Spiritual NLP Blog | Neuro-Linguistic Programming | Change Your Life | Gary de Rodriguez, Dallas, TX

So, this is a story of the triumphs and tragedies of a family, a seeker, a man.  Many of you will have far greater story than I.  However, the depth of drama within the story is not the point.  Our ability to create a new definition of what has happened to us within our story is.  Many of us stay lost within the unresolved emotions of what we did or didn’t receive from our family systems, the beliefs we created from the events that happened to us, the unresolved emotions we harbor in our minds and bodies from our childhood experiences.  Many people, through their lives, live from the core wounds established in childhood, duplicating their family dynamics in their adult relationships and passing those wounds down to their children through their subconscious behaviors.

We demonstrate the subconscious wounds from our childhood to our children which our children model and turn those wounds into their operating strategies for life.  The wounds of the Fathers and the Mothers are then visited upon the sons and daughters.

This cycle will continue through the generations until one soul stands up and seeks the tools to redefine the family patterns and be the one to rise beyond the previous generations efforts for evolution and live life differently.

We have been born into a genealogical combination of both our fathers and mothers ancestral history.  Each generation standing on the shoulders of the previous generations evolutional efforts to love more, fear less and live from the better of their human potential.  Some in our ancestral linage failed miserably and some excelled to a fuller realization to create that better life for their children, loving more fearing less.  

The presupposition I am presenting is there is perfect order and purpose in LIFE down to how subatomic particles behave in relationship to one another.  Within the Quantum field there is no chaos only order (research to back this)

The question we require to ask ourselves is: if there is order and purpose at the subatomic level of particles and waves, the foundational elements of all things material, is there order and purpose to why I have born into a certain set of circumstances. 

Have you ever asked yourself the question why was I born into this family?

Why is my mother like she is? Why is my father like he is?

Why have I had to experience these things I have?

Why have I had to suffer?

Or said to yourself, “I don’t belong here. God made a mistake to make these people my parents.”

If there is order and purpose at the subatomic levels could there be order and purpose in the reason you have been born into the family system you were, had the experiences you have had and been exposed to the triumphs and tragedies of a man and woman who became parents and parented you out of the subconscious patterns of how they were parented.

 

Have you ever felt life has been unfair and fate cruel to have you live experiences you had little choice over as a child that have shaped your life and colored your future.

The principle question I have asked myself is “for what purpose does this serve”

Have you ever asked yourself the question: Out of all the trillions of possible genealogical possibilities I could have been born into, I was born through my father and my mother.

Asking yourself and seeking the answer to this one question holds within its chambers your hidden life purpose, and the path to a powerful and fulfilled life.     

 

I have spent a life time seeking the answers to how I can transform the patterns of my past, be accountable for my own reality and use my life to manage the quantum field of possibility so I create a life of fulfillment contribution and peace from the ashes of a broken family.

 The information contained within this blog has evolved over a lifetime history of searching for answers on how we create sustainable personal change.  How do we evolve our personalities? How do we come to perceive  what we call our reality? And how do we create change within ourselves that lasts.  My search has been a search for myself, to find a answer     to what happened to me within my own family and how I could lift myself out of my own personal hell.  I am the same as many people who experienced the greatest love and the greatest tragedy from the behaviors and wounds that my parents lived.  We have all grown into the identities we are in the emotional pool of our ancestors.  Our parents within the environment of their parents and their parents within theirs down through the generations until the family triumphs and tragedies come to a still point in our life expression.  The question is: do we continue the legacy of our ancestors through our actions, beliefs and valves or do we cull those inherited beliefs and values so we can turn our past into our greatest ally.  This book is written to awaken the curiosity of the reader of a larger picture.  A spiritual perspective of family, life purpose grace, order and share practical useable TOOLS to shift our personal tragedies to our greatest triumphs.  Contained within these pages are TOOLS which work.  Over my lifetime of seeking, these are the TOOLS which changed my life.  My desire is you take less time to discover these simple TOOLS than I did. 

 

The  TOOLS that are presented sustain personal change and potentialize the human condition.  They are TOOLS which awaken our capacity and birthright to affect our destiny by learning how we create our own reality.

It is presented so the reader can learn the power of the three principle components of creating, Language, emotion and imagination and how to begin the great unraveling of our story of the past.

The information contained within these pages places the TOOLS for conscious creating in your hands and opens the door for a life in the mastery of causation.   The information has evolved over my life from the traveling on many dark and lighted Paths.

Each of these Paths represents a jewel in the crown of my identity. Each seeming wrong turn, a light post pointing to another path to take and explore. Always feedback never failure.

