Spiritual NLP Blog | Neuro-Linguistic Programming | Change Your Life | Gary de Rodriguez, Dallas, TX

So let’s just close your eyes for a moment.  Let’s just take three breaths together, deep inhale in, relaxed exhale out.  The waking 2/3 of your life on earth ever collaborates or bears witness to your subconscious impressions.  The actions and events of your day are simply effects.  They are not causes.  Free will is only freedom of choice.  Choose ye this day whom ye shall serve is your freedom to choose the kind of emotion you assume.  The expression of the emotion is the secret of your subconscious.  Your subconscious receives impressions only through the feelings of man and woman and in a way known only to itself gives these impressions form and expression.  The actions of man and woman are determined by their subconscious impressions.  His or her illusion of free will, his or her belief in freedom of action, is but ignorance of the causes which make them act.  They think themselves free because they have forgotten the link between themselves and the event.  Man and woman awake is under compulsion to express their subconscious impressions.  If in the past they unwisely impress themselves then let them begin to change their thoughts and their feelings for only as they do so will they change their world.  Do not waste one moment in regret for to think feelingly of the mistakes of your past is to reinfect yourself.  Let the dead bury their dead.  Turn from appearances now and assume the feeling that would be yours were you already the one you’ve wished to be. 

I’m going to talk a little bit about the NLP model of communication yet once again because I firmly believe if people truly understood and embodied this model, the planet would instantaneously shift and change – if we understood this model.  The information comes into the five senses and the secret of whether we create heaven or hell is in our filters.  Our filters consist of our memories and if those memories are loaded with negative, unresolved emotions we will have a knee-jerk response to the events coming toward us in the now.  There is a process in NLP called a trans-derivational search.  That is a word that describes the process that happens in how we sort our reality.  The information comes in through the five senses.  Our mind automatically does this thing called an trans-derivational search.  Where our mind goes back into our files of experience to bring forward a strategy that this event reminds us of to assist us in interacting with this event.  So if we have a ton of emotions in the past that are linked to specific memories and an event comes toward us that is reminiscent of those memories or that reminds us of those memories, we will bring forward to the experience now a whole luggage full of unresolved negative emotions and over react.  How many of you have over reacted in the past?  How many of you have been over reacted to?  And you’re going, ‘how can this person possibly have this reaction to what I just did?  It was so benign.’   Why do you think that is?  Their trans-derivational search process, whatever you did or didn’t do, triggered off something from their past and when they perceived through the distortion of their unresolved experiences from their past, they projected onto you the unresolved events back there and overreacted toward you. 

How many of you have said, ‘I think that you’re not in relationship with me.  You’re in relationship to your other three past lovers.’  Meaning you’re bringing so much negative emotion into this experience, it’s just not this experience.  It’s stuff back there.  How many of you have been in relationship with people when you feel like you’re their parent because of the unresolved wounds from the past?  So it seems logical to me that, if we are going to shift the filters, that we get to do something with the emotions of the past.  Is that true?  In order for us to sustain emotional states that are optimal for outcome, for imprinting the subconscious mind, it’s very challenging if we’ve got a ton of dialog going in here about how we are victims of the past.  If we’re carrying a lot of negative emotions around with us that are unresolved it will be very challenging to stay emotionally resourceful enough to be in the imagination of your outcome.  What we’re going to do this morning is work with a variety of different NLP processes.  They truly are tools for life.  Once you learn them they are literally keys for your mind.  You can take them and utilize them to the highest degree possible and run with them and change your life.  My highest outcome is that you take all the tools and really work them.

More to come tomorrow

Love & Light

Gary De Rodriguez

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Time & The Human Mind

Does anyone have preverbal memories?  I remember standing in my crib and holding onto the bars of the crib and thinking, ‘Oh, my god – she forgot!’  About my mom – meaning our soul commitment and being terrified that she forgot.  At some level of your memories you have made a common tract with your parents and they loved you so much and probably the more tortured their lives were the more they loved you.  The way you know that you’re you is by the internal representations you carry in your nervous system, your pictures, sounds and feelings of your past. If you were all isolated in a flotation tank and I was feeding you through a feed tube, you had no outside stimulation, how would you know you were you?  Only by your memories.  And your memories are represented by your internal pictures, the remembered sounds and the feelings those pictures and sounds evoke.  If that’s the only way you knew that you were you and you were able to shift those pictures, sounds and feelings, would your past be different?  Those pictures, sounds and feelings are the construction of the filters that you perceive your world through.  If you could change the emotional impact of those pictures, sounds and feelings, would you filter your reality differently and then would your response be different?  That’s where we’re going tomorrow because did you know that the subconscious mind does not know the difference between vivid, sensory, specific imagination and reality?  Have you ever gone to a movie and terrified yourself?  Have you ever gone to a movie and just wept and wept?  You’re watching plastic on a screen with images and you have all these associated emotions and you’re totally into it.  It’s real to you.  We do the same thing in here.   We run the movie, we hear the sound track, and we go through the emotional states.  When this shifts, everything shifts.  This is when NLP becomes so powerful because it works with changing the internal representations.  When the internal representations change the client changes.

