Spiritual NLP Blog | Neuro-Linguistic Programming | Change Your Life | Gary de Rodriguez, Dallas, TX

 

 

This life we are leading as our current identity is a spiritual journey in the greatest gift we could be given, the Human form.  The secret wisdom of this journey is incased within the window of the family systems we were born into.  We have each created a soul contract with our mothers and fathers to utilize this earthly relationship to deepen our own relationship with the divine. 

 

 

 

 

 

Our family systems provide us with a laboratory of joy and pain that can be now used to awaken in us our deepest core wounds for their transformation.  Through this awakening we travel a path of finding the answers and creating the healing we require so that we can return ourselves back to love.

Our family dynamics was designed and created out of love no matter how our family systems manifested itself in this physical reality.

We are not the victims of this family dynamic.  We can rise above the ancestral dynamics and live life from the perspective of being the designer of own destiny.

 

The ancestral buck stops with each one of us.  We can learn to be co-creators of our reality and take a stand for creating balance with ourselves, our families and our communities.  We can rise above our ancestral influences and live life from the perspective of choice rather than a victim of a family or world based in chaos.

We can then pass this way of living on to our children and future generations creating a movement of personal accountability from the very young to the aged.

   

By healing the ancestral patterns we celebrate the perfection of the order of life.  We came through the perfect parents who co-created the perfect circumstances to wound us in the perfect way and create the dynamic tension that each of us would begin the quest towards self actualization and realization.

The divine order of our family dynamics allows our soul to mature and awakens us to the opportunity to evolve and celebrate.

  

 

Once we learn the tools from the science and technology of Humanistic Neuro Linguistic Psychology to still the story of our past we awaken the inherent wisdom that is within each individual  and we can arise and mature.

The paton is within our hands, the technology is available, it is time to transform our ancestrial patterns and awaken to the individual we came here to be: 

Accountable, empowered, contributive, loving and compassionate to all living things. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Gary De Rodriguez

 

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Pyramid of Time

 

 

My mom was an amazing woman.  She was also an alcoholic and a drug addict creating the perfect laboratory for my exploration of how to create change in the human condition.  As a child I witnessed the one I loved most sinking into dark valleys of despair, insanity, and multiple attempts at suicide.  I chose the quest to understand how love could turn to hopelessness.  The questions I was determined to answer were: What caused this? What was the purpose of this suffering that colored my entire life? What can change it?  From the age of about five I took on the self-appointed role of being her psychoanalyst.  I believed I was her emotional surrogate, her confidant and her caretaker, up until the day she died.

 

As chaotic as my mother’s life was, her death was even more horrific.  She succumbed to a very aggressive form of cancer that even the Stanford Cancer Institute had never seen before.  It began with a little lump on the back of her neck, which she went to a dermatologist to have it removed thinking it was cyst .  Although he tried, the dermatologist could not remove it.  When she woke up the next morning, she had lumps all over her body and two weeks later, she was dead.

 

The melanoma tumor had been disturbed by the dermatologist and within a 24 hour period of time, the tumor sent out countless runners throughout my mother’s body.  The last few days she was alive, I slept stayed with her in her hospital room those last three days, and like a mantra being chanted in a morphine daze, she repeated, “I don’t want to die, I don’t want to die, If I could only live again, I don’t want to die, I don’t want to die.”   I sat with her twenty-four  seven for those three days and I looked at her in a state of utter helplessness.  I realized that there was nothing I could do for her.   There were no words of comfort, no scriptures to be read, no amount of tears could assist her at the end of her journey.  Nothing could relieve the fear of finally knowing she did not do what her soul came here to do.  The  air of her room was thick with the smell of regret and despair for a life spent in pain, under-realized.   She realized that she had done very little with her life.

 

My mother had been divorced from my father for over twenty years and every day of those twenty years she lived in the pain of the loss and emotional betrayal of her true love – a love she believed would always be her sanctuary.  Her heart was irreparably broken.  She did very little with her life as an individual after the divorce.  Her fear was so great she could not enter the work force.  She was very poorly educated and carried tremendous shame as a consequence. 

