Spiritual NLP Blog | Neuro-Linguistic Programming | Change Your Life | Gary de Rodriguez, Dallas, TX

Love & Light

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Question:

When was that?

 

Gary:

A year ago. And all of the sudden, I come back to the States and all these things start happening that would have normally shattered me, absolutely shattered me. Core things, it tapped right into my core wound by people that I felt had undoable love for me. Normally I would have just fallen apart. I breathed through it, like a greased eal. I was like: ‘God, I cannot believe how good I feel.’ Big old betrayel-issues that I could make up, like really big betrayals, I don’t care! They don’t have anything to do with me. I am like’ wow, that’s different!’. That is really different for me. And I know that whatever happened on that table, was absolutely powerful. And when she said ‘you will be in Australia, this is where all the healers are coming” I was like: ok, I will look!  All the doors started closing here in America. I don’t want to say all of them, but a lot of them. And they closed in comfortable and not so comfortable ways. And I am just sitting back, looking at it knowing at one level it is not about my ego, it is not about my personality, it is about the life speak. It is about what is life saying to me through theses circumstances. And then all the doors in Australia started flying open. Before I left I was invited to the private chambers of the Governor of Western Australia and had lunch with him. And then like the secretary to the speaker of the house of the Governor comes to one of my trainings and she takes a training. She is like ‘Oh God that is fabulous’. Then I find out that there is a company who I have done a lot of work with. This is the woman that I have appeared to supposedly in my astro-format, saved from breast-cancer and some other horrible disease which I don’t have any clue what that is about. She said for sure I showed up there and that is what saved her life. So her company, which is this multi-million-company is now sponsoring me as a special talent sponsory which is almost impossible to get to come down to Australia. She has made best friends with the secretary of the speaker of The House. And the speaker of The House told my friend who is sponsoring me, he said ‘I am just a puppet, who really runs this office is this lady who took my course. So this lady told my friend who is sponsoring me ‘just lounge the visa and I will make sure it happens’. And I am looking at all of it and I am going: ‘how does that happen’? Those are doors that are opening through life speak. Those are huge doors. Then my attorney says: “oh, my best friend is the Governor of New South Wales, just let me know, I will put you in contact with her”. I am like ‘what is that about’? Don’t you think that’s weird; that does not happen. So I am just looking at that going ‘maybe I am supposed to go down there and buy lots of land so if stuff starts to really happen, everybody will have a place to come to. Yes, who knows. I just don’t have a clue. But what I know is that I am in the slipstream of having a lot of faith in what I trust is opening up through the circumstances that are happening. And I am just following that. And because I know, that when I step out into the unknown like that I am practicing for death. Because when I have to step out of the void of my body and leap out into the unknown, you just cannot do that without practicising. You just cannot. You have to learn how to leap out into the void in life in order to leap out into the void of death. So I thought: What is the worst thing that can happen? I leap out into the void and there is no one there to catch me. So I get to practice. And for me that is what going to Australia is: It is leaping into the void. Far from letting go of the kajak. Yes, because that kayak was a big deal. Almost dieing a year ago is a big deal. I did not really realize how close I came to dieing until maybe a couple of weeks ago and I came so close to like dieing. Of course my sponsors’ first thing out of their mouse was “bloody hell, we better take out some life insurance policies on you, because we have had lots of money booked in these trainings and if you died, we would be like.. I don’t know what we would do.” And I am like ‘oh, thank you so much. I can see your first thoughts up. So, yes, it was like let go of it and swim to the dingy.

I think that there is a lot of possibilities in life and I think each one of us have doors that are opening and doors that are closing and I sometimes think it is our egos, that pound on the doors until we bloody ourselves, because we don’t want that door to close. But it already has. And we are not looking at the doors that are opening. Really, what we are here for is a soul excursion and a soul learning where our soul and our spirit evolves itself. We are not here to back on the call of our egos. The challenge is not knowing the difference. That is why in the training we are doing that we are choosing to bring really clear distinctions between the subconscious, the ego and the higher self so that we can start getting to a relationship with the higher self and the subconscious mind so that we will know. Because if we don’t have that relationship established, how do we know? That’s why I think the training is going to be really life transforming. I know a book is going to come out of it. We just got approached by an ex-mister universe that works at that really exclusive spa where Opra Whinfrey goes and he does her 3 weeks. It is in Tuscan (?) It is called Mira Mar. And it is this really exclusive place and he works there. He runs the whole kind of health department and he saw us work at the production studio. He was in the production room watching the videos, we were doing work with all these clients and he was like ‘that is fabulous’. So he approached us to come together and put a body transformation training (..). And Tricia has been writing a proposal, we are going to present it to the (…?) and since he is already there and he is already very well respected and he will be part of the team we have a very good chance of having that training happen. Which would be, God the exposure we would get, it would be incredible. Because these are really like high-end contacts that we would have exposure to.  So things are happening. I don’t know what form they are going to take. But I am like in the slipstream of faith and I am just following how life is leading me. And it is scary. How many of you have been scared before?