  All the different roads being gently and sometimes not so gently led by One who unconditional loves me.   My work has evolved over a lifetime history of searching for answers on how do we create sustainable personal change. How we break the ancestral patterns that run us? How do we evolve our personalities? how do we come to perceive what we call our reality? How do we create change within ourselves which lasts?  My search has been a search for myself, to find a answer to what happened to me within my own family and how I could lift myself out of my own personal hell. 

I am the same as many people who experienced the greatest love and the greatest tragedy from the behaviors and wounds that my parents expressed toward me as a child.

I have come to understand and know that I created for myself the basis of my personality by interpreting my parents actions.  I give my environments the meaning I did, developing my beliefs, values and perception of the world.  When I accept I am the one who shaped myself and my reality I then have the power to change.

(More tomorrow)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Gary De Rodriguez

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When we use language like the transformational choices it puts us into the place where we actually shackle the legs of our camels linguistically.  We’re taking our personal power linguistically and saying this is where we’re going.  Rewrite your present reality. Write in transformational language and create your outcome with specific language in one paragraph.  And then I’m going to ask you to write it in two lines.  What you’re going to do is take that big long story and you’re going to write an I am statement toward where you’re choosing to move your life in this particular issue of your life and you’re going to rewrite it, outcome oriented, first person accountable, in conscious language, devoid of language of self-sabotage, deletion, distortion, generalization, negation and disempowerment.  If you require to add specificity you’ll have more sentences – like dates and all of that.  If you’ve been confused then you’re choosing clarity.  If you’ve been lonely and you’re choosing a partnership, define it, put it on a time line, speak toward.

 

I have confidence in my creative ability.  I receive the gift of my father’s life.  I have the power to create now.

 

Give him a hand!  What if every word that came out of your mouth was like what you’re rewriting now?  What would it be like?  You would speak less, is that true?  But when you spoke….laser!

 

I remember when I was very young I got married.  What impressed me so much about her was that she spoke very little but when she spoke …..  We’d be in this huge group of people and she would just sit there silently, not saying anything, but when she spoke it was like an earthquake because what came out of her mouth was so laserly the truth from her heart.  As soon as that happened I thought, I am completely in love with this woman.  What she spoke was from her heart and it had such profound effects upon me.  Have you noticed how each of us are speaking?  Have you noticed how often want, need and try have been spoken?  Our culture has been based upon lack and scarcity and victim archetype.  Take the words want, need, try and I don’t know out of your vocabulary and you’ll be doing great.

 

I am free from worry and I use this freedom to create spiritual fulfillment, to double my income and to nurture my family.

 

How much – what does double mean to you?  Put in a figure. 

 

I am free from worry – you just went into your story and you told all of us that part of your time is spent in worry.  So what you get to do is say I claim my peace of mind and I use this freedom to create MY spiritual fulfillment and to double my income to $200,000 OR MORE a year and to nurture my wife, Dawn and my daughter, Caterina. 

 

Whenever someone is speaking in vagueness, it is consistently a form of fear, a fear of feeling the emotional body.  When we bring it in and we speak in ‘my’ we associate into the words.  You guys look at your statement and put in ‘my’ wherever you see the word ‘the.’

 

I am powerful, empowering and successful in my work at positive changes hypnosis, relationships with my family and create $300,000 or more in the year 2000.  And I am in a relationship and married a loving, empowering, infinitely wealthy, emotionally secure, accepting, fun, fun-loving, playful, young-thinking, brilliant, kind, exciting, active, charismatic, outgoing, compassionate, rational, creative, understanding, generous, very gorgeous, athletic, ever-evolving, family oriented, passionate, self accountable, sharing, honest single man.

 

Tell the world because when you speak it what happens is that you get to leave your story and step into the new way of being and perceiving. 

 

I am now open to see the love and acceptance of my mother and father.

 

This is a statement in the course of miracles it says, ‘All things present, past and to come are beautifully planned by one who unconditionally loves you.’ 

 

The things of the past – how much life energy have you spent in being a victim in your mind, running the internal blame dialog in your mind and living from the victim archetype of not being loved enough by mother or dad and how much time have you spent and energy wasted, your precious breaths incalculable in its value, on contemplating endlessly the story?  There are people who die who at their death bed are still repeating the story of what they did or did not get from their mother or their father, which got reflected into their adult relationships and then got projected onto their adult relationships.  So we have the opportunity to do something with our past which we will do tomorrow in a big way.

Join me in tomorrows Blog for more!

 

 

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The combination of skills we have put together is nothing short of awesome.