 

As I watched my mother die, I vowed I would never die as she was dying.  During those last painful days of my mother’s life, I vowed I would face my fear. I would discover my purpose.  I would fulfill my potential.  I vowed to life I would never allow myself to die as she had, filled with the regret and despair of what she did not have the courage to do.

 

Now this is were the story gets good.

 

About four years after my mother’s death, I was sitting with a really good friend of mine, Kathy Hern, who was at that time the minister for a Science of Mind church in San Diego.  We were sitting chatting in her office, when she casually asked me a question about my mother.  In that precise moment I began to experience an altered state of consciousness which had never happened before and has never happened since.  The moment Kathy brought up the subject of my mother, I felt the spiritual center of my body – the place between my eyebrows known as the third eye – suddenly open up. 

 

I experienced somewhat of a dual vision.  I could still see Kathy and her office and simultaneously I could see into another realm of existence.   A mist appeared and out of the mist my mother began walking toward me. It was her angelic presence.  She was wearing white robes and the wind was blowing through her hair.  She looked gorgeous.  I don’t remember if I heard her voice or received her message in thought, but as clear as day she communicated these words:

“Son, I lived the life I lived to show you how not to live.  I died the death I died to show you how not to die.  Choose the right path. 

 

Do not waste time in your story.  Distill the wisdom from the sum of your life’s experiences and go forth to realize your soul’s unique contribution.”

As soon as she delivered this message, the image of my mother disappeared back into the mist, my third eye closed, and I sat in a daze staring off into space.  

 

My mother’s words presuppose a powerful truth that is at the heart of this book.  Out of love she lived within the constriction of her limitations, as an example of what not to become.  She did it for the sake of my learning, my evolution, my eventual contribution.  Her death was an example of how not to live, and therefore how not to die.  Out of deep love and devotion to me, she lived the life she lived, in order to show me the right path. 

All of my story as a young boy and adult had revolved around how terrible my childhood was, creating a perspective of my world darkened by a lack of awareness of the spiritual intent behind all events.  I was awakening from the trance of victim and blame to the awareness of the perfection that is through the window of what my soul came here to fulfill.

 

I had always considered myself to be a victim of a chaotic and unstable childhood, yet as I examined my mother’s life from this perspective, I began to realize the multitude of things she taught me through the power of her example.  My mom was probably my greatest teacher.  This realization was a powerful experience which reshaped my perceptions and shook my procrastination and victimization to the core.

 

Whether our parents are living or dead, each one of us stands on the shoulders of every ancestor that came before us.  We exist as a culmination of their successes and losses; their positive intentions and ignorant mistakes.   Through the tragedies and triumphs of those who came before us, we are given a sacred window through which we can glimpse the mystery of our life purpose.  Our parents’ failures are perhaps our greatest teachers.  By deeply examining their lives, we unveil an important message about how to live — and how not to live – our own.   

 

  

 

What is the hidden soul lesson in why we came through our particular ancestral line? What is the hidden message inherent within the circumstances of our families?  These are questions seldom asked deeply requiring to be answered.

Our past has created our present, but it need not create our future. We can write a whole new story.  Move the focus of your mind away from the story of what you did and did not receive from your parents to what your parents’ lives are teaching you about life.  Take their life lessons and make different choices.  Through the expression of our life demonstrates whether we will continue the ancestral influenced thinking or choose another Path. 

 

Could our ancestry play an important part of who we are at the subconscious level and could this influence have some bearing on who we are today and does this information show a light into what we are here to master in this life?

 

 

 

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Look Within

 

 

 

 

 

The Choice to Change

 

 

 

Greetings,

Below is a process that can be used in creating change. This process truly works if you are faithful with it and follow the instructions.

Happy Thanksgiving!

A gift to you!

 

 

When we are choosing a different action plan for ourselves it is imperative that we understand the role of classical conditioning in order to create new behaviors that become part of who we are.

 

To begin this process please write out the five new behaviors you would like to become automatic within your daily life.