It is like, ah I just don’t know if this is what is supposed to be or not. Byron Katie has that wonderful line: If it is, then love what is! It is here as a teacher and there is an undelivered gift in it. Find the gift! And it is our egos’ judgment and condemnation of what is that creates the pain. Because we are judging all the time and that is what causes the separation the pain and the fear. And trust me, I am as lost in it as anybody else. But I know that that is not the right path. That’s why for me to be in a collection of individuals who are doing something similar is a high priority for me.

Really be alert to the company you keep because you will take on color, you absolutely will. The subconscious mind is being programmed all the time and our conditioning is vast and deep, isn’t it? And the world is journaling alignment with our historical tradition, with our historical conditioning. So whenever we are out there and absorbed in that it is just like so comfortable, because that is how we have been historically conditioned to be. So it takes time and it takes effort to recondition ourselves in another way. And it is challenging. That is why the information about language the information about imagination, all that, it comes with the ‘master your destiny training’, that stuff is really important because the NLP-techniques help to unravel the story and program the future, the languaging, the imagination techniques is really what sustains your ability to emotionally have the will to apply the tools you have learned. Because how many of you know when you get depressed the last thing you do is ‘ I am going to do some NLP to get out of that ‘.. .I am just like, I am not doing that!  Or when you are really down, are you going to call a friend who can really get you to the other side of this? It’s like, no!

So the best things we can do for ourselves is, to know that every word we are speaking is a prayer coming into manifestation and that we are and we are praying to a god that will answer us, because our thinking will follow our language and our thinking is our prayer. So either the god of your ability to wake yourself up and stay focused on your outcomes will answer or the god of ‘I am not enough the world sucks’ will answer. It is true though.

 

Question:

Where is the subconscious located?

 

Gary:

It is located through every cell of your body. Now, there is some great research that has been done by Deprak Chopra(??) and some other people that have done work on the mind-body connection and the same cellular structures that are within the brain is attached to every single cell of the body. There is vast research being currently done, there is a new book out called ‘the molecules of emotion’ which I have just purchased and I am about to read. It is all about how the subconscious mind is throughout the body.

 

Comment:

So there is a difference between the subconscious and the conscious that has been scientifically proven?

Gary:

I think it is being proven. I don’t know if it will ever be proven from the prospective.. it is beyond hard science. When you think of the fact that they have only been studying mind for the last 50 years so they really don’t know a lot. The mind is really the last frontier for research and they really don’t know. There is more neurological connections in the body than there are grains of sand on all beaches of our planet. I don’t think they actually know. They have done tests where they have scraped the inside of the mouth of an individual and put cells in a petri-dish take it over to a laboratory 5 miles away, put galvactic skin-response tests on the cells of the person and the person is watching porno and the cells like 5 miles away are reacting. It is got to be that there is mind in every cell. If the cells can respond to what the body is doing 5 miles away it must be that those cells have communicative capabilities to the rest of the body.

 

Comment:

That brushes into the realm of believes, right? It has not really proven?

 

Gary:

There is hard science backing up the fact that we are very quantum in our prospective. How do we have knowledge of things happening outside of the realm of our physical body? How does Tricia do what she does? How does she do that? How does she kind of tap in and starts hearing your higher self?

 

Question:

Do we really need to separate conscious from subconscious mind?

 

Gary:

I think that the difference between the conscious and the subconscious mind is that the conscious mind is simply what you are aware of at this moment. The subconscious mind is everything that is not aware of at this moment. It is also more vast in that because it runs the body. I think that we are the individuated creative aspects of God incased in a body and non-definable by science. And so we are vast possibilities to create anything that we focus on. The problem is that most of us are focused on life based upon our conditioning and those are the only lenses we are looking out from. We are not focused on what our possibilities are. When we are focused on what our possibilities are and we are relentless in that focus, really nothing can stop you.

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Language is Powerful Choose Wisely

 

 

 

Language directs our thinking.  Our mental focus determines our success or our failure.

Have you ever attempted to shift how you think by thinking differently?  Generally this is a lesson in futility.  The easiest method of changing how we think is by changing our language.

If you constantly envision your success and abundance and language your communication to be in alignment with those aspirations, you will direct your subconscious mind toward that goal.  The same is true of your negative thoughts.  If you are constantly expecting the worst, talking about your fears, imagining the future cloaked in possible failure, you will draw those experience toward you as well. 