 

Each one of us requires identifying our right work which satisfies our souls longing to make a contribution.  When we have identified our path, then created a way to actualize it with as much tenacity as Thomas Edison did in creating a way to light the world, then we awaken the genius within us.No matter what seeming set backs, never give up until you find a way.  If we never lose our focus, the future becomes a clear PATH.

The possibilities we have created are endless as they are for every one of you.  We are only limited by our beliefs and the evidences that we have gathered that our beliefs are real.  Think out of your comfort zone and dream a bigger dream than your experiences say you can.  Stretch, imagine and create relationships that are aligned to your deepest values.  Gather your TRIBE and step forward with the constant mantra on your lips: I AM, I CAN.

 

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The trip to Australia has had its challenges, as well as fantastic possibilities, that could shift the paradigm of how I have travelled my career path to this point.  The question I am often asked by clients is: “why after I have set my goals, done  the inner work and outer preparation, what do I do when I don’t get the results I expected?”

As I have worked with clients, this nagging question has repeated time and again by nearly every client.  The question of “what do I do when it doesn’t work?  What do I do when I have done my best and the results are still not evident.  There is a beautiful presupposition of NLP that states that there is no failure only feedback.  We all have the ability to  retain all of our learning’s  from our experiences as we enact and become more and more flexible in our behaviors. What is required is to become more creative, curious and strategize massive action so we achieve our outcomes.

The greater your flexibility, the greater leader you become.   When I face this question in my own life I have a strategy for it which I desired to share with you. 

Step 1 = I refuse to wallow in self doubt.  I frame the experience as feedback and say to myself that there is something I have not seen, some knowledge I require or some alliance I require to make.  I know the circumstances are showing me a blind spot that I have had. My commitment to myself is to increase my ability to educate, inspire and train millions of people before I dance out of the mortal coil.  Reframe from wallowing in self doubt, frame the experience as feedback and become curious.

Step 2 = I ask myself: what resources do I have? What relationships can I contact for ideas or assistance?  What have I not done, that if I did it would make all the difference? Where have I not shown up 100% that has caused this circumstance?  Be courageous with yourself and lessen your pride.  Ask for clarity and ideas from the ones you trust and be willing to receive the feedback to help you break out of your tunnel vision into a new way of expanding your perspective.

Step 3 = Do the inner work.  Do an authentic evaluation of your core beliefs, secondary gains, values and emotions that may be hindering the realization of your goals.  Take responsibility.  It doesn’t happen to you it happens from you.  You are your own reality generating machine and you are part of the equation of the reality you are manifesting.  Knowing NLP, you can decode your nervous system from core memories using the Memory Resolution technique.  Change your limiting beliefs using time based techniques, submodalites and the 90 day new belief manual.  Conduct a values elicitation and verify your goals are aligned to your top five values.  Do the inner work.   Commit to learning the NLP skills that makes everything work, and commit to travelling your life journey fully equipped to manage your mind therefore the results in your life.

  Step 4 = Model the excellence of others who have done what you desire to create in your own life and explore how they have accomplished their results. It is important for you to understand the steps that have worked in the past so that success was achieved.  Adapt, become flexible, intertwine your ideas with the ideas of the masters and geniuses of our time and follow their steps. Never giving up until you reach your outcome.

  Step 5 = Base your outcomes anchored to a higher purpose.  You will have unstoppable power and endless energy to achieve your outcomes if they aligned to your highest values.  Be aware that the end of the day the only thing asked of you at the time of your death is “How much love and devotion did you develop for the life force that animates all of us and how did you demonstrate that love to others in your life. Leave a Legacy and make a very light footprint on our earth while giving massively.  Know that operating in our lives is a force that unconditionally loves each and everyone one of us.   

Fear is the mind killer.   You are infinite possibility in the physical form, claim your birthright and activate your flexibility in thinking and behavior.  You will then create the greatest contribution to whatever system you belong, whether it be a family or organization. Envision your life leaving a legacy that can last for generations to come.

What I have learned on this trip is, when life does not happen as you expected it would, it is a fertile environment to kick into your highest level of flexibility and possibility.  There is rarely an outcome that you cannot achieve.  Never give up in the realization of the goal.  Find new ways, new paths to create the change you desire and take massive action.   Know as well, that there is something higher at work in all of our lives. May you practice surrendering over the results of your efforts to a Higher Power. Ask ultimately that whatever your life expression creates, people are touched, and you have made the contribution you came here to make.

 Many Blessings and Happy Happy Holidays!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Gary De Rodriguez

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