 

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Now please write out what you would have to believe in order for those behaviors to be part of your daily life.

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The purpose of the daily exercises to follow is to condition your mind and neurology to create new behaviors automatically.

Our entire reality has been built by classical conditioning.  We are creatures of habit and when we choose to create something more than who we’ve been, it also will be done by repeating a new behavior for a minimum of 21 days.  Contained within the following pages is a 30 day plan to condition your thinking with your new beliefs and instruct your neurology through repetition for new behaviors. 

It is important you condition your new beliefs daily.  If you miss a day you are required to begin again so you will have a minimum of 21 days of consecutive conditioning without interruption.

 

It is often the small actions steps which bring the greatest reward.

These daily action steps are designed to fit into your busy lifestyle by helping you take theses tools and philosophies and place them into small chunks of activity which will take just minutes a day.

We have the power to change our relationship to money. Be aware of your language in relationship to money and possibility.  Be aware of your thoughts about money and possibility and use the tools you have learned.

Inspiration without action becomes a vague memory.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Gary De Rodriguez

 

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 In September,  I gathered my Master Mind group from Australia around a fire tonight here in beautiful Santa Fe under a star filled sky. Each one of us prepared to work with a Lakota elder, Navajo fire keeper and a Cherokee teacher.  Tomorrow is going to be a big day for us all as we enter the sweat lodge and recieve the powerful teachings of these Native American elders. As I have worked with my group for nearing a year now,  I have witnessed many of my group being wounded in a similar way.  In fact most of the coaching clients I have had the honor to work with, have been wounded in the same way. 
This common thread is our finances. 
So many of us are experiencing trading time for money and remaining a slave to the grind.  My clients who have experienced this issue has stated to me that they desire to be free from worry and live from abundance while contributing back to others.
I have a vision that there is a new paradigm arising in our world that is lifting up the concept of conscious capitalism.  A way of doing business and thinking about business that supports our capacity to leave a legacy of good based in our innate humanity. This movement of creating more humanity in business, establishes a business culture where people desire to belong and with systems for paying it forward in our communities.
I view each one of us as an entrepreneur. A person capable of creating wealth through their knowledge, with the ability to create positive impact on people and communities they work with.  The concept of becoming a entrepreuner is a learned system with internal methodologies and forms of thinking as well as external strategies for action.  The objective being: to create enough wealth passively so we can begin paying it forward.  
Sounds good right?  But so few people know HOW to get what is in their heads into a profit center.
I believe too many of us live from worry, financial fear and as a consequence we radiate these emotions into our world and unfortunately receive the evidence of what we believe and feel to be real in our everyday lives.
My dream, is to change people’s relationship to money and possibility by breaking through the Inner Self Sabotaging beliefs and strategies from our past.  I desire to provide proven strategies for creating passive forms of income from what you know and turning that knowledge into a saleable product over the internet. 
I have joined with my good friend Stefanie Hartman who is the premier authority on internet strategies for turning ideas into a profit center.  We are on a mission.
Our governments and religions can’t fix or provide the necessary assistance our communities require, but conscious entrepreneurs with heart and a mindset of knowledge and skill can. 
You may not be ready to reach outside your comfort zone but then again this my be the pivot point you require to turn your life in a new direction. 
I know we all require to heal the wound of lack in our lives and it is a two fold path. 
One part of the equation is to do the inner work.  The other is to know the strategies that will guarantee results. 

 
Whatever your current situation is, whether you know the time has come to take your knowledge and begin the emergence of the Enlightened Entrepreneur or continue on the Path you are currently following. The bottom line for me is the importance of contributing back into our communites and the people who we are inclined to help. Pay it forward with a smile or a random act of kindness; pay it forward with a monetary contribution no matter how small. 
Be the Angel you have come to be.  

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Gary De Rodriguez

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Today, we’re going to do a process called The Theater Of Change.  It’s based on the NLP phobia technique and one of my thoughts is that we are this amazing being that has a whole series of pictures, sounds and feelings via our internal representational systems and that these internal representational systems act as drivers for much of our behavior and how we hold our reality.  They create our heaven or our hell based upon what we focused upon.