I’m going to read you something.  In order to intelligently operate the law of consciousness it is necessary to understand the relationship between the conscious and subconscious.  The conscious is personal, selective.  The subconscious is impersonal, non-selective.  The conscious is the realm of affect.  The subconscious is the realm of cause.  These two aspects are the male and female divisions of consciousness.  The conscious mind is male.  The subconscious mind is female.  The conscious generates ideas, impresses and impregnates these ideas on the subconscious.  The subconscious receives the ideas, gives form and expression to them.  By this law of first conceiving an idea and then impressing the idea conceived on the subconscious all things evolve out of consciousness and without this sequence there is not anything made that is made.  The conscious impresses the subconscious while the subconscious expresses all that is impressed upon it.  The subconscious does not originate ideas but accepts as truth those which the conscious mind feels to be true, and, in a way known only to itself, objectifies the accepted ideas.  Therefore through his and her power to imagine and feel in his and her freedom to choose the idea, man and woman will entertain, man and woman has control over all of creation.  Control of the subconscious is accomplished through control of your thoughts and your feelings.  The mechanism of creation is hidden in the very depth of the subconscious mind, the female aspect or womb of creation.  The subconscious transcends reason and is independent of induction.  This is important.  It contemplates a feeling as a fact, existing within itself, and on this assumption, proceeds to give expression to it.  The creative process begins with an idea and its cycle runs its course as feeling and ends in action.  Ideas are impressed on the subconscious through the medium of emotion, feeling.  No idea can be impressed on the subconscious until it is felt but once felt, be it good, be it bad, be it indifferent, it must be expressed, regardless of the evidence in front of you.  The evidence in front of you is simply the outpicturing of what has been habitually dwelt upon in the past.  What you get to do now is focus the mind on where you are going.  Language it, imagine it, feel it to be true, regardless of the evidence, and the subconscious must give expression to it. 

I remember my good friend Roger.  He was in outcome, really languaging an outcome to sell his business.  It didn’t sell.  He did everything, mind mapped every night, really in emotional states.  Didn’t sell.  There is a new opportunity for that now.  Things are happening in that arena now.  He set the seed, he planted it in his subconscious.  When the correct, appropriate time was here, it began to sprout.  Your job is to plant the seeds.  Be unattached to what actually becomes produced.  Choose it, feel it to be real and surrender.  And things happen in a most magical and unexpected way. 

So keeping your eyes closed, just allowing yourself to be in a deep state of concentration, what I am suggesting to your subconscious mind is that all the things you have seen, felt, heard and learned today will integrate themselves in the very deepest level in your dream states tonight.  You may remember your dreams.  Your dreams will promote a deep, sound sleep.  And as you dream your dreams of healing, allowing your subconscious mind to work with your higher self to remove the blockages that have stood between you and your full expression of who you’re choosing to be in your ancestral line.  Allowing all this to happen naturally and automatically in your dream states tonight.  When you awaken tomorrow morning the world will look different, feel different, sound different.  And your mind will be open and aware of the possibilities that lie before you.  Take three deep integrative breaths and as you continue your last two breaths, remember your language tonight.  Speak in outcome.  Speak toward.  Speak in language of empowerment.  Eliminate want, need, try and I don’t know.

(To be continued in tomorrows Blog)

Love & Light

Gary De Rodriguez

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Pyramid of Time

Now, I’m going to tell you a story because it bears telling.  I gave up 3 packs of Marlboro longs a day and all my drug use in a 24 hour period of time.  I went to this concert.  I was clean and sober that night.  I was sitting in the front row of a Donovan concert – it was during the Maharishi day show – and Donovan comes out and he looked down at me in the front row and he said, ‘You are wasting time.’  And then he went back to tuning up his sitar.

I just sat there.  I took my pack of cigs out and from that moment, I went home, broke all my needles, flushed all my drugs down the toilet.  I went out on a hillside and cried in the rain all night – just weeping.  Changed my life.

