From Ancestry to Self-Actualization

Your Life

Your Life

Will you pass down chaos or choice?

This life you are leading-a life clothed by your current identity-is an incredible gift. Even if your experience here has been a painful one, realize that it is a spiritual journey, not a stop-off on the way to Heaven or Hell. You absolutely required to be here at this exact moment in history.

As we walk through life in Human Form, we are continuously presented with windows of opportunity to acquire the wisdom of our ancestry. We each have created a soul contract with our mothers and fathers to utilize this earthly existence to deepen our own relationship with the Divine. Your unique family system provides you with a laboratory of joy and pain that can be used to awaken your deepest core wounds so they may be healed and transformed. Through this awakening, you travel a path of finding the answers and creating the healing you require so that you may return back to love.

Our family dynamics were designed and created out of love, no matter how our family systems manifested themselves in this physical reality. We are not victims, and we must know that we can rise above the ancestral dynamic and live life as the designer of own destiny.

The ancestral buck stops with each one of us. We can learn to be co-creators of our reality. We can and should take a stand for creating balance within ourselves, our families, and our communities. We can rise above our ancestral influences and live life from the perspective of choice, not chaos. We can then pass this way of living on to our children, creating a movement of personal accountability from the very young to the aged.

By healing the ancestral patterns, we celebrate the perfection of the order of life. We came through the perfect parents who co-created the perfect circumstances to wound us in the perfect way and create the dynamic tension that would spur each of to begin the quest towards self actualization. The divine order of our family dynamics allows our souls to mature and awakens in us the opportunity to evolve and celebrate. That is the gift.

The Hopis say there is absolutely no past, that everything that ever existed is present right here in the cells of our bodies, that every ancestor that ever lived is resonating in our DNA. You are the culmination of the thought forms of everything that has gone before you. Yet you have the choice to do it differently. You have the choice to overcome the idea of separation and fear. You have the choice to move out of the victim archetype and to be first person accountable for creating your world out of the words you speak, the things you contemplate, and the emotions you choose to feel.

By learning the tools of the science and technology of Humanistic Neuro Linguistic Psychology, we can still the stories of our past and awaken the inherent wisdom that is within each of us. The baton is in your hands. The technology is available. It is time to transform our ancestral patterns and awaken to what we came here to be: accountable, empowered, contributive, loving and compassionate to all living things.

Love & Light

Love & Light

Gary De Rodriguez

Language Upgrades

Language is Powerful

Language is Powerful

 

 

 

Our subconscious mind takes our language literally and personally.  Because we have been speaking in forms of language that we hear around us daily, we are often unaware of what we are actually programming into our subconscious mind.  Our goal is to use language that is outcome oriented first person accountable, and moving in the direction of our goals and objectives. 

The following is a list of commonly used words, which disempower and some language upgrade alternatives to begin to shift our thinking.

 

 

Disempowerment                                          Language Upgrade

 

1. I want                                                          My choice is, I require

 

2. I need                                                          I desire

 

3. I’m not                                                        I am

 

4. I would but                                                  I am

 

5. I must, I have to                                          I choose to

 

6. I can’t                                                          I am

 

7. I’ll try                                                           I am

 

8. I hope                                                            My choice is

 

9. I don’t know                                                 I’ll find out, I choose to know

                                                                          That’s a good question

 

10. You make me                                              I create for myself

 

11. Its hard                                                         It’s a opportunity

 

Love & Light

Love & Light

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Gary De Rodriguez

 

 

 

The Choice to Change

Look Within

Look Within

 

 

 

 

 

The Choice to Change

 

 

 

Greetings,

Below is a process that can be used in creating change. This process truly works if you are faithful with it and follow the instructions.

Happy Thanksgiving!

A gift to you!

 

 

When we are choosing a different action plan for ourselves it is imperative that we understand the role of classical conditioning in order to create new behaviors that become part of who we are.

 

To begin this process please write out the five new behaviors you would like to become automatic within your daily life.

 

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Now please write out what you would have to believe in order for those behaviors to be part of your daily life.

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The purpose of the daily exercises to follow is to condition your mind and neurology to create new behaviors automatically.

Our entire reality has been built by classical conditioning.  We are creatures of habit and when we choose to create something more than who we’ve been, it also will be done by repeating a new behavior for a minimum of 21 days.  Contained within the following pages is a 30 day plan to condition your thinking with your new beliefs and instruct your neurology through repetition for new behaviors. 

It is important you condition your new beliefs daily.  If you miss a day you are required to begin again so you will have a minimum of 21 days of consecutive conditioning without interruption.

 

It is often the small actions steps which bring the greatest reward.

These daily action steps are designed to fit into your busy lifestyle by helping you take theses tools and philosophies and place them into small chunks of activity which will take just minutes a day.

We have the power to change our relationship to money. Be aware of your language in relationship to money and possibility.  Be aware of your thoughts about money and possibility and use the tools you have learned.

Inspiration without action becomes a vague memory.

Love & Light

Love & Light

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Gary De Rodriguez