ability is limited and thus are the beliefs we create at that time. We did our best with the tools we had. And as we continue to experience life, we continue filtering our impressions of the world around us based on that core belief system, flawed as it may be. Any new beliefs we acquire are-often with tragic results-based upon a core belief system that is limited in scope and has perhaps outlived its real purpose in our lives. Yet we continue to rely on this shaky structure because it has serviced us for so long. We know nothing else!

Some of our early choices can be our greatest allies or our most persistent tormentors. If our choices torment us, years of heartache may result. Yet because our filters our muddied by incorrect belief systems, we manifest the same heartache over and over and over again.

What most of us fail to realize is that whatever we perceive to be an inescapable reality is merely a creation of our own making. This is because we each respond to the people around us via an emotional state we’ve elicited from the meanings we create and assign to the people in our lives. This is how our identity and self esteem evolves.

In summary:

THOUGHT POWER + BELIEF = EMOTIONS = BEHAVIOR & ACTION = REACTION TO THE WORLD = EGO IDENTITY

So I ask you this: Is your ego identity helping or hindering the fulfillment of your life purpose?

Next time I’ll discuss the three elements of your psyche which bring about the reality you experience as your today, as your tomorrow, and yes, as your past.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Gary De Rodriguez

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