 

What we’re going to do is shift the pictures, sounds and feelings of our past.  It’s going to happen by partnering with me. Based upon the focus of your mind and your desire you can make many changes to the history that has blocked you.

 

So those of you who have had in the past seemingly poor visualization skills, you actually have great visualization skills.  Just take the specific modality that you’re representing your experiences from, whether it’s kinesthetic or auditory, give a symbol to what those sounds or those feelings are and visualize that way.  Remember, the subconscious takes things very metaphorically and symbolically.  So imagine you are going to enter the theater of your past.  You wrote the movie, you starred in it, you produced it.  You are the maker of the internal representations of your entire experience from conception to now.  You made it up and you can edit the movie.

 

So when you’re ready to just allow yourself to go into a more focused and concentrated state within yourself just imagine yourself entering the theatre.  Uncross your arms and your legs so the energy flows freely in your body and we’re going to go inside your imagination allowing yourself the opportunity to allow those parts of you that know how to change to begin to change.  And what I’d like to suggest to your collective subconscious minds is that it now has an opportunity to begin to meet its highest prime directive by allowing a process that can be very quick and very powerful to begin to shift and change the unresolved emotions of the past in a way that is easy and comfortable, knowing that the highest prime directive of your subconscious mind is to preserve the body.  And as I speak to your collective subconscious I’d like to suggest to your subconscious to know that any stress caused by unresolved emotions is less than optimal for the human body. 

 

So as your subconscious mind begins to understand the opportunity it has, your conscious mind can begin to drift, drifting to a place of focused concentration where your conscious mind can begin to let go.  That’s right.  Just letting go in a way that’s right for you.  Letting go in a way that is comfortable for you as your subconscious begins to understand the opportunity it has now.

 

  So allow your  body to relax, allowing all the sounds you hear, and the sound of your breath entering and exiting your body, allowing yourself to feel the surface on which you’re sitting, awareness of how your hands, your arms, your legs, your feet are and allowing a sensation of just letting go.

 

And as you continue to focus your mind, imagine that you are now in a theater, a theater looking up at the screen and as you look at that screen, sitting in the theater, imagine a part of you, the observer part, the part of you that’s in control, can lift up out of that body sitting in the theater, and sit in the projection room of that theater. Your able to see your body watching the screen in the theater but your also sitting in the projection room.

 

 And imagine now being in the projection room looking down at your body watching the screen and just breathe and be there in the theater with your imagination.   We’re going to review a film.  This is the film of your life.  You starred in it, you produced it, you directed it.  You’re going to edit it now.

 

 I’d like to suggest to your subconscious mind that all of the positive learning’s from your life, is preserved in that place that you retain for such learning’s.  Allowing all of those learning’s to beautifully and generatively contribute to your life from this point forward.  Allowing your subconscious mind through the internal representations that you have carried up to now to begin to shift and change in such a way that allows you now to have a different set of pictures, sounds and feelings which promote and produce the necessary internal representations to fulfill your life purpose in the optimum manner, according to your destiny. 

 

So imagine now that we’re in the projection room and we’re going to watch the film of your life, the film from conception until now.  It will take approximately 3 minutes to watch this film. 

Now imagine in the editing room as we’re going to review your film that there is a very large white paint brush that is filled endlessly with white-out.  I’m going to ask you to run your film in a moment, because I think we can make a better one.  What do you think?  We’re going to run your film and we’re going to white out all the frames of the film that have had a negative impact upon you and your future, preserving all the positive learning’s from your entire life span of time.

The curtains are beginning to open on the screen, the part of you who controls things  can now be ready to flip on the switch of the projector and allow your  film to begin to roll from conception to now.

 

Are you ready to change things?  Begin now.  Turn the film on and run the film in Black and White only.  Review your life as it happened from conception or birth to now. Paint white paint on the film and start whiting out every single frame that is the history of what has been stopping you.

Do that now and let the film roll until the end which means you have reached now. 