I’m going to tell you a story because it is a refrain for all of us in the room who may have wounds from our childhood about the story.  This is my experience and this is what shaped how these trainings came to be.  My mother was a beautiful woman.  At the same time she was very emotionally unbalanced – an alcoholic and a prescription drug abuser.  She did a lot of things that in my world, if you had met me 23 years ago I would have said, ‘Hi, my name is Gary and my mother completely screwed my life up.’  My life was about being a victim of her behavior.  She used to slit her wrists and then wait for me to come home.  I would walk in the door as a little boy and there would be blood everywhere.  I’d be in trauma for weeks on end.  This happened repeatedly.  She would do this thing I used to call phone torture where she would call me every hour on the hour from 11:00 until 6 in the morning saying, ‘I’m going to kill myself.’  And then I thought I had to answer the phone because if she really did it that time how could I live with myself if I hadn’t answered the phone.  So I had sleep deprivation and this went on for years.  When she died she created this amazing form of cancer that even the Stanford Cancer Institute had never seen before.  And from diagnosis to death was two weeks.  I slept in the hospital room with her the last three days she was alive and on her death bed she would repeat, in an endless mantra, I don’t want to die, I don’t want to die, I don’t want to die.  She lived the last 20 years of her life drinking in my sister’s basement, living in my sister’s basement, babysitting and picking up men in bars.  The way her validation was was, ‘I am beautiful, I am desirable, and my only self worth is by the men I can attract.’  So this was my mother’s scenario. 

About 4 years after she passed I was sitting with a good friend of mine, Kathy Hern, who is a minister of Science and Mind Church here in San Diego and she asked me something about my mother.  The spiritual center of the body they call the third eye, the ability to see into other realms or other vibrations.  When she asked that my third eye just let go and opened up and I could see into a whole other plane of existence.  And I said to Kathy, ‘Hold on.  I’m having a vision.’  And I could see her just like I can see you but at the same time I could see into another dimension and my mother came out of this mist.  The wind was blowing through her hair, she was dressed in white robes looking really beautiful and she said, ‘Son, I loved you so much I lived the life I lived to show you how not to live.  And I died the death I died to show you how not to die.  Choose the right path.’  She receded into the mist, my third eye closed and I sat back and thought, ‘I can no longer live out of my story.’  Because what that statement said was that everything that was ever done was to propel me into doing something greater with my life.  It does not discount that my ego and my body suffered, but what those experiences did to the honing and the wisdom of my soul is something far different.  Because could I get up in front of you and speak from the conviction I speak from if I did not have that depth of feeling.  My mother trained me well.  Because at her time of death, I sat there and watched her die, and being the Ph.D. in co-dependency in the past at that time, I was in mortal torture from an inability to help and I said to myself, ‘I will never die like that.’  I will step into places where I’m terrified and I will do it anyway.  And I have.  When she appeared and said she had died the death she died to show me how not to die, I thought, ‘Well, no kidding!’  Because that was the exact conclusion I made four years earlier.

What this presupposes is that we made up the entire story out of the limitations and the fear of the child based upon the wisdom, intelligence and experience we had as a child.  We made it up the best we knew how to make it up and perhaps the truth of it is there is something far higher going on here than meets the eye.  In quantum physics they’ve proven that there are five separate levels of reality operating, vibrating, at a different frequency than we can perceive, vibrating simultaneously with a physical reality.  They have proven it mathematically.  If that’s true then there is something far greater going on here.  What you take with you at the time of death is your learnings and your wisdom.  And if that’s true, then the experiences you’ve gone through is for the honing and the maturing of your spirit.  What if your mother and your father made an agreement with you to love you so much that they lived a life to show you how not to live and to create experiences that would hone your spirit so that you would make the vibrational choice to do it differently.  And because when we passed through the Sea of Forgetfulness and we came into the body that we forgot and we got stuck in our story.  We’ve occupied our minds in these precious years with the story rather than distilling the wisdom from what’s being demonstrated to us so that we can fulfil our life mission.  We get to just be in moment, in this next breath.  The way to happiness is to know your life purpose and your life mission and eat it, breathe it, speak it, think it, consistently.  Your actions, your behaviors will follow.  You will naturally evolve to be who you are destined to be.  We have this opportunity, called our life expression, to do it differently.  Waste no more time on the story.  When we get to the end of our days and we look back over our lives leaving the body, our parents greet us at the gates and they say, ‘You forgot.’  What if they say, ‘You remembered!’

(To be continued on tomorrows Blog)

Love & Light

Gary De Rodriguuez

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Machu Picchu

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

It is that magical time of year at Christmas and another year is coming to an end with a rebirth into 2009.  Happy Holidays to everyone.  The year of 2009 will be a profound year of change and transformation unlike anything we have seen in the world for a very long time.  Politically we will begin a new direction toward a more progressive administration and hopefully the change many have been longing for will ripen into reality.  