We utilize only 10% of our mental possibility while the other 90% lies at the subconscious level.  What would our lives be like if we learned the system to program the infinite capacity of our minds towards our goals and outcomes. 

Here are some little known facts about our subconscious mind.

Our subconscious mind takes our language literally and personally.  Language is one of the principle ways we program this power within us. 

Our subconscious mind is programmed by our conscious minds and is power without direction. 

That which we dwell on, feel to be real and language accordingly are the principle programming agents that guide our life’s successes and our life failures.

We do have CHOICE.  We are in charge our minds therefore our results.  We have all the abilities and resources we require to succeed in life.

What we require to accomplish is the study of how to awaken and direct our subconscious minds towards our goals.

 

The subject on which you are dwelling, be it negative or positive, is the temple at which you pray.  Either the God of your negative thought forms or the God of your positive thought forms will answer.   Your present day reality and life circumstances are the answered mental focus of your past thoughts.  You have brought them into manifestation by what you consistently dwelt upon and language to be real.  Because of the delay of time you have forgotten what you have called into being and created for yourself.

 

The owners manual for the human mind lies within the Art and Science of Neuro Linguistic Programming.

Within this vast body of knowledge is a superlative model of communication which gives us an insight into how we construct our reality.

Our five senses are bombarded with over two million chunks of stimulus per second.  We each have filters which consist of many subconscious filters, such as time/space, language, memories, values and beliefs, attitudes, and meta programs.  These filters take the two million chunks of information being processed by our senses and Deletes Distorts and Generalizes the information down to seven pieces plus or minus two consciously.  The reminder of the information sinks into the subconscious.

This universal process establishes our individual perspectives as we continue to experience our present reality through the experiences of our past. 

 

Many of our past experiences have been our greatest strengths and many have created our greatest blockages to success.  These blockages are created by the unresolved negative emotions, which we carry within us concerning our past.  The more unresolved pain, the more we Distort, Delete and Generalize our present experiences so our past keeps repeating itself in our internal world, which affects our now and our future.   These Distortions, Deletions and Generalizations are reflected in our thinking.  They play out in our deepest thoughts and imaginings.  They run how we mentally anticipate our future and therefore affect our relationships both professionally and personally.

The question remains how can I create optimal clarity from the universal process of Distorting reality through my past experiences?

The answer is within our word.

Language represents thought.

Thought represents how we filter and perceive reality.

Changing our language, changes our thinking which in turn changes our reality.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Gary De Rodriguez

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I truly believe that the continuation of learning is the very most important thing we can do with our lives.  I do my best every year to go and train with someone who I respect and honor to increase my own skills and knowledge and find new systems that dove tail into the work that I have been doing for so long. 

 A while back, I participated in a certification for myself in team assessment model.  I found the information and the trainers to be exceptional.  Some of you may remember when I sent out an invitation for the Mobius Model certification. Well, I went and found the information to be just what I was looking for.  A very simple yet powerful system for taking a group from conflict to possibility while discovering the group strength and designing the actions required to create the solution.  The Mobius Model is a communication model that moves us from a monologue consisting of praise and blame, claim and worry to a dialogue that establishes mutual understanding of the common ground that exists at the foundation of all conflict between people.

 Here’s the model in a nutshell: the model is an exploration of the possibilities that exist within the differences of perception between people.  Listen to understand not necessarily agree or disagree, and then seek the common ground and what is positive and missing that will benefit all concerned in the future. 

 As many of my readers have studied NLP we know that the map is not the territory.  Our perception is clouded, at best.  We can only see our perception of reality but not reality itself. When we come together in a team or partnership, we collide with different reference points and maps of reality, but there exists a common ground waiting to be discovered within all our differences.  The conflict is the birthplace of possibilities if we chose to practice deep listening.

 The art of perceptual positioning oneself in a relationship by practicing a three point perspective of others is vital to individuals who are choosing to lead.

Gregory Bateson says “that unless you can take three points of perception of another you do not have enough information to create an opinion.”   So we need to begin with the foundation of mutual understanding to seek and discover the common ground between people’s differences.  This inquiry unfolds possibilities and reveals the common ground that builds rapport and deepens our relationships.

 Relationships will be forever more the greatest heaven or the greatest hell we will venture into. I truly believe that in the hearts of people there is inherit goodness and beauty. The experiences that wound, can leave such lasting imprints upon us that they cloud our reason and perception so we cannot see the possibilities in our partnerships, our families and our teams. Relationships are the true acid test of where the rubber hits the road of what we learned in our life and how we demonstrate that learning so it can harden into our character through repetition of right action towards others.

 We are all seeking connection.  The practice of listening for what is the common ground between people’s differences is an act of choice that discovers the hidden patterns in our language, and the thoughts that connects us all in the quest for oneness.  

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