 

We’re going to run the movie backwards.  And distort the pictures sounds and therefore the feelings of the movie of your life.  Only the characters, and the internal representations in this film that you desire to change are going to change, all positive frames of the picture will remain the same.  The scenes and characters you are changing will be speaking backwards, the sounds will be backwards creating a new sound track for the movie, the characters will be walking backwards.  You can place Mickey Mouse ears on each one of them and a ballerina skirts on each one of them.  Also coupled with this you can put an elephant’s trunk on the faces of every character you desire to change in this film. 

 

Are you ready to have fun with the past? Remember the only way the past is still alive is in just a series of pictures sounds and feelings. Start the movie from the present now and run your movie backwards, rewinding the movie back to the beginning at birth or conception and filling in the empty frames you desire to change with all the new characters and sounds and feelings. Run the movie in full color leaving all the positive scenes as they are.  Do it now. Repeat the above process three times by fast forwarding in Black and white adding a coat of white out to all frames of the movie that require to be re-translated and imagined until the movie looks great with empty frames and positive memories.  Rewind the film distorting the characters and making the movie in full Color, almost funny and rewind back to the beginning filling all the empty frames that use to represent your past pain into a fun character filled funny sounding movie of your new life..

 

  

Bring your movie back to the very beginning where you originally started.

The better you imagine the more successful the re-imprinting of the past.

 

Now we going to add more resources to the movie. So as you stand at the beginning of the possibility to re-imagine the characters, the pictures, sounds and feelings, creating a new sound track, creating new characters in bright, vivid color, in the color of your circle of excellence and oneness.  We are going to place the qualities of that circle of oneness and we’re going to create new characters of your past where all of the characters are behaving and acting out of their circle of oneness with the heart, the compassion, the connection and the love of the essence of who they have eternally been.  All characters will be performing out of their circle of oneness and true self.  And your new film will take on the color of your circle of oneness. 

 

Create this new film in bright vivid color with every character acting out of their highest connection to whatever is divine in life.  When you’re ready you will begin your new film based in the color and the qualities of your circle of oneness.

Begin re-imagining your life now in the light of all your finest qualities and run the movie up until now.   Once at now, begin to rewind your film at high speed back to the beginning adding in more color, emotions and beautiful sounds.  Back to the beginning. 

 

Now we’re going to run your film through again.  This time we’re adding Steven Spielberg special effects, the highest quality of special effects.  Thx sound.  Make it three dimensional.  Make wind blowing.  Make symphonies playing.  You are just going to enhance these pictures so vividly, so powerfully with so much emotion into every single aspect of this film.  When you are ready, run the film through again and put in the most amazing colors in the color of your circle of oneness and each character acting out of the script of following their circle of oneness.  Run the film again please.  Enhance every frame.  More powerful.  More loving.  More compassionate.

 

Now that we’ve created new internal representations of your past, let’s bring this process to a gentle close  and allow your attention to return  to the now.

 

Now why and how does this process actually work?  The only way you know that you’re you is by the pictures, sounds and feelings in your head.  That’s it!  You’ve got eye patterns that retrieve your memories and go, ‘remember – this is what happened to you.   What if your eye patterns retrieve memories where all you saw was your circle of oneness flowing through every single memory of your past? 

 

 

The next opportunity we can take to explore our ability to shift the internal representations of our lives, is the concept of time.  In the quantum field time really doesn’t exist at all.  It is a construction of measurement. Time is very much like a river of life.  If we become attached to very little, or avoid becoming obsessed with the mundane, or things we cannot change, we begin to us our focus of mind beneficially.

 When we understand the river of time we will know that all things change constantly and is the only thing consistent that we have. It is not the events that occur in time within our lives that cause the pain, it is the meaning we have given those events that create either our heaven or our hell. It is the focus of our minds that either release us or imprison us.

Time is like a river, and the events in our lives are like leaves floating past us. What leaves do we choose to pick up and examine. For how long…And which do we choose to let flow by us.  The answer to this question will determine our degree of happiness.

 

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