There is no other richer time for people across the globe to prepare for these accelerated times ahead of us all. It is a time where paradigms will shift, minds will be straightened, hearts will be healed and sleeping souls awaken.   For myself I view the year of 2009 as a time of spiritual awakening and commitment:  a time of action, change and revelation.  
I am setting a course for Peru in 2009 for our Master Mind Tribe’s retreat, to sit at the feet of one of the most revered Incan shaman’s in the world, at the holy city of Machu Picchu and learn what the ancients have always known.  I am asking a handful of students who know it is the time for them to stand as a seeker of truth and let nothing come between themselves and the hidden wisdom bursting to reveal itself.    Our Master Mind Tribe will begin in Feb. 2009 with a year of coaching with me and monthly tele-classes as well as a life changing retreat to Peru.  We have picked the first week in September of 2009 to arrive in Peru which will be in alignment with a time foretold by ancient Incan prophecy to be a time of revelation, when a new energy enters Machu Picchu and those seeking will awaken to deeper level of their wisdom more than ever before.  This will be a sell out event and I will close registration for this opportunity at 16 participants.  Eight spaces have been taken prior to this e-mail going out so we have eight spaces left to join the 2009 Master Mind Tribe for this life changing commitment with a very unique group of amazing souls.

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The Way We Think & The Way We Speak

When we use language like the transformational choices it puts us into the place where we actually shackle the legs of our camels linguistically.  We’re taking our personal power linguistically and saying this is where we’re going.  Rewrite your present reality. Write in transformational language and create your outcome with specific language in one paragraph.  And then I’m going to ask you to write it in two lines.  What you’re going to do is take that big long story and you’re going to write an I am statement toward where you’re choosing to move your life in this particular issue of your life and you’re going to rewrite it, outcome oriented, first person accountable, in conscious language, devoid of language of self-sabotage, deletion, distortion, generalization, negation and disempowerment.  If you require to add specificity you’ll have more sentences – like dates and all of that.  If you’ve been confused then you’re choosing clarity.  If you’ve been lonely and you’re choosing a partnership, define it, put it on a time line, speak toward.

I have confidence in my creative ability.  I receive the gift of my father’s life.  I have the power to create now.

Give him a hand!  What if every word that came out of your mouth was like what you’re rewriting now?  What would it be like?  You would speak less, is that true?  But when you spoke….laser!

I remember when I was very young I got married.  What impressed me so much about her was that she spoke very little but when she spoke …..  We’d be in this huge group of people and she would just sit there silently, not saying anything, but when she spoke it was like an earthquake because what came out of her mouth was so laserly the truth from her heart.  As soon as that happened I thought, I am completely in love with this woman.  What she spoke was from her heart and it had such profound effects upon me.  Have you noticed how each of us are speaking?  Have you noticed how often want, need and try have been spoken?  Our culture has been based upon lack and scarcity and victim archetype.  Take the words want, need, try and I don’t know out of your vocabulary and you’ll be doing great.

I am free from worry and I use this freedom to create spiritual fulfillment, to double my income and to nurture my family.

How much – what does double mean to you?  Put in a figure. 

I am free from worry – you just went into your story and you told all of us that part of your time is spent in worry.  So what you get to do is say I claim my peace of mind and I use this freedom to create MY spiritual fulfillment and to double my income to $200,000 OR MORE a year and to nurture my wife, Dawn and my daughter, Caterina. 

Whenever someone is speaking in vagueness, it is consistently a form of fear, a fear of feeling the emotional body.  When we bring it in and we speak in ‘my’ we associate into the words.  You guys look at your statement and put in ‘my’ wherever you see the word ‘the.’

I am powerful, empowering and successful in my work at positive changes hypnosis, relationships with my family and create $300,000 or more in the year 2000.  And I am in a relationship and married a loving, empowering, infinitely wealthy, emotionally secure, accepting, fun, fun-loving, playful, young-thinking, brilliant, kind, exciting, active, charismatic, outgoing, compassionate, rational, creative, understanding, generous, very gorgeous, athletic, ever-evolving, family oriented, passionate, self accountable, sharing, honest single man.

Tell the world because when you speak it what happens is that you get to leave your story and step into the new way of being and perceiving. 

I am now open to see the love and acceptance of my mother and father.

This is a statement in the course of miracles it says, ‘All things present, past and to come are beautifully planned by one who unconditionally loves you.’ 

The things of the past – how much life energy have you spent in being a victim in your mind, running the internal blame dialog in your mind and living from the victim archetype of not being loved enough by mother or dad and how much time have you spent and energy wasted, your precious breaths incalculable in its value, on contemplating endlessly the story?  There are people who die who at their death bed are still repeating the story of what they did or did not get from their mother or their father, which got reflected into their adult relationships and then got projected onto their adult relationships.  So we have the opportunity to do something with our past which we will do tomorrow in a big way.

Join me in tomorrows Blog for more!

Love & Light

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